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ex problems. ):
Okay, so this guy that i`ve been wit` since we met jus` recently broke up. We were together for 15 1/2 months. He took me back everytime I cheated or anythin` like that. But, this time, he broke up wit` me. He said he loves me still, && that we`ll get back together "soon". But, right now he has "too much drama" && "not enough time" for a girlfriend. I love him so much && I want him back. This all happend 4/21. Everytime I talk to him..I cry on the phone..off the phone, or whenever I think about him. I want him back. I feel like no other guy is worth my time, but him. He`s my everythin`. I jus want to know how I would be able to start the "soon" process.
oh by the way..he`s livin` wit` lesbians && he gets mad when I talk to ANY of my guy friends. But i`m perfectly fine wit` that. I`ll stop talkin` to EVERY guy, jus` to have him back.
HELLPPp!!
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I think you should fall backand let him deal with what hes going through i know your not going to want to do that but you dont want to be with him why hes going through somethings let him get the drama out his life and i promise hell come back
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well you obviously dont want him as much as you think or say if you cheated on him more than once when you had him, however it takes things like these to make people realise what they had and how lucky they were to have them. my advice is you should give your ex as much time as he needs and be his friend for now. he will appriciate it .
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hey, well it sounds like you cheated more then once. if you cheated then that means you really werent serious about him and wanted something more. dont shut off yoru life for this guy. ther are other guys out there for you. maybe just not right now. cait♥
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Honestly i think by the way you say things on here that you took advantage of cheating&that you have cheated more then once&you knew that even tho you cheated he wouldnt leave you. I bet you told him after the first time you cheated that you would never do it again and you did it again&again. Now i dont know you at all So if im wrong im sorry. But if im right i think that maybe he had a reason to leave you&&maybe he will take you back he just needs time to spend by himself. You probly need to think to yourself about how you hurt him when you cheat on him yes 15 months is a while. But iff you love him as much as you say you do and that no otehr guy matters why cheat?
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I think that there is more that you need to see here.
If this guy is really worth not talking to every guy just to make him happy, then what makes you go out and cheat?
The point is that you both don't sound very happy together. You cheat on him and that's definetly not happiness. And he's not wanting to be together because of drama. That tells me that he's hiding the real reason why it's over. I know you really feel that you won't get through life without this guy, but you can and you will.
If he doesn't have time for you right now, then I wouldn't even wait for him to get time and come back for you. Why wait in misery? Move on with your life and make that guy come to you if he has time for you. I'm not telling you to run out and date just to get to him, but if an opportunity to be with another guy you like comes up, don't turn it down because this guy you are into has you on hold. Don't put your life on hold for him.
Let me tell you that no guy is worth not being able to talk to other guys. That's called being too in control of you and if he's freaking out because you interact with the opposite sex, then he's not a guy you want to wound up with.
-TheTeenGirl
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if he is the 'only guy worth your time' why did you cheat?
you can't blame him for wanting to leave you, to be honest.
also he says he has "too much drama and not enough time" for a girlfriend. if this is the case then the best way you can show that you care for him is by respecting his wishes. if he wants to come back to you, he will in good time.
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