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Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
~Brina (link)
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no it doesnt mean youre a lesbian. the girl was far away, and you couldnt tell it was a girl, epecially since she was tomboyish
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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well...you could make him a cd with all his favorite songs on it. or take him to his favorite restraunt, your treat. if hes really into sports yuo could get him like a jersey of his favorite player. if you need more help just tell me what kind of stuff he likes and leave it in my inbox. hope i helped!
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how do u get a guy not to talk about the things you've done when you dont want no one knowing and you know he will
~Katie~ (link)
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you have to trust the guy you do something with because guys like to talk. mackenzie is right, you need to have a good judge of character
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I liked this one guy, weston. i thought he was a total sweetie and he always made me feel good about myself. he said he liked me too, but then i was over with him and some friends and i hugged my friend goodbye and he called me a whore but according to his friends hes just mad and still totally likes me. the thing is, im not big on forgiving people after they've just called me a whore so, yea. i still like him a little. then, there's this other guy, chris and he is also totally sweet and cute and i absolutley heart him. he made me feel a little better about the whole weston situation and he says he's starting to like me. well, i liked him a lot a little while ago but i never thought he would ever like me. so i also like him a little bit. so basically, my question is should i forget about weston and become closer to chris and who knows what might follow, since he DID call me a whore. or should i just wait til weston gets over his issue with me hugging other guys? im the kinda girl that just hugs all of her friends, ya know? so should i change who i am for weston or stay how i am and go for chris? (link)
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i think youre probably better off with the chris guy. but i think that weston only called you a whore because he was jealous, but you still dont wanna go out with someone who will get jealous of your friends.
goodluck
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okay, me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship. i moved because none of our family ((or sum "friends")) wanted us going out. my mom hates him and his mom hates me. then was in november. well all of the sudden he's stopped talking to me. it's been 5 weeks and i've left him messages and e-mails. he hasnt responded to any of them. whut do i do next?
*heartbroken.. (link)
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its probably best if you just move on, i know its hard. but long distance relationships are very hard to keep, ive been through that. its much easier to just move on and find someone new who lives by you now.
goodluck!
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My boyfriend just broke up with me because he said' " i dont think it will work because, you know im going into to high school & your still in middle school" because im in 8th grade and hes in 9th. Plus insead of me being in his profile now its about another girl. and im really reallly sad because i think hes cheating on me. is there anything i can do to make me feel better :( thanks. xoxo (link)
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im really sorry, and i know its tough. but if he broke up with you, then he cant be cheating on you. but if he was hes not worth it anyway. and it is really hard to keep a relationship when yall are in different school, so its really for the better. but you could plan like a girls night, that might help you feel better. and just stay busy so you dont think about him. goodluck!! im sure theres someone else out there for you =]
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this guy i have been hanging out with said that he wanted us to be friends nothing more, but maybe in time we could be bf and gf. I was fine with that. i heard later (from a girl that i trust) that he had a girlfriend. I asked him and he denied it. i dont care that he has a gf...its just we have made out and done stuff together...now i feel like a slut. What should i do with this guy? forget about him or still be his "friend." (link)
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you shouldnt feel like a slut, you had no idea he had a girlfriend. also he could be telling the truth...your friend couldve been mistake or told wrong or something, so id stay friends with him, but try not to do "stuff" with him until you knw for sure good luck
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okay so tomorow im going to this girls house, we have liked eachother for 3 yrs and are going out, i am gonna get there at like early in the morning while she is still asleep, i was going to make her breakfast in bed but she doesnt realy eat breakfast cuz she has a weak stomach. I really want to do something sweet so she wakes up to a wonderful surprise and realizes how much i care about her, any great suggestions would be nice...thank you! (link)
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aww that is so cute. but um instead of making her breakfast you could get her her favorite flowers and write her a note, or a poem, or you could burn her a cd with her favorite songs on it. but if you do make her breakfast you could make something samll and share it with her, that'd be sweet. if you need more help drop one in my inbox.
goodluck!!
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13/m hey i need advise on askin a girl out. im about to ask her out but then i get chicken. HELP!!! And i have never made-out with a girl and im 13. do most kids make out b4 13? And when will i no wen to kiss her? (link)
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most people that i know didnt make out before they were 13, i didnt til i was 14. but umm aobut wehen to kiss her, i know this isnt the answer youre wanting but it'lkl just feel right, but its probably better if its like just you 2 around. and you should tell her you like her and see if she feels the same way, and if she does just ask her. if your a little nervous though a good way to get on the subject is to be like.."so...who are you liken these days" then she'll probably be like "idk, what aobut you" then just tell her.
good luck!! and if you need more help drop one in my inbox
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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX (link)
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well...rigt now the 3 year age gap is a big deal because yall are at diffent stages of your life, you have different priorities and all that stuff. also since guys mature slower than girls, it might be a problem. but whatever you decide to do, good luck!
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wherever i go, i call my boyfriend before i go and tell him or he makes me feel bad
whatever i do, i call my boyfriend and tell him before i do it or he makes me feel bad
when we fight, i am given all the blame
if i want to hang out with friends, i can, but he makes me feel bad
if he is stressed out, i am feeling bad because hes telling me what i try is not enough and i should always put him before me
hes needy, and he knows it!
if im happy spending time away from him and im w/ friends, he feels bad and makes me feel bad
but he says nothings ever his fault, he cant help it if he feels bad
i am the one who has to do EVERYTHING!, because he used to do things for me in the beginning of our relaitonship but now if i dont do it, he makes me feel bad.
im always made to feel bad. (link)
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thats not a good relationship. you shouldnt be responsible for everything in your relationship. i personally think you should dump him, because you deserve better. ive been in the same situation as you so i know how you feel...i hope everything goes good!
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ok here it is. i love this guy alot and me and him dated but i broke it off with him b/c he kissed another girl. now i think i might have sex with this guy. i don't know. i really want to but who knows if i am emotionally ready for this. i need help A.S.A.P!!! (link)
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if you dont know for sure if youre ready or not, then you probably arent ready.
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There's a boy at my theatre. We're both in the same play right now but since i'm in ACT I and he's in ACT II, we don't usually have the same rehearsals. I just started liking him even though I don't know him that well. He seems really sweet and he's cute too. I would really like to known him better but I don't know what I should do. Opening night is in a week and that doesn't give me much time to befriend him. Any advice on how to strike up a conversation or get him to notice me?
♥//&xo blair 13/f (link)
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talk to him at school, or you could ask your theatre teacher if you could help with act II rehearsals or something. good luck!
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All my friends have had a boyfriend before except me. I really want one, but there is no one that seems right for me. A few guys have asked me out, but i have refused. I am more obsessed with school than guys, but sometimes i wonder if i should spend more time trying to get a boyfriend. I also find that most boys i was attracted to had been my friends. I am not sure why that is. Maybe because i knew them so well?
~Wondering (link)
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just because your friends have boyfriends doesnt mean you have to. if the times not right,then just go with. i do understand why you want one though. but i think the reason your attracted to your guy friends is because you know them so well. they alwyas make the best boyfriend. the breakup is kinda weird for a while- i know from expirience. but if you really want a boyfriend goodluck finding one!!
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Sorry this is long, but I rate high.
Im moving soon, August to be exact. But there is this guy where i live now that Ive had a crush on since Feb. of 2004. I guess it's more than a crush now. Anyways, some people say he likes me but he never tells anyone who he likes so they just assume he does. Well, now that I'm moving I want to truly find out if he likes me so I can possibly make a move or I know to flirt more and w/e. Im so confused. I don't want to leave wishing I had done something. What do I do? Sorry this might be a little confusing...but Im just as confused. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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you should ask him.. i know it will be hard but its better than not knowing what couldve happened and regretting it. good luck!
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long story short i went to my school dance tonight w/o a date and started to talk to this really sweet guy. he bought me candy, and danced w/ me......and i dont know him much. so....im confused. i dont know if i like him or not. how cn u tell? (link)
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well if you think aobut him a lot, and get really giddy and happy when he talks to you, if youre kinda nervous around him, and things like that. but if it was just tonight that this happened i would it a little bit before you can really tell, you coul jsut be excited. but im glad you had fun,good luck!
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Okay, see my boyfriend recently got angry with me. he got mad because i was complaining to my friend about my ex boyfriend and i told him not to call me right then because i needed to talk to my friend. well all of my friends say to dump him because see not only was me pissed at me he was pissed at me on my b-day!! of all times!! well they all said to because he wouldnt talk to me, but see he texted me and said "hey babe wha up happi b-day luv ya" but see my friends still say i should dump him but i love him soo much its just even i realize he treats me like shit but i cant help but love him!! what should i do? ill rate high!! (link)
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if he treats you like shit you should breakup with him. even if you love him its still not right. goodluck
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At youth tonight, these two guys were like flirting with me and my two friends. They sat down by me, pointed at us, looked at us, and asked me for my number. And my friends and I were like laughing because they were doing this. We didn't like them either. It was just so funny. And then we had to leave early because we had this dance. And they like followed us out the door and we were like bye. It was kind of funny. But the guy that I like was there, like on the next couch. And would us laughing would have made him think that we liked those boys that were hitting up on us or what? I hope that it didn't, because we really weren't. And why were those guys doing that? They go to a different school and are older. Thanks and I rate. (link)
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well maybe they were just hitting on yall for fun (i know guys who do that) or maybe they were serious. and as for what th other guy thought...most likely he didnt think much about it, but if youre that woried ask him.
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my boyfriend of 6 months didnt call me for 2 days, and in that time it was the anniversary of my bestfriends death, i found out my grandma was dyin, my parents fought n my mum left, n i ran away.. i really wanted to speak to him in those 2 days and when i finally called him he said he had simply been too busy to call so i overeacted n dumped him, i regretted it and told him the reason why i overeacted and he didnt care.. should i get back wit him because i overeacted.. or shouldnt i because he wasnt there when i needed him (link)
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dancingqueen has a point, you were having a very rough time (i hope everythings getting better) but he might not have called because he didnt knowwhat to say to you. but about getting back together... it seems like you still have feelings for him so i would get back together with him, but if anything happes then..i wouldnt stay with him. goodluck!
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Me and my bofriend, Rob, have been going out about a month. We dated for about 2 months b4 I asked him out. It seems whenever we hang out its boring. He's already told me he loves me and wants to marry me. We're 16 and 17 btw. I recently met this guy named Ed. He seems cool and everything. Before Ed, everything with Rob was fine but since I met Ed the stuff between me and Rob seems boring and predictable. So my question is should I dump Rob and persue Ed or should I stay with Rob and see what happens? (link)
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well you dont seem happy with rob, so i would dump him if i was you. goodluck
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