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I'm 14 and a girl and I think I really want sex or the touch of someone else. I think about it a lot and I sometimes dream about it. I know I am really young so sex isn't really the best thing...I know about masterbating but I am afraid to touch down there. As in like skin to skin. Like using my finger. And I don't think I am comfortable on putting some house hold object up there either...and I definatly can't get a dildo. I need help...any adivce? (link)
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You have nothing to be afraid of.
It's just another part of your body. If anything, worry about washing your hands before and after, but otherwise, go to town down there. There is nothing wrong with wanting to know how your body works and enjoying it.
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Hello there..
To start off I use the site Teen Ink and I'm so happy I found that site because I get to publish things I want to speak up on, and I get to publish my story's for comments and good criticism. Well I'm not very good with that, the comments I get are "It's a good story, I really like it but theirs so many spelling errors and grammatical errors, but I should finish it." Okay, I want to because I love the story I'm writing but I get to the point where I don't believe I'm good enough to write a good story.
I'm good in English class, I'm planning taking advanced English next year, but ugh I want to be a good writer I don't know what I should do ..
Any advice? Thanks for reading.. (link)
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There are countless ways all writers could be better, but few who try to figure them out. I recently did some writing and had another writer come up from behind to look at the work I'd done in a passage of dialogue.
Their comment was that I had too many paragraphs indented.
Yeah.
I don't know your skillset or strengths, so I'm going to toss out a few common problems I see.
Grammar and spelling are the building blocks to writing something that people can read and understand. To, two, and too are obvious examples of what makes a story easy vs. hard to understand, where there, their and they're are more often mixed up. Learn 'em and love 'em (and all others like them).
After that comes the stuff that makes the story easy to read. Those include indents, capitalization, and punctuation.
Describe what people are doing when they say things:
"I enjoy picking my teeth with this icepick", declared Frank.
vs:
Frank frantically ripped into his gumline with the enormous icepick. "I'm going to have the best teeth ever!"
That's not the best example, but the idea is to show the reader what Frank is doing. It also avoids monotonous he said, she said traps. Spending a letters on description also helps to move the story forward, which readers will appreciate.
Good luck!
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so im a bit chunkiie and well im pretty much ok wiith my bodiie but everyone (not includeing my best friends) keep bugging me to loose weight specially my mom and well i think it would me nice for me to do so like i saiid im ok wiith my bodiie exsept i hale love handles and im not so fat that i have a muffin top but iit would be completly AWSOME if i could get my stomach to be flat! it would really help with all the teasing
so what do you guy recoment i would want somethin that i gss as fast as can b i kinda wanna wear a bikiniie thiis summer ;) (link)
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I've struggled with weightloss for a while, but I've had some awesome breakthroughs.
Here's some of the hints I picked up:
First, what goes it is what you'll use. Reduce your intake of fried foods. You don't need to eliminate them from your body; people tend to break down and pig-out if they deny themselves something, and that causes people to give up. Consider fries a treat that you have maybe once a week, or bi-weekly. Things like wings tend to be high in fat, and should be avoided.
Walk for about an hour per day. Anything less runs you the risk of a sedentary lifestyle. If you can, go longer. Walking is something most people should be able to handle and will burn up a lot of energy (any kind of movement exercise will actually burn more energy if you're... uh... bulkier, because you have more to move).
Remember that your cardiovascular system is powered by muscles. Physical activity will make it stronger, and as a result it will automatically burn more calories. Kick it up, and your metabolism will increase the amount of fat your body is burning and you'll merely have to maintain the system. Maintain it, and you'll be doing less than when you started for the same benefit.
Finally, balance your weightloss. Don't expect to lose more than 2-4 pounds per month. Your body needs time to adjust, so setting realistic goals will encourage you. Remember, that works out to 24-48 pounds per year, and dropping as little as 10 will be better for you all around. If you find that you've stopped losing weight, you've simply plateaued and you should either keep working out, or you should slightly increase the intensity of your workout.
A great source of information which I love to reference is located here: http://brainoverbrawn.com/get-the-book/ . That will link you to a PDF copy of Brain Over Brawn, which is a brilliant book that emphasizes the importance of setting realistic goals.
Good luck!
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I wanna know how to give head correctly and presurably to a male (link)
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The important thing to understand about the penis is that you're not trying to siphon out whatever's inside. Suction serves to create more contact against the inside of your mouth and to add a different sensation - it does not get us off 100%, but it helps.
You know how your clitoris gets you off by rubbing? The head of the penis works pretty much the same way. When it's stroked, coddled, played with, or otherwise dabbled with in all the right ways, it'll get 'em there.
The key is to slobber all over the thing. The head is the most sensitive part, but the shaft also adds to the sensation. Think of it like a lollipop, as your tongue circles around it from time to time, and occasionally bob your head along it.
Any other stimulation, from lightly massaging the scrotum to rubbing his legs will enhance the experience. Humming/moaning will also provide stimulation by creating vibrations and by creating feedback sounds. The more into it you can get, the better it'll be for him.
I hope that helps - have fun!
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well i have been with my boyfriend for only 3 months and i am pregnant and i want to keep it. he seems to be ok with it but i need to know for sure he is ok with it. i want to know how to tell he is really ok with having this baby and what questions should i ask him so that when i face my parents with it i have some form of answers to answer them about the babies father.. thanx in advance. (link)
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It's your decision about whether to keep the baby. It's your body, etc., and you're free to do what you will.
You sound reluctant about your boyfriend's willingness to accept this.
Is your pregnancy showing yet? How does he react to it? Do you still spend time with him, or is he becoming distant? What difference would it make if he truly wouldn't be ok with it? These are questions you should ask yourself, because it will help you figure out how to deal with him.
He should be excited about it and he should be working hard now to help all of you later. You'll all need to work out living arrangements - will you stay with him, he with you, or will you build a life together outside of your homes (I'm not sure if you're still living at home).
These are the practical questions you both need to sort out sooner rather than later. Giving birth is the first step to having a baby, and raising a child is a life-long responsibility for the parents and the child.
If it gets difficult, remember that there are always those precious moments that you'll remember years later!
Good luck!
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What happens when the guys finishes first and he just stops leaving you unsatisfied? Do they know to keep going or do us girls have to tell them to not stop? (link)
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The penis is a embodies the paradox of man, who tries to exert control over his body and yet the very symbolism of that control is, itself, untamed...
Er, right, enough pseudo philosophy, and more tragedy! After blowing it's load, the Penis wants nothing more than to shrivel up to its flaccid state. Nothing in the world changes this slow descent into a shameful pile of disappointment for both partners involved, but measures can be done to enhance the experience it tries to encourage.
First of all, foreplay is critical! The penis is always ready and willing to spring forth to life and invade the jungles and caves of Vaginia, but the cock-dock isn't always as prepared. Foreplay can come in many ways, from oral, to digital (with your fingers, or by watching porn on the Internet), or whatever else works for both of you. Once you're primed, it'll be much easier for you to go boldly where you wanted to end up.
As for him, there are mental tricks that can work. The most common example I've seen cited is the countdown-thrust trick - he counts to 10 to himself, using shallow thrusts, and on the tenth, he thrusts deeper. On the second cycle, his deep thrusts come at 9, and then 8, and so on. The idea is to mentally distract himself while limiting his own stimulation, which prolongs the experience for the pair of you.
These are a couple of ways that might help you become more satisfied in the sack, but I'm sure others will have different things that'll help do the trick.
Good luck!
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What does it mean when a guy says he's going to go down on me? (link)
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He is expressing his intention to perform oral sex on you.
As a courtesy, keep it clean down there. He'll love you more for it.
Don't be afraid to tell him where you like to get poked and prodded. He's going the distance for you, but sometimes we guys need a map. "There... A bit more here... OH GAWD RIGHT THERE *squeal*" are the cues we like to listen for.
Relax and have fun!
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what ideas are good for the talent show. (link)
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The key to a talent show is to be fearless. Put yourself in to the mindset of the attendees:
They will be sitting down to watch a number of performances that showcase all kinds of talents that range from the hilarious to the ridiculous. Each of those performers have at some point or another started by doing something that some people thought was catchy but others probably doubted. My brother, for example, plays the violin, which I can't stand on its own, but I know he plays it well and he plays for other people.
So what do you do? What would you like to do? Think of a talent show not merely as a way of expressing a skill that you know you have, but also as a way of discovering a talent you've never explored.
Some performances do tend to get ignored, but have a wide appeal. I puppeteer, for example, and while it's easy to flick a TV on to watch Sesame Street, the true challenge is in performing puppets, with their mouths moving to your words, and their arms gesturing.
Remember, this is an exploration, which means you should go out and explore the skill before you finish building a show around it. Cool people watch Youtube videos of other performers so they can study the techniques of others who are in that field, not simply mimic them.
Of course, puppets is simply one suggestion, and you should really make this a personal exploration that involves yourself and maybe some of your buddies.
Hope that helps.
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what are the minerals needed by the plants and its corresponding function?
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This feels like a homework question.
I'll answer part of your question to give you a bump in the right direction.
NPK are the ratios you read on your fertilizer bags in big, bold numbers describing their ratios. N = Nitrogen, P is Phosphurous, and the K means Potassium. Those are Macro-nutrients.
Micro-nutrients (Google that word for more information) include Calcium, Magnesium, Boron, Chlorine, Copper, Iron, Molypdenum, and Zinc. Most of these have generic effects on plants, since they affect the same systems - hormonal or photosynthetic systems - but different plants will use them in different proportions.
Finally, certain forms of these nutrients can easily kill a plant. Copper Sulphide, for example, is an effective weeding agent, but added to an (otherwise plant-safe) bucket of paint which is then painted inside a pot, can kill the root tips, effectively pruning them and encouraging dense root growth.
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Okay, so recently my computer is being really stupid. It likes to make 'error' beeping noises randomly for no reason at all while I'm in the midest of typing or something. I checked for viruses and whatnot, but nothing's there. Also, while I type, sometimes it'll have me stop typing and it'll make more error noises and I have to retype because what I typed didn't show up. Or it will drag out the last letter through a whole paragraph and it's very irritating. Any ideas of what could be going on?
I hope it doesn't have anything to do with the fact that I keep my computer on all day and all night, except on school days. (link)
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The problem where they keys seem to "freeze", or the computer appears to be waiting before suddenly spilling a series of characters onto the screen usually happens when the computer cannot clear the keyboard's buffer. In geek terms, the buffer can hold up to fifteen character presses before the computer starts to emit beeps. Once the computer catches up, the keys it did catch will appear on the screen and you'll be good to go, but not all of your characters will make it (since the buffer was full).
In simple terms: The computer is bogged down and can't keep up with the stuff you type.
Naturally, this is a problem. Virtually no computer should be affected by such a problem since the time it takes for the computer to process a keystroke is nil and the legacy problems that would have been responsible died with Windows XP. Under normal circumstances, leaving your computer on shouldn't be a problem; servers are on all the time and many run Windows, and the Laptop I'm using right now has been on for 11 days. But occasionally, conditions where the CPU is spiked will cause this kind of problem to appear. I see it a lot myself doing the kind of work I do.
To give you the best answer, we need some information. What version of Windows are you using? How much RAM do you have on the computer? How old is the computer? What web browser are you using (Firefox - my browser of choice - sometimes spikes the CPU and needs to be restarted to behave)? Does the problem occur when you have certain applications open? A certain number of applications open? What did you install or update recently?
As a test, you might want to try creating a new user on your computer and using it for a few hours to see if the problem occurs under that account. It might seem inconvenient, but it will help you figure out if the problems can be isolated to that account.
These are generic steps you can take to help narrow the problem down without testing with another keyboard. There are others, but they are situation-dependant and may be better suited to the service of a technician.
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my name is Rachel and iam 22 years old and my boyfriend billy is 29 but his black and iam afraid to bring him to meet my dad becouse he is really racist he told me that if I ever had a black boyfriend he would disown me and my whole dad's side of the family would disown me to. I don't have to worry about letting him meet my mom though becouse my stepdad is black but how do I let him to meet my boyfriend without my dad disowning me and saying mean things to him? (link)
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Do you need to introduce them?
Sometimes families grow apart over many kinds of issues. Often they are mutual differences which cannot be reconciled. Other times, they are conditions which are unilaterally decided by one of the people involved.
To your father, the issue is that the person is black, not that you love them. You can try to help him see your view, but you must also accept the possibility that you might not be able to talk to him ever again after this.
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Is it possible to contract an STD by accidentally touching semen because now I have an std (link)
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Sexually transmitted infections can be spread through contact. If his semen is a carrier for the infection, and you have it come in contact with a part of your body that is susceptible to the infection, then yes, you can contract it.
More information, such as the suspected infection can help people determine what you've got and what you can do about it. Some STIs can be stopped if caught early.
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i am 14 yrs and am 1mth preggers and dont know what i should do. i hate the thought of an abortion and adoptipton but i am only 14 and am still a kid... what should i do, is an abortion the right chioce? (link)
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This is one of those cases where if you have to ask, then chances are you've been affected by a lot of what people say about abortion.
First, separate yourself from the situation. If you knew about a 14 year old who was pregnant, what do you think the best option would be for them? What does pregnancy mean to you?
The pro-life position is that pregnancy begins at conception, and what you have inside of you is a human being. The pro-choice position is that you have a fetus developing inside of you and you have domain over your body.
Do you believe that you have domain over your body? How do you feel about what's happening inside you? When you boil it down, you're the only person who should make the choice about what to do about your situation. This might be your first hard decision in your life, but it might also be the easiest one. But don't put it off for too long; there is a point of no return.
Call your local planned parenthood. They'll provide you with information without bias. They can also help council you on the process, should you decide to obtain an abortion.
Good luck.
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i am only 12 years old and today in school i like totally got stained and i didn't expect t to be this much. How can i find out when it is gonna be over with because im am so tired of it. (link)
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Schools are setup to handle this. The know that students will often experience their first periods in school and they stock the gear you'll need to deal with it in the office.
If you're in need of help in order to deal with this, go to the office right away. They'll understand, and they'll set you up.
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How protected are you using condoms during sexual intercourse?
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Condoms are a barrier contraceptive method that are designed to tightly hug the skin around their open end. If they are used correctly, they are extremely reliable, but here are some hints to ensure that reliability stays high:
First, always ensure that they are unrolled over the penis the right way the first time. Pre-cum can contain sperm and it only takes one to cause a pregnancy. Each load carries millions upon billions. If you goof up, use a new condom!
Never use more than one at a time. Putting two on one penis at once will cause the latex to rub against themselves which will increase the likelihood of a rip. Rips are, like, totally uncool!
Don't use Vaseline or other oil-based lubricants. Mineral Oil? Baby Oil? Both are bad. They chemically eat rubber like bleach can eat skin. Instead, shell out a few bucks for a water-based lubricant, such as KY Jelly or whatever. Bonus: KY comes in all kinds of forms, from plain ol' slippery when wet to flavoured, icy-hot, and BBQ Sauce (I'm sure I made a few of those up, but you get the idea).
If you can't get a lubricant, then get into more foreplay, as your body can also provide its own lubricants. Also, make sure your condoms come pre-lubricated. The more slippery things get, the better sex is for both of you, and the happier your condoms will be.
That oughta cover the girth of your question.
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Me and this guy hung out and hooked up and he wanted to go farther and I said no and he's like pleasee, we'll take it slow after this but I still said no, I asked him bout it in the morning he said he didn't want a relationship and then we stopped tlaking then he started talking to me again and he asked me for nudes and asked me to strip for him and I said no and he always wants to chill and I said no because I thought it was a booty call so I said no but then like the third time he got mad and I was like sorry I want respect and don't wanna be used! And he's like I'm not using you I like you and I'm like what about when you said you don't want A relationship and he's like well I've missed you since then :( and hooking up with someone you like isnt so bad because it could bring us closer. so I dunno if he just wants action or likes me?
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pls help!
kaaitlyn (link)
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It sounds like you already know the answer to this question, but I'll make it clear: Yes, he's using you.
You have good cause not to trust him as it is; sending him nudes of yourself may result in emotional blackmail. Don't let yourself become a victim to that.
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First of all, no judgements.
If I were to get pregnant with my boyfriend and before the abortion time limit he decides to stray(cheat, leave me, etc) and I find myself suddenly unable to go through with the pregnancy for whatever reason, does he have a right to say no? In other words, can the law stop me from having an abortion if he doesn't want me to have one?
If that were to happen, I don't see why it would be fair that he makes me go through 9 months of hell so he can have the kid when he was unreliable and irresponsible enough to cheat or leave me... once again, no judgements, please. I just need to know my options.. (link)
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Your body is yours to do with it what you please. In the USA, Roe V. Wade makes the issue very clear - it's your domain to do what you wish if you decide you don't want to carry the fetus to term, but bare in mind that some states have conditions attached to that freedom.
Don't let his sperm anchor him to you. Do what's right for you. Planned Parenthood, or your local public health clinic are your best options toward figuring out what's right for you.
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whats the first sign of pregnancy besides a missed period? (link)
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Contrary to popular to belief, your belly won't swell up for a few months. Missed periods are one of the first, but breast growth and sensitivity and nausea might happen earlier. Peeing a lot might also be a sign.
There are dozens of others that I probably don't know about.
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i realy like this boy named orry snyder and i am scared to tell him that so how can i get him to like me but not scare him away when trying to get him to be mine. will you help me and soon please.
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Send him a link to this question.
Too forward? Then grab him by the wrist and drag his ass to an alcove and tell him that you think you should both definitely see a movie together.
When you do this, his legs will turn to rubber and he'll freak out a bit. You'll be betting the farm on this one, but you'll be a lot better off if you act quickly. Insist on it and he'll probably agree to at least one date.
You want the hum-drum easy way? Fine... Slip him an envelope with your name, number, and the words "Call me plz". That'll get his attention and shatter the ice to pieces, and it will leave the ball in his court, which he might appreciate.
Good luck!
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I'm not really sure if i put this in the correct category, but anyways. I am 16 years old and ever since i was about 11 i used cutting as a way to take control of stuff that is happening in my life. It has been used from the death of loved ones,boyfriend issues, friendship issues, school problems, cancer of my youngest brother and even sometimes when i get too happy. I always hide the cuts, and usually cut over scars that i already have made. A close friend of mine was recently sent to a special hospital for cutting and that made me realize that i have a BIG problem. I just didn't know what else to do so PLEASE help me! (link)
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You use cutting as a way of dealing with problems. I don't have any background in psychology, but I'd say that on some level you might be using it as a way to deal with guilt. When an event that triggers your need to cut yourself happens, do you ever feel like you're not emotionally engaged enough? Do you feel guilty about your feelings?
The best thing to do is to follow-up with a psychological therapist and to work with them. They can help you track down and deal with the problem. But if that's not an option, you'll need to look within yourself to understand why it happens.
Don't ever feel like you need to punish yourself for anything, but don't confuse restraint and self-control with punishment. If you can't say no to a slice of cake, that's a restraint issue. If you feel like hacking yourself up because of that cake, that's punishment. And in the same view, if you don't think you feel "sad enough" or you think you're "too sad" at a funeral, you might feel ashamed. In that case, you need to accept the fact that everyone deals with these things differently.
Finally, remember that acceptance isn't something that you can order yourself to do - it takes time and rationale. You need to let it set in. Ask your parents about what acceptance is for them. Ask them how they felt at any of these tragedies.
Good luck.
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