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Love or hate
I fell in love with this guy and i wondering whether i love him now or just plain dont like him anymore. I knew for a afct that i loved because i would always think about and couldnt wait to see him the next time in church. That was for the past four years. He borrowed my bass and learned to play even though he isnt that good. He gave mine back and boght his own and now thats all he talks about to me is all the songs he learned and nothing else. How he wants to join my brothers band. He is driving me crazy because we used to talk about other things now bass is the only thing he wants to talk about one time he admitted he liked me but we didnt do anything about it and i not so sure i want a relationship with a person who wants to be with his bass more than me. I was wondering do i hate or am i just plain annoyed with him. Or am i so in love that its driving me cray and the littlest things bother me now.
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Well you could still be in love with him,but maybe he does'nt feel comfterable talking to you aout other things anymore because he does'nt no what to say,guys do that sometimes,they'll just ramble on about 1 subject...or nothing just to avoid the awkward silences,try starting a new conversation with him,he could just be a little bit more shy now than he used to be,hope this helps
Jasmine,
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your problem is that you liked this guy when he gave you attention and stuff... now that he found something that he likes, he's probably addicted (like he was to you).
if you think you still like him, then talk to him about it, or just ignore him and let him come to you (that will show if he likes u. because if he comes to you, that means he cares).
don't say you love him right now, because you're annoyed.
anyway, if he was mature enough for a relationship then he wouldnt care about "BASS" more than a girl.
think about that, and good luck with everything!!
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I definetly think you like him. You both talked a lot and you were really excited to see him. Theres no hate in this situation, you just have to break him from his shell.
The next time he starts talking about bass, change the subject to something you guys used to talk about. And if he jumps back on the subject of the bass, just say, "ok, lets talk about something else besides the bass" or something like that. Tell him you want the friendship you both had back and you want to start from where you left off with him. Guys can find a lot of different things to be obsessed with, and soon he may get over that and talk about something else. I'm sure if you started a real relationship with him, he may just stop talking about the bass so much.
He's just being a guy, and thats truly all the explaination you can get by with. But, this definetly isn't hate.
-TheTeenGirl
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