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we barely have time
im kind of going out with this boy secretly.i feel terrible about it.but if anyone ever found out they just wouldnt accept us.well we barely talk to each other anymore i dont know what to do.he always seems to be really busy.If we do talk its like for 10minutes really late at night.how can i spend more time with him or talk to him more with out anyone finding out?please help me..
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I have this same exact problem, well the way i look at it is, he must not realize what a great chatch he has. Uf you show him that you don't put up with just anything, he will realize that he has a chance of loosing you. So just let him know how you feel. I promise, it'll work.
P.S if he still doesn't change he isn't worht your time. Don't let him bring you down.
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why are you guys secretly going out? are you guys ashamed of one another? well.. i dont think you should care about what other people think or say. you like him and he likes you, thats all that should matter
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i dont wanna judge u or anything cause u said they wouldnt understand ur relationship..but i dont c y if u really love eachother, it isnt worth trying. and if ur not accepted then at least u still have eachother. i dont think u two should date if ur ashamed of him..but if thats how u want it then ur just gonna have to give up ur free time with ur friends and spend it with him if u want to spend more time with him. cause its obviously one or the other.
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aight look wat i really think is tat u really shouldnt care if ppl accept u n ur bf.. its UR relationship not urs n otha ppl... i think tat if u didnt keep it on the down low u would have a better relationship cuz u wouldnt be hidin from no 1.. n i think if u keep it lyk this one of u is gonna get tired of it! gud luk xoxo angie
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maybe he doesn't like this whole dating secretly. Is it that bad that the two of you can't be out in the open with your feelings? If it is, keep at it. Who cares what society thinks? I don't know, but you shouldn't break up if you two are really in love.
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just hang out with him, who cares what other people think, if you really like this guy, you can't spend the rest of your lives sneaking around
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if u really care 4 eachother then it shouldnt matter what evry1 else thinks of u bein 2gether. maybe if u let it out it will b easier 4 u 2 c n talk 2 eachother more cuz it wont have 2 b a secret.
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I know this isnt the best thing to suggest, but sneaking out at night is probably the only way. Or i guess during the afternoon, if u live by a friend, say your going to your friend's house, and then just stop and see him first.
The other thing u could do is tell a few people u trust so u dont have to be as secretive about your relationship with him. if others dont accept u 2, then tell them to kiss your @$$. u shouldnt care what they think. if u care about each other, then be proud of what u have!
I have the same problem right now so I know what u r going through. Limited people know about me and my BF, so i sneak out at night ALOT. i've even stayed the night at his house before and didn't get caught. Its not the best thing to do, but it works.
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