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Break up?
Here's the deal. Me and my Girlfriend have been going out for a year and she's now at a different school than me. We live a fair distance apart so we rarely see each other and we seem to be talking less and less.
And now when we see each other it seems the spark just isn't there. I think we should break up but i'm not sure how to tell her.
P.S. I'm a 14 year old male
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i'm sorry to say but your just going to have to tell her straight up, I hope everything works out with you , best of luck!!
Jasmine
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Just tell her how you feel. Say something that you feel you arent seeing each other a lot and should stay freinds.
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Just say that its hard being in a relationship and living so far apart and that you dont think it's working and you wanna break up.
xoxJess
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hey, just tell her that you dont think the relationship is working how it use to. DONT tell her i just want to be friends. a girl hearing that is like one of the wrose things in the world. its like having your dog getting ran over by a car and then your mom saying you can still keep it lol. well good luck. cait♥
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Be honest. If you're not sure, tell her you want to take a break or see other people. If you're sure, tell her IN PERSON (or on the phone if you have to). Just say that you don't think the whole long-distance thing is working and you think it would be better if you guys didn't go out anymore.
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If you dont really like her anymore and dont want to go out with her then break up. Tell her that its just not working out and its hard to have a long distance relationship and that you just dont talk anymore. If you still want to be friends though then say that. Hope it works out.
♥ jackie
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yeah you can't have a long distance realtionship it isn't worth your breath and if i were being dumped just calmly tell her hey listen this isn't working out i see you as a sister and i think we are better off like that it works for me but i use brother
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yea dude...it seems as if you should end your realationship if its not workin out...and ur 14 so uve got a lot ahead of you...but eya if your thinkin abou tbreaking up with her...id say just straight up tell her why...like basically everything that you just wrote up there, itll be fine im sure...and shes probably feeling the same way...itll take pressure of both of you for sure...good luck bro
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That's the exact words that my ex b/f used when he broke up w/ me. I didn't get it at the time, but you know it happens. Don't lie about it, be completely straight forward to her. She'll understand in time and will understand that you couldn't be in a relationship w/ her just because you can. If you still want to be friends w/ her though, mean it, and don't not talk to her. She may not want to talk after she asks you why (cause she will), but eventually she will want to talk to you and be friends. Good luck, and I'm sorry it didn't work out. You're 14 though! You've got years to learn from!
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Say the same exact thing you told us. Say that you feel the relationsip is growing apart distance wise and you feel that there is less communication between the two of you. And tell her that you dont have the same feelings for her anymore. Then break up with her. You should have a conversation with her, talk about it...try to resolve things. But if your 100%-I want to break up with her, then go for it.
Hopefully both of you wont be heart broken after this !
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say exactly what you just said.
It might hurt her but it's better for her to be hurt then for you to lie. And staying together when the spark isn't there is the same as lying to her. Take it from someone who experianced the girl part of this the hard way. tell her the truth and break it before it's too late
hope i helped!
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