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Does he love me or just think of me as a friend?
I'm 90 percent positive that my friend has feelings for me; but just needed someone elses opinion.
I'll let you be the judge. We were friends for about 2 years and then several months ago he had to move away for a job in another state. Before he moved he gave me his computer so we could stay in touch. I never asked for one or anything he just offered it to me which I thought was a really sweet gesture. We messenger each other whenever he's not at work and he always signs off by saying "chow bella" which means bye beautiful in italian. Just in the last two weeks he has done two really romantic things for me. The first was that he sang happy birthday to me on my voice mail for my birthday in a sweet voice and said he'd be mailing up a gift. The other thing was that when I told him that I caught the bridal bouqeut at my cousins wedding last week he said "hopefully you won't marry anyone from (the town I live in). Since he lives out of town I think he was hinting something. When we have our talks on the internet he flirts with me and says things like I'm funny and a great person to know and talk to. Sometimes we talk for more than a hour. He is pretty shy and likes to beat around the bush and hasnt actually said he loves me- but I think his actions show it.
What do you think?
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I most definitly think he likes you, the next time you see him try to bring up in a conversation your guys' future together and ask him where he sees you both in a few years, hope everything works, out
(chow bella, very cute ^_^, lol)
Jasmine
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i tottaly thinks he likes you next time you talk to him ask if he has met any new(girlfriend) if not you should tottally ask him out wats to loose hope i helped
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Yes!I think he likes you,bella!!!! Well, i think that you should ask him first if he likes one girl or if he is with someone...And then, ask him if he likes you or sth like that..Well, if yes then you should think about having a boyfriend and don't caring about the distance... Hope i helped!!!!
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hey, i think he loves youu! the best thing to do is ask. without being desperate that is. start it off casually like. so do you have a luck lady down there? or something like that. cait♥
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Judging from the information here, he seems to be crazy about you. He has devoted a significant amount of energy and time to signal to you that he wants to be more than just friends with you. Along with being shy, I would guess that he may also be scared of damaging the relationship that you two share; if he tells you of his feelings and you are not feeling the same way.
I am not sure if you are a shy person also, but I would highly recommend having a heart to heart talk with him about what direction you both want the relationship to head. During one of your conversations it would be easy to lead the conversation in that direction without being too blunt, and possibly embarrassing one or both of you. I feel that if he had some sort of signal from you that you feel a romantic inclination (If you indeed do) then he would probably open up to you and let you know his feelings.
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