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my ex
hi im 13/f and i am really confused i went out with this guy for like a year.during that year he never once kissed me,never asked me to call him and we never held hands or anything but after a year he broke up with me.i dont no the reason but he did. i still have really strong feelings for him.so a year passed by and he is in a lot of my classes.in one class he sits right next to me and lately he has been talking to me a lot and flirting and he even likes to sit under my desk during class while we r watching a movie.he even told me to call him and gave me his number and walks with me to my next class,he invites to hang out with him at lunch at school, lately i feel like closer to him then i have when we were going out,why is hes doing this
cuz if he likes me still why did he break up with me?if he asks me out do i take the second chance cuz i really like him alot? help soon please
t.l.h.
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The reason he broke up with you the first time might've been because the whole time he was too shy to make a move and was just waiting for you. I think it's good that you've gotten another oppurtunity, so maybe you should be a little more flirty with him, and if he asks you out, try holding his hand first, things like that
hope that helped,
liana.
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All I can say is maybe he was just shy the firt time and wants another chance,try making the first move on him this time and see how things play out,call him and try to talk to him about it too,hope everything works out for you guys
Jasmine
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Number one cause of any problem: Ignorance ((not saying your igoranent, its just a plain fact))
BUT
The Number 1 leading Cause of problem fixing: talking about it
So I suggest one thing to you little miss, talk to him about it and don't be afraid to ask some hard questions like, "why do you show interest in me now and not when we were dating" or my personal favorite, "why did you break up with me".
but in any case, just talk it out with him see where it goes but if it ends up like last time I say dump his sorry ass. At the very least you'll get some closure this time around.
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if you like him, go out with him! at least he didn't do anything wrong that resulted in the break up like, cheating or something. ask him next time you talk to him. just be like,"i'm curious.. why DID we break up, really? i've always sort of wondered cause i never really got why." and see what he says. maybe a year ago he wasn't really wanting to be in a realtionship or wasn't ready to be. he might've been afraid to do anything because he might not be experienced in kissing or he might be nervous/shy. but if you he asks you out again, go ahead! he seems like he really likes you, and hopefully you two'll hold hands and everything this time. :D i hope i helped. <3
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well if you guys didnt kiss or anything then maybe he dumped you because he felt it wasnt a real relationship and maybe he misses knowing you are there and you are his maybe trying sending him a note saying something like this
dear __________
you know i realy do like you and i am not realy sure wats going on with you.it seems like you realy like me in that way but i may just be reading into things to much. but if you do like me like that then why did you dump me?please explain your thoughts to me because i am super confused.and if i got it all wrong pls dont tell anyone
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Most guys in 6th grade are absolutley clueless when it comes to relationships. Been there, done that. Maybe he broke up with you, because it sounds like it was rather akward. It sounds a lot like he's matured and he knows what do with his feelings. Go for it, flirt back, maybe he'll ask you back out. If he does and he still doesn't act like a good boyfriend, then you make the moves. It might take some courage, but call him. Grab his hand, hug him first. He should catch on. Good luck :)
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i think you should flirt bak. if you really do like him then you should give him a second chance that is if he asks you out
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Well if you think about it, 6th grade "relationships" don't really amount to much in general, no matter how long they last.
In 7th grade is when its a little more serious, but still not too serious.
I think he either still likes you or wants to be friends with you.
I think he's flirting with you, but until you can be 100% sure, I'd be either flirting back or treating him like a friend.
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