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this is going to be long and i will need serious answers. okay, so i like these 2 boys. like, i realllyy like them. so anyway. lets call them m and p. so i went out with m before and i really liked him and then it ended , but that was a year ago. and we have classes together and we see eachother and we sometimes hangout and i like him. but i kinda don't really wanna go back to him because i feel that would be a mistake..but i really like him. and then theres p. we've talked all of twice but i get this crazy feeling that i like him so much. and i mean before school i stand with people in which he stands too and i just completely fell for him and i dont understand why. so basically i'm asking two questions:
1. if you were me, who would you choose?
2. if i were not to choose m, the one i dont really wanna go back to, and i chose p, how could i start to talk to him online or kinda build up a friendship. oh, and like how to make it completely unawkward if i just randomly imed him online.
P.S. They are both on the same basketball team? if that helps. could i start a conversation with p about basketball? or would that be weird? (link)
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heyy you said you wanted serious answers so ima be honest..
1. i cant choose for you because its not for me.. and i dont kno what your heart is telling you.. this is your choice.. im just here to help..
2. i think before you make any desions you should get to kno p.. i kno you might want a boyfriend but you dont have to choose either of them.. maybe neither of them are for you..
be true to yourself!if something is telling you that being with m would be a mistake then maybe you shouldnt! just let it be.. dont stress it so much and just let things happen!! let me kno how it goes!
xoxo an
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Ok,...well, There's this kid Ryan, he's like my best guy friend and my ex. He broke up with me because he was busy with baseball and could never see me. Well, when school started, I found out that he was in 3 of my classes.That half of my classes and I go to lunch with him. Anyway a couple of months later, I hooked him up with my 'best friend'. We're just friends now, but we used to be really close. I hooked him up with her, I don't know why. I'm gonna get off track for a sec, but it kind of leads up in a little while. I've always been jealous of Katie, my friend. She's alot prettier and skinner than I am, and guys always like her instead of me. And the guys that I do get, when they break up with me, their next girlfriend is Katie. So I went out with Ryan before Katie did. And this past month, I've relized how much I'm in love with him. I remember all the things we used to do whenever we were little and they're so cute. I told him how I feel and I just wound up getting hurt. He said he didn't feel anything for me, he had this weird feelings for Katie. I asked him why I had this weird feeling for him...I just cried, and I don't know why I love him, I don't want to but I just do! Anything that will help me I'll rate!!!
Sorry it's so long!!!
Thanks in advance
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heyy.. this reminds me soo much of middle school and my old best friend..
i useto be jealous of her but she never knew.. no one did.. but what i later figured out was that i am so much better than her and that there was no reason to be jealous...
plenly of times i tried to set my x with friends..
you kno why.. because i still liked him and i was trying to deny it by showing tat i can set him up with a friend.. but what i thought was that by setting him and my friend up i would forget about him.. the thing is, is that instead it drve me insane.. i was only getting myself stressed and hurt and sad...
look the point is that u still like him and by doing what you did..know ur just hurting urself and it will take time to get over it.. and ull probably make this mistake again.. but the thing is that sometimes it doesnt hurt to think about urself and not others... i bet your friend liked him and told you to hook them up.. right or maybe he asked you.. that right there is showing that they are thinking about themseleves and not you.. so do the same!! i hope i helped a lil.. let me kno how it goes...
xoxo an
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Ok.. this guy... i like him so much, hes the reason i wanna get up for school everyday. I want to show him i like him, but im not sure he likes me. He did at the begining of the year but then he said he stopped. I dont wanna ruin our friendship over this, but i dont know if it could turn into something better by somehow showing him i like him a bunch. He always looks at me in class and smiles FORever and we flirt alot but what guy dosnt do that? what do you think? (link)
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hey.. i really think u should step it up.. if u lyk him let him noe.. not just by words but by ur actions.. cuz then lyk u said ull never noe wat could have happened.. n dnt wry about u not being friends.. if u ppl r truly friends ull stay friends n if not then it wasnt meant to be.. but take it slow dnt rush n e thing gud luck xoxo angie
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my boyfriend wont look at me straight when i talk ta him or he will just leave me on hold for a long time when eva im talkn' ta him on tha phone.1 day he asked me was i cheating on him and i told him NO WAY bcuz i would neva eva do a such thing like that but i neva asked him was he cheating on me.cause when i call him he hangs up on me on purpose but when he calls me i do tha same u kno. i kno its wrong but if any1 kno's if thats actually a sign of him cheating, bcuz he makes me cry and wanna hang up on him just pleaze HELP and i will really appreciate if u dont delete this and only gurls will answer this question thanxxxxx
noh hatas
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hey.. u noe wat.. u have to stop assuming and just ask him str8 up wats up wit him.. ask him if hes cheating ask him if he still lyks u and tell him how much he is hurting u.. let him noe.. and if i were u i wouldnt do the same childish things hes doing lyk hangin up the fone.. sho uhim u a grown gurl and tat u can easily drop him for someone tat will treat u better gud luk lemme noe wat happens.. xoxo angie
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I recently met a guy at school. EVERY SINGLE TIME I see him in the hallway he says hi. And today, he walked me to my bus. Those are the good signals I'm getting from him. But today, he said hi but walked right past me in the hallway-and he wasn't really in a hurry. I would think if he liked me he would talk to me. And today, he didn't sit near me at lunch. I am getting mixed signals! What do you think? (link)
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look u r thinking tooooo much about this.. let it be.. if he says hi and walks u to the bus then yea its possible tat he lyks u.. just becuz hes not in a hurry n doesnt say hi n doesnt sit next to u at lunch doesnt mean he dont lyk u.. maybe it means tat he just wants to hang out wit other ppl.. y dont u just talk to him or write him a note or sumthing n let him noe tat u lyk him n u wanna noe how u feel.. but dnt stress over it cuz ur makin it worse 4 u. gud luk xoxo angie
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I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation? (link)
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honestly its hard bein in a relationship wen ones far away.. but if its meant to be then ull b together.. but if he said hell propose den tats koo.. den he really luvs u.. dnt lyk run away n get married lyk be engaged 4 a while till ur ready to get married.. dnt stress it soo much now.. its better to wait till the moment comes n see wat happens gud luk xoxo angie
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theres this guy that i have a major crush on, and i've known him forever (since i was 4) and we went out when i was 9 and he was 10, but then when i turned 10 me and him got into a silly argument and i broke up with him. after that i haden't seen him or talked to him for 3 years. but he lives 2 houses over from me. =/ i recently started high school, and he takes the same bus as me to school every day, and i see him often in the halls. i really like him again and i have no problem talking to him, but i want to tell him that i still care, and that i'm still here. please help because i have no idea how to bring that convo. about because idk how he feels. =/ (link)
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heyy.. i think tats really cute.. but honestly i think u should start off by writing him a note. in the note tell him exactly how u feel and wat u want. maybe he'll say it didnt work once so y would it work this time.. n if he does let him noe u were kids and that uve grown up. but u should let him noe and see how he feels as well.. and go on from there.. but u never noe wat culd happen so i suggest u just go 4 it. gud luk n let me noe how it goes.. angie
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This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!! (link)
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well i think u should tell him and u should always b honest wit him.. especially since u think tat ull marry him.. but let me remind u.. every single bf i had i thought i was gonna marry n we were only together for weeks or months.. n u've only been wit this kid 4 4 days.. so dont really rush into n e thing.. but they could b lying but wat i learned from my current bf is tat u shouldnt believe wat ppl tell u.. becuz ppl always talk syt and wanna butt into ur relationship.. trust ur bf.. n talk to him! tell him wats up n tell him hoiw u feel.. ask him if wat u heard is tru n to tell u the truth! well gud luk xoxo angie
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OKay i really like this guy .. i mean like i love him n he loves me..! I just got out of this whole real love relationship n i truely loved him but i got hurt a bunch of times within that relatinship so he dumped me! Then this guy i like was going out with my best friend so my best friend dumped him n went out with my ex i was talking bout.. so now i like her ex! [[i know its confusing but try to help]] but see i dont wanna go out with him n hurt her like she hurt me.. but i like him alot! WHAT DO I DO! I RATE HIGH! (link)
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look honestly if she didnt think about u n ur feelings well den dont think about her n her feelings.. i dnt wanna be mean n stuff but really.. in ur lyf ull realize if u havent already tat ull have lots of friends tat really rnt n i think this is one of them.. but in ur lyf u gotta think about u n want u want.. dnt let things pass u by just b cuz of other ppl.. so if u lyk him n u wanna b wit him then go ahead! gud luk xoxo angie
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ok, im a 17 yr old female, and i have been "seeing" this guy. not really dating, because he doesnt think he's "boyfriend material" i dont understand this, but i know he cares about me the same way i care about him.
i wrote him a 3 page long letter telling him how i felt. he told me he liked it and he reads it often.
we hang out alot (many times for 10 or more hours or untill like 1 am!) and every time, we hold hands and cuddle and hold each other close the whole time, even around our parents. my family loves him and his family thinks i am just the sweetest thing to walk the planet.
but...alwayz a but...he and i have dated before. and he ask me out both times. so now i think it is my turn to ask him out, to show him how much i care. but, i dont want to scare him off.
so i ask you guyz, does a girl askign a guy out kind of freak him out, or do they like it? and i also would like to know if anyone has any ideas what he meant by "i dont think i'm boyfriend material". please help me out! (link)
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well i once asked a guy out and he said no n it looked lyk if he was really scared.. and i never did it again.. but maybe hes different! i donno maybe he thinks tat hes not a gud enough boifriend 4 u or maybe he's not ready 4 a gf.. ask him.. n ull get ur answer.. gud luk xoxo angie
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months.... and we met at church camp where i asked jesus into my heart for the first time.. and that totally changed my life.. but then when we got home all reality came back.. i had used to be really bad.. such as have sex and drink... and well now i stopped all that and my boyfriend is really religious... and he found out about all that and he told me that when you ask jesus into your heart the first time all your sins from that past are forgiven... and he told me he loves me for who i am now and my past doesnt matter to him.... but now.... we were like in my pool and he get touchy feely.. and im not like that anymore.. we still didnt do anything or anthing. .but it scares me cuz i think that he might try to do something i dont want to.... and also... people sign his buddy profile guest boook telling him lies about me haveing sex with a 21 year old and stuff like that... and he still worries.. and ill tel lhim they arnt true.. but it still bothers him.. i dont know what to do... and my parents are leaving for a week and ofcourse me n him are ganna hang out... i just dont wanna do anything that we will regret... and i dont know how to tell him that without embarrasing him.... please help me!!!!! (link)
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well 1st i wanna say tat its awesome how u changed ur life and how u accepted Jesus into ur heart.. well 1st just bcuz ur both religious and all doesnt mean u cant b affectionate.. it doesnt mean u have to have sex but being touchy feely n all isnt bad.. but if it bothers u be honest wit him and tell him how u feel and im pretty sure he'll understand since he noes ur past.. but make sure u let him noe tat ppl talk syt.. n if ur gonna b in a relationship tat it should b based on trust n honesty.. tell him to trust u and not to believe wat other ppl say.. but just leave it all in the hands of God n he'll do wats rite! gud luk.. xoxo angie
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Ok, I know that this is a really dumb question, but I'm gonna ask anyways.
I went out with this guy for about 5 months. We broke up for a while (about 6 months), and now we are back together.
While we were broken up, I hooked up with a friend's friend from out of town. My boyfriend doesn't know him, and there is an outside chance that they will one day meet, but I'm not all that worried about that.
For some reason which I can't explain even to myself, I feel as if I should tell my boyfriend. I don't feel guilty about the hookup, because, well, we were apart. I guess I just feel that he should know. But I don't want to mess anything up in between us.
So... to tell or not to tell... that is the question? (Sorry for the cliche, I couldn't resist.) (link)
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u should always be honest with ur boifriend.. u can ask him if n e thing happened while u guys were apart.. but tell him becuz there is a possibility tat sum1 will find out and then tell him n u get in trouble 4 not tellin him.. its not a big deal since u guys werent together so just tell him.. tell him u wanna b honest wit him and u want him to noe everything.. n if u tell him tat i think he'll trust u even more! gud luk xoxo angie
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okie.well i like this boy.we just started talking and now i like him even more. i know that he like me to. but i want 2 know.if me being 14.turning 15. and he being 12 turing 13 is really bad 2 even think about goin out with him?
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look.. i really dont think it matters.. if u lyk him nd he makes u happy then tats all tat matters.. but remember ppl lyk to talk crap but dont let it get to ur head n stuff.. but as long as he makes u happy then i think u should just go 4 it!
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how will i no if i found the right person. Cause i think i found him but im scared to ask him out? (link)
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well i dont think youll noe until ur with him! if u think hes the guy then let him noe n go 4 it
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im 14... and i dont really have a lot of gurlfriends, i from a family with 9 boys.. im the only gurl, anywho... Well i play the guitar in this band i'm in and i have the biggest crush on the singer *Brandon he is like the ultimate guy, we hang out all the time.. he calls me and stuff were really close!! and i just cant seem to find the right time to tell him, or anything and i have NO idea what to do cuz he's like my best friend... ya know!! i just really like him a lot and dont wanna blow my chance, or plussss do you think i should even tell him??? pleaseee help me i am sooo confusedd!! please ILL RATE!
signed,
what should i do. (link)
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well if u think he kinda has a thing for u then yea.. y not! go ahead n tell him.. i meen ull never noe if sumthing could have happened or not! but remember u guys r friends n u r in a band together n things could get wierd.. think about wat u want n if ur willing to risk it then go 4 it!.. xoxo angie gud luk
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im kind of going out with this boy secretly.i feel terrible about it.but if anyone ever found out they just wouldnt accept us.well we barely talk to each other anymore i dont know what to do.he always seems to be really busy.If we do talk its like for 10minutes really late at night.how can i spend more time with him or talk to him more with out anyone finding out?please help me.. (link)
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aight look wat i really think is tat u really shouldnt care if ppl accept u n ur bf.. its UR relationship not urs n otha ppl... i think tat if u didnt keep it on the down low u would have a better relationship cuz u wouldnt be hidin from no 1.. n i think if u keep it lyk this one of u is gonna get tired of it! gud luk xoxo angie
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My boyfriend has been smoking pot for a few years now.. and we just hooked up a lil over a month ago. I have already talked to him about it.. and he lied to me and said he quit. Then one night I was with him and he was hittin pot again.
Is there any way I can talk to him or convince him to quit or even lay off of it a lil bit without him getting mad at me? (link)
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wen i first met ma bf he did tat.. n i hate it! i told him tat it was either me or the smoking.. n hes lyk alrite ill quit.. after tat he did it lyk 3 more times after we broke up but we got bak together n ive been wit him 4 2 yrs.. n he hasnt done it for almost 2 yrs now.. i guess it just takes a lil time.. but if he respects u n luvs u he'll stop.. if not then ull noe he doesnt care! gud luk.. xoxo angie
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ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
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dont let him force u into n e thing..! wen ur ready to make out n kiss n do stuff then go ahead.. but it seems as hes just lookin 4 sumthin else.. but u do wat u feel lyk ur ready to do! but dont let no 1 force u into n e thing.. n dont wry about not noeing wat to do.. cuz sum guys lyk gurls tat havent done much.. but sum guys dont .. just b careful.. gud luk.. xoxo angie
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heheh i know this sounds stupid, but whenever me n my b/f are alone 2gether, its like we dont talk much, and we feel really akward, like were forced 2 be hangin out 2gether.. which def. isnt the case tho. i mean, i try 2 be all outgoing and stuff, but i feel like he doesnt even wanna talk even tho its awkward in the car.. any ideas 2 get rid of the akward silences besides bringing up random convos? cuz i already do that... he just answers my question, then doesnt expand on it.. and im always the one askin Qs about his life.. he never asks about mine in person... see, hes a totally different person online than in person.. when hes IM'ing me, he talks like hes happy 2 be with me, and flirts alot, but i dont think he feels comfortable around me yet cuz we only been goin out 3 weeks.. help anyone? (link)
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if he tells u tat he does get nervous around u ask him y.. wat it is tat makes him nervous... then u work from there.. watever gets him nervous u or both of u gotta try to make him feel not nervous wen ur wit him.. n e thing else just mail me! xoxo angie
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I met this boy at the beginning of the summer, but we liked eachother the first time we talked. After hanging out a couple times, we started going out. He isn't a virgin + supposedly got a girl pregnant awhile ago. He never pressures me or anything. I know I won't do unless I'm totally ready + totally in love. I'm starting to actually love this boy! I'm just scared I won't measure up to some of his old gfs + that I want to take things slow. He says he really loves me + that I'm different from all his old gfs and he likes + respects that. Should I stay with him? (link)
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wow.. u totally sound lyk me wen i first started going out wit ma bf.. he wasnt a virgin n i was.. n i wasnt planning to do n e thing till i was ready n till i was totally in luv n i thought tat was wen i was married.. n he didnt pressure me into n e thing n he respected me 100 percent but i was scared tat he wouldnt lyk me.. cuz i didnt " measure up".. well ive been wit him 4 2 yrs n lyk 1 month ago i lost it to him.. it was cuz i was ready.. he totally understood.. n we luv eachother to death!
if he got a gurl pregnant well tats a lil problem.. but if he respects u n he wont pressure u into n e thing then its all gud! but dont do it till ur ready cuz u dont wanna regret n e thing! but dont wry about measuring up to no 1 cuz he lyks u for u.. u shouldnt have to measure up to no 1.. especially ppl lyk tat.. n let him noe u luv him n u wanna take things slow.. im pretty sure he'll understand! but the second he disrespects u or makes u do sumthing u dnt want drop him! i think now hes ready 4 a real relationship since he says tatur different from all his old gf's n tat he lyks n repects tat.. tats wat ma bf told me! so gud luk n lemme noe wat happens.. i think hes a keeper tho! xoxo angie
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