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Oh, jeeze guys, part 2
I can't get over my fear of guys. I just can't be myself around them, i flirt by total accisdent and i put myself down around them, like i ahev this one fried he CAN DO EVRYHTING, 5 instruments, 3 types of dance, sports, he does it ALL. Compared to me i cant do anything i feel really abd about ithisa dn wish i could just act somewhat at the same level of succesfulness as him. I'm trying to learn to do mroe things because of him but until then, i don't know how to act like myself, teh thing that makes it worse around this particiular guy is that we used to go around,a nd i think i have leftover felings for him, nad hes in 7th grade im in 8 th, evrybody tells me he is immature and i dont think tehy want me to be friends with him but im sacred it i wont be friends wiith him then ill be even more scared of guys then i am now. this iused to eb abig problem i coudlnt even say a word to guys and now im good, but i just need help ebing myself. Confidence!
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Most people do struggle with confidence,all you need is something to give you a boost of confidence,something that will make you feel good about yourself,try this-play your favorite song,put on your favorite outfit,do your hair and make-up along with everything else you'll feel great after you do! then try calling the boy that you like,you'll feel more confident talking to him,and since your not face to face with him it will be eaiser to tell him what you want,hope this helps ^_^ and good luck!!
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alot of people struggle with confidence, and it seems you are insecure about your self and aren't sure of yourself..the only person that can actually get you through that is you. i think this boy intimidates you but doens't do it on purpose..just remember that you only have one life to live so live it to the fullest and be yourself no matta who trys to bring you down or no matta how scared you are. because im sure you want others to like you for who you are.
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Maybe if you learned to spell a little bit you could have more confidence....
Well I think you need to NOT change yourself for a guy. Ugh....that is the biggest mistake girls make. Is when they change themselves to look better for a guy. It is stupid. You will not be with this guy forever, and you have your whole life to live, and this is only one guy out of the billions in the world. And if you have to change yourself for him, he is not worth it. Go find yourself a new man that you act yourself around!
Good Luck!
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