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just friends?
this always happens to me i start liking someone and then when they start liking me i stop liking them. guys ask me out everyonce in a while but i akways turn them down even if i like them , i have had 3 boyfriends bf not serious tho. and always end up dumping them, so for the past month i have been liking this guy chris, hes really funny and nice. but... he does drugs. lots. and hes not a virgin. so hes starting to like me and is like all over me, but now i have stopped liking him, i am practically giving false hope, if he asks me out and i say no. he probably end up hating. but i would like to be friend, i just dont kno if tahts even possble what should i do to get him to stop flirting with me so much so we can just be friends:/
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(hmmm strange i'm in the same situation,) the only thing to tell you is to just slowly stop talking to him, talk to him less each day and eventually he willl find someone else, it sounds stupid but a friend of mine tried it before and it actually worked,, but then once your sure that he does not like you anymore talk to him a little more so that he know that you still want to be firends with him, hope i could help and good luck with evetything!
Jasmine
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Oh my gosh!! Sisters!! You're just like me!! Or I'm just like you!! I had 7 ex-boyfriends and I never really was serious with them and dumped them all... Well, this is so sad... He's nice but he does drugs... well, don't give him false hope... Better say no to him than letting him get all over you and bring you bad influence. Just tell him that you can't go out with someone like him, you surely deserve someone better. (I think so... I bet you're really nice and everything, surely you deserve someone else...) Tell him that you're ot interested and better to be friends with him.. I don't know what his reaction will be, but it's still better than letting him get under your skin...
Wish you the best luck!!! ^_^ Go you!!
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well i think you need to stop hanging out with him. kind of avoid him. liek if you kno hes goin to the movies dont go. go someplace else. also if your online n he is too, dont rele talk to him. let him IM you. all you have to do is say hey bak n tehn if he askes wats up just be liek nothin. donttry to make your convos long with him. also dont ask you, because he could tlel you sumthin about his day that he hopse for both of you too tlk about it. he;ll probably be liek cool and then run out of things to talk about. if you aviod him then he will kind of get the message and he will probably meet sumone else who is pretty ((not sayin your not prety))n will start to liek them. hope i hlepd you :)
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It's hard to understand, but sometimes the chase is a lot more fun than the catch. It's better to 'play the field' and meet lots of different types of people than spend lots of time going steady and missing out on fun dates and times. With the latest guy Chris, you can always say you like him, but can't date him because of the drugs etc., that way you're not blaming it necessarily on him, but his behaviors. Good luck!
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