Question Posted Wednesday January 5 2005, 11:43 pm
At youth tonight, these two guys were like flirting with me and my two friends. They sat down by me, pointed at us, looked at us, and asked me for my number. And my friends and I were like laughing because they were doing this. We didn't like them either. It was just so funny. And then we had to leave early because we had this dance. And they like followed us out the door and we were like bye. It was kind of funny. But the guy that I like was there, like on the next couch. And would us laughing would have made him think that we liked those boys that were hitting up on us or what? I hope that it didn't, because we really weren't. And why were those guys doing that? They go to a different school and are older. Thanks and I rate.
Karen answered Thursday January 6 2005, 2:15 pm: If you think that your crush thought that these boys were hitting up on you, just go up to your crush and just tell him how those boys were stupid and thinking that you were flirting with him but you weren't. Just get him to know that you weren't doing anything and that the boys were. Those guys were probably doing that because girls always flirt with any girl(s) they see. The probably thought you were hot and all that stuff, like most guys think! Hope I helped :)
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amelia12290 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 8:19 am: ok see the thing is not everytime you are laughing and telling a joke with a guy means that you guys are hitting on each other you guys could just be friends and talking and you know how bout the next time that you have youth group you go over and sit next to the guy that you like and then maybe he'll realize you like him. so yeah anyways about the older guys hitting on you trust me all guys do it they think that younger girls are vulnerable or something its something stupid like that but anyways its happened to me before im a freshmen in high school and these guys that were freshmen and sophmores in college hit on me it was creepy but yeah good luck with your guy!! [ amelia12290's advice column | Ask amelia12290 A Question ]
givingbackmonday answered Thursday January 6 2005, 12:59 am: well maybe they were just hitting on yall for fun (i know guys who do that) or maybe they were serious. and as for what th other guy thought...most likely he didnt think much about it, but if youre that woried ask him. [ givingbackmonday's advice column | Ask givingbackmonday A Question ]
kevin413 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 12:50 am: Laughing? A simple no thanks would have been fine. Who knows what that other guy thought,I'm not him. Talk to the guy you do like and if you ever get hit on again,don't laugh at the guy. Hurts his feelings. [ kevin413's advice column | Ask kevin413 A Question ]
metalkat86 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 12:40 am: the easiest thing i can tell you is to go up to the guy you like(if you are friends) and jokingly discuss how stupid those boys were being that night. that way, he'll know that you didn't like that they were hitting on you and if he likes you back, it will put his mind at ease to know that you are still open for the taking. hope i helped. later,
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