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is this slutty?
i am 13, i have gotten fingered and felt up multiple times.. it isnt bad because it feels good but im also only in 6th grade. i have sent pictures.. but with a bra on. i am not dating the person who fingered me or felt me up, and it has happend with more than one guy. please tell me what u think.
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Okay sweetie, your 13. I personally think you should stop now. because it could soon lead to other things. things that your probably not ready for and people will start thinking things and you could get a bad name, you dont want that and picture, once you send them you dont know what the other persond going to do with them. he could show his friends, send them to other people, and even put them on the internet. just because it feels good doesnt mean its the right thing to do. you need to start thinking of your self and whats right for you. If your alone with a boy and its getting to that just tell them no, that you dont want to and if they keep pushing for it, LEAVE.
People won't respect you unless you respect yourself, you have your whole life to do those things. just try being a kid:)
Good luck sweetie, i hope you make the right decisions from now on:)
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Im sorry to say this but you have no self respect! your 13!? seriously.... Urm i'm no one to give you bad names but as you grow up people are going to start naming you things.
You have to change .. your still a child!
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I don't think you should be doing this becouse your only 13 and you don't fully coprehend the consequences of sexual activity. please try to stay a kid as long as you can honey and please wait untill your old enough to understand what going on.
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I don't like labelling people as 'slutty' because I think people are entitled to do as they wish sexually, as long as it doesn't impact negatively on other people and they understand the implications. Unfortunately, it's likely that your peers will view you as a 'slut' and you know that, or you wouldn't be asking.
However, I don't think that's the issue here. The issue is that you are a child. At 13, not only is it illegal for you to be engaging in sexual activities, you are also unlikely to be emotionally ready for any implications. As for sending pictures, that's dangerous territory. Any explicit images could land you and anyone who has copies of them in very hot water indeed. Want to know why? Because it would be considered child pornography. Regardless, teenage boys aren't the most subtle or tactful. Any pictures you've sent are likely to have been circulated or at the very least shown to his friends.
Ultimately it is your body and you're going to do what you want with it. Having said that, you certainly aren't going to gain any respect from yourself or anyone around you by doing what you're doing and it's pretty likely you'll regret your actions when you're older.
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well considering how old you are if you continue to do this and you become exposed and people find out then you're on your to becoming a slut
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Those good feelings are normal. Although you should not let guys do what you want. Sending pictures is a very risky thing to do.
For starters your not dating this guy. This guy might share these pictures with all his friends,. and maybe yours. There is a chance that these pictures will be e-mailed. Facebooked even. And once it's on the internet your teachers might be the ones seeing them. So be very very careful what pictures you send to anyone. as far as is it slutty. your on the way to being labeled that. You shouldn't make yourself available for anyone in that way unless your in a serious relationship.
Hope this helps*
*Jasmine^
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You're definately on your way to being labeled the slutty girl. I totally understand those sexual feeling you're having at that age and the need to be liked by boys. You can masturbate and make yourself feel good with out the help of a boy. I would wait a few years and please wait until you have a steady boyfriend, before you start letting boy's have their way with you. Pretty soon, they'll be wanting to go farther and expect you do things, you might not be ready to handle. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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