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ok welllll....do guys findd it weird when girls play video games? or is it cool? and do guys like it when girls are girly but still "boyey"?

P.S. boyey is not a real word..i just made it up...fyi

i would think most guys would like it when girls play video games because then they would have something in common.

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What are some good things to talk about with your boyfriend ?

hmm...
~music~that you like and he likes
~sports
~stories...like embarrassing moments
~pets
~ur relationship
~food...(guys like food)
~school

***just dont talk about yourself ALL THE TIME!!

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OK, the story goes like this. I go out with my ex-girlfriend and she says she won't ever leave me, and BANG. A week later she leaves me(she's f/17). I tried to call her...a lot for two weeks. I then decide not to contact her anymore but it's been two months and i'm still not over her. Must i contact her or must i just accept that she will never come back?

if youve tryed to call her alot and over a long period of time like you did...then id suggest forgetting about her. i mean if she hasnt contacted you then she isnt interested

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i like this girl at school but i dont know if she likes me should i use the direct approach and aske her out or tell sum1 else 2 do it for me

I think you should use the direct approach method. That shows her that you are confident, not afraid to talk to her, and is not afraid of rejection (regardless is you are or not). If you get someone else to ask for you and she says no then your friend will know what she said and that could lead to rumors and other things.

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k im 13/f

there is this boi in my s.s class and he likes me every1 has told me this even his best friend! i also heard he wants 2 ask me 2 the dance next friday!

i dont like him tho he stinks and picks his nose!! ewww!
how do i tell him i dont like him ???

help please!

There is really no way to let anyone let alone a guy down easily. The best way though is to tell it like it is. Not lie to him or insult him. But try to do it as nice as possible.

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i love this boy.
he keeps himself completely closed off from the rest of the world.
but i know he hurts inside.
how can i get him to open up to me?

you could try to be friends with him. and then he may or may not open up to you. but if he closes himself off from the rest of the world he may not open up to you right away. just what ever you do dont rush it because if you do it will probably freak him out or something like that. but if you are friends with him made sure he knows that he can trust you. dont actually tell him just let him figure it out.

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ok so theres this guy that sits behind me in all my classes and he always pulls my hair, and i was wearing a thong and he noticed it.. and kept pulling up my shirt, he hit my butt one day. and it seems like hes always flirting with me. i asked his friend who sits next to him why he always does that, he said " i think he might like you" i dont know if its true, hes cool and all , but he went through alot, his brother just died in september, and i donth think he could handle it, plus my bffl likes him too and they went out but he never liked her, he felt bad for her. im so confused
HELP

i think he likes you...or at least friend with major benefits. although if i were you i would have slapped him upside the head A LONG time ago. but i suggest you try to talk to him about it.

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if a boy asks you if you have started your period and you answer yeh and the boys says real loud YES what does that mean?

it was probably a real immature joke between him and his friends...just next time get him by saying..."i dont know, have you started having wet dreams yet?"...trust me it works...and shuts them up real quick!

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I dont know if this guy thats 1 year older then me likes me or not. I dont know if i should go up to him or not. he goes to my school and he always looks at me and stuff and i used to talk to him online and stuff and now i dont know what i should do. should i go up to him at school and start a conversation?? hes not coming up to me and saying anything so is it my job to make the first move??? ill rate 5's for good answers!!

it maybe a good idea to make the first move...after all he maybe shy. it will also tell him that you want to be friends. because he doesnt come up to you just see how the first conversation goes and if he doesnt seem interested dont keep trying...chances are if he doesnt seem interested hes not doesnt like you...(i think hes just shy and hopeing you would talk to him)

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I keep having this dream where I see my boyfriend and his friend at a bar...the whole night is very mysterious but fun. I keep having it and seing him giving me a box while at this bar. What does this mean?

this could mean that you could be getting a gift, or that you want a gift of some kind from your boyfriend...it could also mean a proposal. but dreams dont really mean anything...they are just images that come into your head when something has affected you.

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My boyfriends' ex is pregnant, she isn't trying to break us up or anything. She stays out of my way and I stay out of hers. I love my boyfriend very much, do you think that the baby could break us up or make us closer. Please help. Should I talk to the ex or just leave things as are.

i would just leave things the way they are for right now...if crap starts talk to her. but you may want to tell her that you are there for her. but nothing else...at least not untill anything happens. and it doesnt sound like anything that would break you two up not enless your boyfriend got her pregnant.

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OK i have really liked this guy. I have liked this guy for 2 years my 7th and 8th year. In my 7th year i was a GEEK i dressed so UGGGG..BAD anywayz my friend told him i liked him and them he stoped talking to me. THem in the last weeks of 8th grade he started talking to me again. I was much prettyer in 8th grade then 7th. Once we ran down to the caf. and he said "YOur the fast i've ever seen a girl run" then when we got there.. some kid yelled. "Does she like you?" and he said " no, that was last year" and them i was crushed because i still liked him but i said "yup thats right" anyways. THem this summer.. he has asked my mom if i wanted to go bike riding sometime because he only lives like 4 miles away from me and stuff like "you should bring her down to your work sometime" and stuff like that. I almost always talk to him now. But he will never ask me out. He also has never had a gf or a kiss. SO what should i do to hint him on asking me out. or what should i do.. I don't want to ask him out or tell him i like him even thought he already knows because his grandpa told him.. long story there.but anywayz . please help i do rate..

it depends on what type of person you are if you are confident and arent afriad of getting your feelings hurt then go for it. but if your shy just try to hint him on asking but if that doesnt work then you will have to work up the courage to ask him yourself.
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There's this guy that i met at a local teens club. He was super cool, and my friend keeps saying she thinks he likes me. I dont know, he was totally sarcastic like, the entire time, like making fun of my friends (not really, just playing) but he didnt make fun of me. and when this one guy made fun of me, he through cake at him, but it might have been cuz the guy was making fun of him to...i have no clue what to do, should i make a move, or chill out and wait for more signs?

Thanks in advance,
Jessy

that depends mainly on you...id you are confident and not afraid of getting your feelings hurt then go for it because you would have nothing to lose. but if you are shy like me then hang back and look for more signs to make sure that you are certain that you arent doing something that you would regret.
NOTE: it does sounds like he likes you but it kinda hard to tell.
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if u find a guy near perfect +u really like them u will think they r perfect but that doesnt mean that theyre gay. i think my bf is perfect even though others dont and no matter what every1 else says and think hes not gay even though we hear somethin abouthim bein gay but hes not

thats fine then...if you dont think that he is gay and that he is perfect then GOOD!!! dont worry about what other people think.
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Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.

who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.

who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that?

that is every girls dream...*sigh* but sadly all the guys close to perfect are gay and will never be anything but gay.
the reason you cant get a guy like that is because no straight guy is/will never be close to that.
sorry
i wish i had a guy like that

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my boyfriend of 7 months got drunk the other night and planned on hiding it from me. i found out from someone else who was there. my boyfriend always promised & swore that he would never drink and how stupid he was. he ended up getting drunk with his friend and when i found out, i gave my boyfriend soooo many chances to confess and tell me the truth and he didnt. later he finally admitted it and i was so outraged that i broke up with him and told him i never want to see him again, and i hung up. he hasnt tried to call me or fix things up. my friends called him and said he was crying and too afraid to talk to me. i dont want to call him first...but should i forgive him? he broke my trust.

if you still love him and want him back then yes i think you should call him first. when you call him there might be a good chance that he will turn from sad to mad. so maybe tell him that you miss him and that even though he did make a big mistake you made a bigger one. that will tell him that you still have feeling for him and want him back.

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I belong to an apartment complex pool,where there are like no kids my age, they are mostly around 9. I'm 13 so there arent many hotties with bodies laying around. But there is this one guy, he looks about a year or two older than me (which is fine cuz i dont usually date guys my age). Its kinda hard to explain a stare i guess lol. But he always looks and me and smiles when i look back at him. I'm kinda of shy and i think he is shy too. There was about a million chances to talk to each other, but no one took them. I'm pretty sure i like him, you know that "he is all i think about and i cant wait to see him"bit.I've been trying to strike up the nerve to talk to him, but i just cant do it. It seems weird going up to a complete stranger and talking to them. What would i say?And..*sigh* i just got back together with my on and off again boyfriend who is crazy for me. I broke his heart twice already, if i do really like this guy too, i dont know if i could stand breaking his heart again. We've been really good friends while we havent been together, i cant stand to loose him.
I need help, guys or girls point of view, do you think he likes me? should i go for it?Im not an amature in the dating department, im more mature all the kids my age, i just need help getting started.

Thanks, i rate 5's.

my advice to you is to swallow your pride. just go over and say hey i noticed that you were sitting all alone and may be in neeed of company. that SHOULD tell him that you are more mature then a average 13 year old. or if you jsut say hi whats your name if you to scared to say the first thing.

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Is 13 old enough to have a boyfriend...not like pair off and go out on an actual date or anything...but to really like a boy and have a first kiss or sumthin...it's not like I want to, but when I see kids in my grade kissing and holding hands and stuff and I'm just curious to whether it's right or if it's silly or if it's age-appropriate...?

sure it is...but if your not ready to do that kind of stuff then dont. just because your friends are doing that stuff doesnt mean you have to.

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sorry this is kinda personal but is it normal for one of your nipples to be a lil swollen/puffy than the other? sorry but i was just really concerned and ill rate you high if you can help me and give me advice

yes it is normal since you are devloping. when you are fully developed that will even out so dont worry

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ok my boyfriend is 1 year younger than me..is that bad?

of course its not bad. you have to remember that age is just a number.

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