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can i be mad
my boyfriend of 6 months didnt call me for 2 days, and in that time it was the anniversary of my bestfriends death, i found out my grandma was dyin, my parents fought n my mum left, n i ran away.. i really wanted to speak to him in those 2 days and when i finally called him he said he had simply been too busy to call so i overeacted n dumped him, i regretted it and told him the reason why i overeacted and he didnt care.. should i get back wit him because i overeacted.. or shouldnt i because he wasnt there when i needed him
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yes, you have a right to be mad. he does also. just look at it this way. yeah, you had all this stuff going on with you during those days, but HE DIDN'T KNOW THAT. true, he should have called to tell you he was too busy, but he didn't. there's nothing you can do to change the past. I suggest that you sit him down in a place where he can't ignore you, somewhere quiet, and tell him how you felt. tell him that you understand why he is mad, because you did overreact, but that your emotions are really unstable at the moment because of all the stuff that happened while you didn't talk to him. apologize and ask for his forgiveness, maybe it will show him that you really were sorry, and that you want to get back with him. during this conversation, let him raise his voice if he feels he needs to, but you KEEP A CALM VOICE. this will show him that he's not getting to you and that you really are sincere this time instead of making this decision out of anger. i hope i helped, and if you have any more questions, please ask me, i'm here to help and will do so to the best of my ability. later,
Kat
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dancingqueen has a point, you were having a very rough time (i hope everythings getting better) but he might not have called because he didnt knowwhat to say to you. but about getting back together... it seems like you still have feelings for him so i would get back together with him, but if anything happes then..i wouldnt stay with him. goodluck!
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You had reason to overreact, not because he did anything wrong, but because you were going through a tough time. My question is did he not care that you overreacted because he understood or he didn't care why you overreacted. If he understood, then get back together with him because he didn't know (except the best friend thing in which he probably should have called ,but sometimes people just forget). If he didn't care at all, then let him be. He is not worth your time or energy.
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You have a right to be mad. Those are serious, emotional situations and you needed him. I am very sorry to hear about those events that occured in those two days of you life. If your boyfriend wasn't there for you then and didn't understand how much you needed him no matter how busy he was will he be there for you when you need him again? I think you reaction was fine for the situatuion. However I don't think you should get back together with him he doesn't seem deserving. If you were meant to be together you will be.
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