hi im 13/f and i am really confused i went out with this guy for like a year.during that year he never once kissed me,never asked me to call him and we never held hands or anything but after a year he broke up with me.i dont no the reason but he did. i still have really strong feelings for him.so a year passed by and he is in a lot of my classes.in one class he sits right next to me and lately he has been talking to me a lot and flirting and he even likes to sit under my desk during class while we r watching a movie.he even told me to call him and gave me his number and walks with me to my next class,he invites to hang out with him at lunch at school, lately i feel like closer to him then i have when we were going out,why is hes doing this
cuz if he likes me still why did he break up with me?if he asks me out do i take the second chance cuz i really like him alot? help soon please
t.l.h.
All I can say is maybe he was just shy the firt time and wants another chance,try making the first move on him this time and see how things play out,call him and try to talk to him about it too,hope everything works out for you guys
Jasmine
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My boyfriend is leaving to go back to India for six months or so. We have broken up with the possibility of getting back together when he returns. I just wanted to know if i should wait around for him or move on and find another relationship.
Well this is actually kind of hard to answer, if you are destined to wait around for him, you'll know, but if someone special comes into your path before hr doed again, I would take that as a sign, but I would'nt go seeking anyone quit yet,all I can say is listen to your heart and you'll know for sure,hope I could help
Jasmine
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ok i love this girl and i have a question to ask her. i was hoping you could help me, what cn i do to make her realise how much i love her and care for her.
your boyfriend,
-rob
Lol, good question but everything you have done for her so far has shown her, so i would'nt worry about that great job, and keep it up, lol,
Love always, Jasmine
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Here's the deal. Me and my Girlfriend have been going out for a year and she's now at a different school than me. We live a fair distance apart so we rarely see each other and we seem to be talking less and less.
And now when we see each other it seems the spark just isn't there. I think we should break up but i'm not sure how to tell her.
P.S. I'm a 14 year old male
i'm sorry to say but your just going to have to tell her straight up, I hope everything works out with you , best of luck!!
Jasmine
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I'm 90 percent positive that my friend has feelings for me; but just needed someone elses opinion.
I'll let you be the judge. We were friends for about 2 years and then several months ago he had to move away for a job in another state. Before he moved he gave me his computer so we could stay in touch. I never asked for one or anything he just offered it to me which I thought was a really sweet gesture. We messenger each other whenever he's not at work and he always signs off by saying "chow bella" which means bye beautiful in italian. Just in the last two weeks he has done two really romantic things for me. The first was that he sang happy birthday to me on my voice mail for my birthday in a sweet voice and said he'd be mailing up a gift. The other thing was that when I told him that I caught the bridal bouqeut at my cousins wedding last week he said "hopefully you won't marry anyone from (the town I live in). Since he lives out of town I think he was hinting something. When we have our talks on the internet he flirts with me and says things like I'm funny and a great person to know and talk to. Sometimes we talk for more than a hour. He is pretty shy and likes to beat around the bush and hasnt actually said he loves me- but I think his actions show it.
What do you think?
I most definitly think he likes you, the next time you see him try to bring up in a conversation your guys' future together and ask him where he sees you both in a few years, hope everything works, out
(chow bella, very cute ^_^, lol)
Jasmine
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I have a friend, a bisexual guy friend who just got out of a pretty serious relationship (with a girl), the details of which I am unaware of. What I do know is that they were close friends and then one day, he just decided he didn't want to be in a relationship with her anymore. The thing is, up to about a few weeks ago, he's been spending a lot of time with me - for instance, one week, we'd see each other every other day. We go to the movies together, bowling, the park and he'd come over and have dinner with me. But, he never calls (well, once or twice, but only because I think he felt guilted into it) or emails or anything. We get along great, and lately, I've been feeling very attracted to him. The thing is, how do I find out if he feels anything for me? It seems like he is really soured from his ex, and he told me he's no longer interested in dating any friends. Yet he keeps hanging out with me, just the two of us. This is so confusing! Does he want more? I think I might.
I would try just to casually bring it up in a conversation, just say something like "do you ever see us going out?" or if that's a little too deep try getting a friend of yours to talk to him about it that always works or you can set up a little "skit" get a friend of yos to e with you and say 'you know you guys would make a really good couple" and see what his reaction is too that, it could end up making things even deeper with you guys, I hope everything works out with you
Jasmine
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For some reason everytime my ex boyfriend is around I make sure I'm all over my current boyfriend. Why is this??
the answer is imple actually, you may not think so but you want to get him jelous so you can see what his reaction to this is, it is even possible that you are trying to get him back by making him jelous, girls are known to do that sometimes, and it usually work too ^_^
Jasmine
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i am 16 and my boyfriend has been talking about getting married he said he was going to ask me to marry him soon...how do you guys feel about teenage marriage? and why do you feel this way? i need ohter teens advice! thanks xox
oh no! i would most definitly wait!!!!!! because my firned got married at 16 and they very shortly after divorced because they both agreed that they were too young to hold together a house and family and kids alone. and besides you have your whole life ahead of you, and the guy you have now may not be "the one" as you think he is, i've heard it happen before, i hope the best for you no matter what decision you choose, ^_^
Jasmine
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this always happens to me i start liking someone and then when they start liking me i stop liking them. guys ask me out everyonce in a while but i akways turn them down even if i like them , i have had 3 boyfriends bf not serious tho. and always end up dumping them, so for the past month i have been liking this guy chris, hes really funny and nice. but... he does drugs. lots. and hes not a virgin. so hes starting to like me and is like all over me, but now i have stopped liking him, i am practically giving false hope, if he asks me out and i say no. he probably end up hating. but i would like to be friend, i just dont kno if tahts even possble what should i do to get him to stop flirting with me so much so we can just be friends:/
(hmmm strange i'm in the same situation,) the only thing to tell you is to just slowly stop talking to him, talk to him less each day and eventually he willl find someone else, it sounds stupid but a friend of mine tried it before and it actually worked,, but then once your sure that he does not like you anymore talk to him a little more so that he know that you still want to be firends with him, hope i could help and good luck with evetything!
Jasmine
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I really need advice. I'm so low in self esteem its crazy. I'm dating my bestfriend and im completely depressed. I love him SO much and he seems to be happy and he loves me too. But, I'm not happy. I get so jealous all the time, because he hangs out sometimes with his ex-girlfriend. Then i feel like i'll never compare to her, and i push away from him and put up this emotional wall. I'm not always unhappy, but im afraid of loosing him and thats when i get upset. Is there anything i can do, to stop getting jealous and start being more self confident? I also hang out with my ex too, and i know its not fair that i get mad when he does. Oh someone please help me!
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Good question, I have the same problem, what I would do is just do something that helps your self esteem, like wear the perfect outfit the next time you are around your boyfriend, you'll feel great, knowing that you look great, and as for his x-girlfriend thing, the only thing i can tell you is to just try to talk to him about it and know the signs when he is flirting with her if her even does, i hope everything works out with you, hope i could help ^_^
Jasmine
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Okay, so like I'm 13/f and my name is JJ There is this boy at school who I think likes me, Like he smiles when I smile at him(not in a polite way) and when we joke around(Oh, whoever is wearing Blue is gay or whoever is sitting is gay or who ever is working is gay you get the point) he never says stuff about me only everybody else.( yes I know this is mean but I still do it I can be a BIG bratt or should I say asshole at times I know I shouldn't be cussing)but when we are mean to lesser people well you know less popular people, he teams up on my side. and he looks please when I laugh at or with him(if it is funny) and when I bring up my ex(the last one until I'm 16, maybe) he looks jealous, he remebers stuff about me I even forget about, and we laugh about it or talk and stuff and he sticks up for me all the time do you think he likes me? And yes I know I shouldn't get emotionaly involved with him so please don't give me that line of crap I've heard it WAY to many times before
actually yes, it does seem as if he is flirting with you, but you should get a friend of yours to talk to him first to see if he does like you, or he could just be teasing you, guys tend to do that sometimes, hope everything works out with you guys!
Jasmine
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I can't get over my fear of guys. I just can't be myself around them, i flirt by total accisdent and i put myself down around them, like i ahev this one fried he CAN DO EVRYHTING, 5 instruments, 3 types of dance, sports, he does it ALL. Compared to me i cant do anything i feel really abd about ithisa dn wish i could just act somewhat at the same level of succesfulness as him. I'm trying to learn to do mroe things because of him but until then, i don't know how to act like myself, teh thing that makes it worse around this particiular guy is that we used to go around,a nd i think i have leftover felings for him, nad hes in 7th grade im in 8 th, evrybody tells me he is immature and i dont think tehy want me to be friends with him but im sacred it i wont be friends wiith him then ill be even more scared of guys then i am now. this iused to eb abig problem i coudlnt even say a word to guys and now im good, but i just need help ebing myself. Confidence!
Most people do struggle with confidence,all you need is something to give you a boost of confidence,something that will make you feel good about yourself,try this-play your favorite song,put on your favorite outfit,do your hair and make-up along with everything else you'll feel great after you do! then try calling the boy that you like,you'll feel more confident talking to him,and since your not face to face with him it will be eaiser to tell him what you want,hope this helps ^_^ and good luck!!
Jasmine,
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ok, so i think that i may like this guy who is about 2 years younger than me. i think he's a good guy and he's nice to me. i'm not sure if he likes me too. what are some signs that i should look for to see if he likes me, without asking him if he does?
Well you'll definitly be able to tell,he may just come out and say it after awhile or just watch for the signs of him flirting,like him sitting close to you,stuttering because he's nervous talking to you,just stuff like that,but trust me you'll be able to tell,hope this helps and good luck!
Jasmine,
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Okay. This is going to be a longer entry but i'd really love the advice, i need some help on this one. So there's a guy at my school. this is going to sound incredibly typical, but i really do like him a lot. I have for a long time, i think its been about 5-6 years. We were together on and off for the majority of last year, but we had some conflicts and he said he didnt want a romantic relationship over the summer, but maybe once school started up again. This school year is almost over, and he's basically told me and some of my friends he liked me. We flirt with each other a lot, but every once in a while we just kind of stop talking, like for a week or so. I dont really know why, except that he's kind of shy when it comes to me. But with other people he's totally out there, and doesnt hold back at all. Recently, another girl has started to like him too. She's apparently really obsessed, and i do mean obsessed. She writes poems about him and basically freaks out everytime she hears his name. she follows him around and he's all she ever talks about. He knows about all of it, and has no interest in her. i feel bad for her, but at the same time i'm kind of annoyed. she found out he liked me and watches me all the time. her friends question me, him, his friends, my friends, and other people about our feelings for eachother all the time. One of this girls friends asked him if he liked me and he said if he liked me he'd ask me out. I was disappointed at first but just earlier that week we'd been flirting like crazy and his friends were telling everybody about how he talks about me so much and how much he likes me. I'd love to talk to him about it but the truth is i'm totally shy. I really need some advice, either on what i could do to get over my fears or what some of that stuff means. For those of you who read this far, thank you so much. Like i said i really need some help. ♥
Well there's no way to get around it,your just going to have to talk to him,the more you do the more comfterable you will be with talking to him,then you will no longer have the whole being shy thing,hope this helps
Jasmine,
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My name is Jay im actually a coulmnist on this website but would like advice from someone else for a change.
The thing is i moved to Spain 4 years ago and i fell in love for the first time and the girl is great. But now i have moved back to my home country and she has moved to another country and the only thing i have is her e-mail adress. But since she didnt even notice me when we were in the same place how is she supposed to talk to me on MSN or anything. I have no clue what to do, i cant get over her.
What should i do? Im 14 by the way.
Well do anything you can to stay in touch with her if u do truly care about her,even though there is a distance between you 2 one day your paths will once again cross and when they do,you'll be thankful for trying to hang on to your relationship with her hope this helps
Jasmine,
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I fell in love with this guy and i wondering whether i love him now or just plain dont like him anymore. I knew for a afct that i loved because i would always think about and couldnt wait to see him the next time in church. That was for the past four years. He borrowed my bass and learned to play even though he isnt that good. He gave mine back and boght his own and now thats all he talks about to me is all the songs he learned and nothing else. How he wants to join my brothers band. He is driving me crazy because we used to talk about other things now bass is the only thing he wants to talk about one time he admitted he liked me but we didnt do anything about it and i not so sure i want a relationship with a person who wants to be with his bass more than me. I was wondering do i hate or am i just plain annoyed with him. Or am i so in love that its driving me cray and the littlest things bother me now.
Well you could still be in love with him,but maybe he does'nt feel comfterable talking to you aout other things anymore because he does'nt no what to say,guys do that sometimes,they'll just ramble on about 1 subject...or nothing just to avoid the awkward silences,try starting a new conversation with him,he could just be a little bit more shy now than he used to be,hope this helps
Jasmine,
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i had this dream the other night about my ex-boyfriend that i dumped. we were SO inlove and we were together for 6 months, but we literally don't talk anymore. i don't know if im over him, but he seems to be over me.
anyway, i had a dream that we were sitting, a group of friends (him included), and then we're alone all of a sudden, and im in his arms and he gives me a tight and emotional hug that i feel my heart leap and hurt when i wake up. usually, i forget dreams but this one is always on my mind. what does it mean? do i still love him? im freaked and i really nedd help and i would appreciate it more than anything if you helped me out.
thanx if you read till here, and please help me through this..
yours truly.
Trust me on this even though you may not like what i'm going to say....your still in love with him,when you dream about a guy like that,and have such an emotional connection to the dream and that person,your definitly still in love,either that,or if that dream actually ever happened in real life before,your brian is just playing back past memories through your dreams,try as hard as you can to get back in contact with this guy,it just might pay off,hope this helps you a bit, ^_^
Jasmine,
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so... i finally got my first makeout. me and the guy had it planned. well, i went in and i'm sure either i messed it up ors omething but he said i wasn't bad at all, but i don't know.... i didn't really like it, kinda? i think it was just the guy. but now i'm scared that i'll think kissing/making out isn't fun at all. is it really fun? or do you think that i just didn't think so 'cause my first time i was nervous and it was all planned...? haha sorry, i'm just really confused, any help will be great. :D
(good question my first kiss was'nt so fun either)here's a few options,he was a bad kisser,you were a bad kisser,you did'nt really love him when you kissed him(that's what makes it speacial)or it's just not so fun,idk if there's really an answer to that,some people like kissing some people don't,I guess it just depends on what you perfer, ^_^, mabi it will be better the next time u never know
Jasmine,
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14/f
well for me it kind of gets really depressing when i see all these couples and people finding 'the one' and i feel left out, i have had my chances but they just want me for something else.im not exactly the prettiest person alive, actually im far from it. and i cant seem to find him, its really making me mad/sad/depressed. i know when the right time comes it will happen but do you think you can give me some tips to hold up till then because it seems like it will never happen, or wont it
Everyone has someone for them,no matter who they are,all I can tell you is just wait for the right one to come along,there's not really any tips I can give you,but when the right one comes you'll know who they are,for all you know,you could meet him tomorrow,always look forward to the day ahead of you,each days brings more chances to meet someone,Hope this helps
Jasmine,
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Ok.. Im kinda new to this so ima try my best.
Keep in mind I'm 15 years old and im a guy.
theres this girl in one of my classes that im starting to like a lot. we flirt and stuff like thta but she has a guy friend she always chills with at lunch. I dont know what their relationship is. I know she doesnt have a boyfriend. But she always talks about chillen with him, and him comin over etc.
How do I find out how close these to are? I dont wanna come out and ask cause we arent that close yet. Also i dont wanna keep movin in on this girl if she already has something going with this other guy. Help me out please.
ok,good question,is it possible that you have a good relationship with one of her friends that know her really well to where you could ask one of them?? her friends would definitly know.it is possible that they are just really good friends,make sure that she knows that she likes you though,hope this could help ^_^
Jasmine,
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