I dont know if this guy thats 1 year older then me likes me or not. I dont know if i should go up to him or not. he goes to my school and he always looks at me and stuff and i used to talk to him online and stuff and now i dont know what i should do. should i go up to him at school and start a conversation?? hes not coming up to me and saying anything so is it my job to make the first move??? ill rate 5's for good answers!!
Additional info, added Wednesday September 7 2005, 9:32 pm: I dont know i just think im too nervous to go up to him and start a conversation cuz what if he doesnt like me??? i'd feel so dumb thinking that he does like me but if he doesnt?? should i try to IM him or something?? if i IM him what should i say?? those types of questions i need some help on!! i dont know what to do. ill rate for good answers!thanks!!!
andsoitgoes answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:11 pm: heyy girl
the best advice i can give you is to go up to him and start a conversation if he does sports ask him how its going just something not too flirty.see how he responds he might act a little nervous if he likes you so thats a sign also if he trys to keep the conversation going thats a plus. dont push too hard but make the first move. if it was meant to be it will happen
xoxo hope i helped xoxox tz [ andsoitgoes's advice column | Ask andsoitgoes A Question ]
Razhie answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 9:53 am: It's nobodys 'job' to make the first move. But I can promise you this, if no one does, nothing will come of your little attraction.
AnneNonimous answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 12:54 am: From the way you make it it sounds like HE already made the first move and is waiting for some reciprocation. He shows physical interest by looking at you; obviously he's intersted in conversation. I'd say signs look positive to ask this guy out, or at least give him a sign that he should ask YOU out.
AADvice answered Monday September 5 2005, 9:50 pm: this is hard.. if you really like thins guy.. i say go for it.. at least start saying hi.. then make your convorsations longer and longer everytime so you dont surprise him by starting with a huge convorsation and still talk to him online cause thats always easier..and if its meant to be it will happen.. sorry i couldn't help more..good luck hun..hope everything works out well..god bless [ AADvice's advice column | Ask AADvice A Question ]
funkymunky817 answered Monday September 5 2005, 9:49 pm: it maybe a good idea to make the first move...after all he maybe shy. it will also tell him that you want to be friends. because he doesnt come up to you just see how the first conversation goes and if he doesnt seem interested dont keep trying...chances are if he doesnt seem interested hes not doesnt like you...(i think hes just shy and hopeing you would talk to him)
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.