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i ♥ giving advise .. ANYKIND! so dont be afraid to ask me. i love this site and im on it all the time so your questions will get answered pretty quickly. Some things about me .. my name is candace and i live in georiga. I love hangin out with my friends and doing stupid stuff. My favorite color is green!! green rocks! my favorite places to shop at are 1) american eagle 2) abercrombie 3) hollister 4) aeropostale 5) old navy ... these are the places i shop at the most but i do go other places sometimes! my favorite animal is deffinatly a monkey! they are soo cool. i have monkeys all in my room (fake ones of course!). well if you want to know anyhting else, just ask!

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I'm 14, soon to be 15. He just turned 19. He's so sweet and calls me baby/beautiful/sweetheart. All that stuff. I like him alot, and he likes me too. We've hooked up }not sex{ and I told my close cousins. They all make fun of me now saying that he's 19 and stuff like that. It really pisses me off because they don't know him. He's amazing and he likes me too. We live 2 hours apart, but I see him when I go up to my cottage. Which is alot. I really like him and I want it too work and so does he. But I want my cousins off my case. Should I tell them that I broke up with him??

IF you have any other advice about my situation I would greatly appreciate anything you have to offer.

Thank you soo much.

Love,
- Ashley

omg the same thing happened to my best friend. her name is mendi and she is about to be 15. well the dude that she likes and all is 18. her mom found out about them and forbidded her to see him. well she ignored her mom and she sneaked around callin him still and then we all hung out on july 4th. they even made out. well her mom found out and now she is in so much trouble. so if i was you, i would just tell them to back off ...sry this isnt much but thats wht i would do. sryy

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i have this reallllly good guy friend and he likes me a lot. i feel bad denying him everytime he asks me to go on a date or anything but it just would feel wierd for me. he says im leading him on because i flirt too much but thats the way i am with all guys. i kinda cant help it. do i give him a chance or stick with the no? how can i stop flirting with him when i dont want him?

same thing wtih me. one of my good guy friends keeps asking me out and when i say no he says i always flirt with him. i cant help it tho! i would say still stick with no if you dont like him like that.

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Okay here's the story, me and my bf have been together for over two years now and it's getting to the time where I need to decide on a college there this is one college that I was looking into because it had a an excellent animal sciences program but it isn't exactly close and I would have to live on campus. He told me that he couldn't handle me being far away and if I left that he would break up with me. Now there is a school closer to us that I could go to but then I'd have to pick a different major. So wait I am trying to figure out is should I go or should I stay?

you should definitly go! you cant let him tell you where to go to college. go to the one you really want to go to, not the one he wants you to go to.

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(16/f)
well, i recently broke up with my boyfriend. before we broke up, we told each other that even if we did brake up, we still wanted to be friends. it has been almost a week since we broke up and the jerk won't even talk to me. i have tried talking to him, being as nice as i possibly can under the circumstances. what is up with this? is he taking time and wasting away what we could have or does he not want anything to do with me? thanks in advance.

signed
confused & ready to kill the dude

the same thing happened to me. before me adn this guy broke up we always said we were still gonna be close but when we broke up, he wouldnt talk to me. I tried talkin to him but he wouldnt talk to me either! Its been 7 months since then, and we still arent talking. i would day just give him time and try to talk to him again in like a week, and if he still doesnt talk to you i would say just not to be friends. i know it will be hard, but it might be the best thing. hope it helped!

♥ candace

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Ok so i am 7th grade 13 and I like an 8th grader. We aren't going out; yet. I really like him, my friend asked him he said he liked me too. Tomorrow we don't have school and it's supposed to be like 88°. Well he lives really close to me. He was like, what are you doing tomorrow, and I was like i'll be so bored. He says well, maybe if you can, you can come over and chill with me and austin (his friend). Then he said I have a pool and it's supposed to be hot so maybe we can all go swimmin'! I was like sounds awesome. Well I really want to go but i'm afraid what my mom will say if i ask her. She isn't home tomorrow she's at work and i WILL NOT sneak out. But i'm afraid she'll be like, i'm not letting you go over to a boys house you're to younge. WHAT DO I DO OR SAY OR DO about my mom.... i REALLY WANT TO GO!

i rate high

tell her that he is just a friend and just explain that your not going to do anyhting wrong. Tell her that you want to go over and spend time with friends instead of staying at home alone and being bored all day. hope it helped!

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I like this guy named patrick, but im not shure if he likes me. we talk a lot though, like at school and stuff. what should i do?

since you like him .. i would just go on and tell him. If you are too shy to do that, get a friend to go up to him and ask him if he likes you. hope this helped!

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Hey me and my girlfriend just broke up she broke up with me in january a different girl dumped me and i got over her for a little while but when i started talking to her again i couldnt help but love her again i miss her so much i dont know if she likes me
what should i do should i ask her out or should i sit here and wish she would go out with me please help!?!?!?!?!

you should so ask her back out!!! dont wait for this, because she might find someone else ... GO ON AND ASK HER OUT!!

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I really like this guy at my school, but i know for a fact that he doesnt like me, i want to really ask him out badly but i dont want to be turned down, what should i do?

aww .. im sorry! but if he doesnt like you, im pretty sure he wont go out with you. I would just move on. i know there's another guy out tehre that does like you!

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How do you know if a guy likes you or not?

its kinda hard to tell. Some of the signs are he flirts with you all the time, he likes being around you, he stares at you. He does anyhting just to touch you. Things like that.

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my friend likes this guy and they both act like there going out. But they both wont admit that they like eachother. how can i find out if they like eachother or not?

thats what me and this guy name bj are doing right now. we both like each other but we wont tell anyone. We flirt all the time and hang out alot, but we just dont want everyone to know right now. Maybe your friend and the guy doesnt want anyone to know. I would just let them do what tehy want and just let them tell you when they are ready to.

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ok so i have this bf for about 3 months...he is being mean to me..in the halls he says break up with me jokingly n tells me he would rather hang with his frinds to go airsofting than hang with me...i really like him still n all but he doesnt care about me like i think a boyfriend should...should i talk to him maybe he will change or should i dumb him...my guy friend has said to me that my bf doesnt care about me n that he is being an ***hole towards me.im confused b\c i still really like him n if i break up with him i might regret it...im confused on what to do..

i think you need to have a serious talk with him and tell him he needs to change or else its over with. Say you want a boyfriend that will treat you right, and if he loves you then he would be nice to you no matter who yall are in front of. And if he doesnt change in a week or so, the best thing to do is dump him. I know it will be hard, but if he doesnt change .. why would you wanna stay with that? I know there is another guy out there that will treat you right.

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this is one of his friends .. i was just wondering

yea .. i still like him alot. i would go back out wtih him!!

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if josh still likes u and asked u back out, would you go out with him?

ummm .... who is this?

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One of my best friends just told me that she liked me today. She asked me if i had any feelings about it and i said not yet. The problem is that i don't really know if i like her as more than a friend. I used to like her like about a month ago, but i stopped. This may not make any sense but i want to like her as more than a friend because she is one of the nicest people i know, but i just don't think i see her that way. Is that possible? I don't want to hurt her and tell her that i'm not interested but i don't want to go out with her either. What should i do?

If your not sure if you like her like that or not, dont go out wiht her. It will only hurt both of yall in the end. Just tell her how you feel and say you think yall are better as good friends instead. Hope this helped.

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me and my boyfriend broke up and i think he wants me back. what should i do!!!!???? he flirts with me and he is so sweet to me. should we go out again? plus he said he loved me

I think that he still likes you, and i can tell you like him, so i say GO FOR IT!!

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Hey, i have had this girl as my girlfriend for a month and 3 1/2 weeks. But, we have not kissed yet, the main reason is, because we both have braces, i am affraid of all the roumours of linked braces that are going around. I get my braces off in June or July, and i am having her over tonight with a few friends for a movie night, should i got ahead and kiss her, or should i wait til i get my braces off and play it safe?

Im pretty sure nothing is going to happen, so i would say go for it and kiss her!! good luck

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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months now and the guy hasnt even tried to kiss me. Like im sorry if i sound bad for saying this but i have needs! So I was wondering what are some ways i can turn my boyfriend on so that he'll wanna make out with me, or at least kiss me?

i used to be in that situation. Turns out, the guy didnt think i was ready, and he was waiting for me to kiss him first. So maybe you should make the first move .. hope it helped!

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ok well i have a boyfriend and i like him a lot we talk on line and sometimes on the phone (i always call him he never calls me) and at school we don't talk at all. i am his first girl friend he has ever had but i can't stand not talking to him. i want to talk to him at school but i'm shy and hes shy not good not good at all. i was just wondering what i should do? i rate high

i used to be the same way .. but its ok. I mean, yall do go out so just walk up and talk to him!! It might be hard, but i know you can do it. Once you do it, you'll be glad you did. hope it helped!

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okay, for all you iditos who anwser questions with rude anwsers..go away now..because you arent wanted..
this one i would probaly like a girl to anwser..but hey, i dont care

okay, im 6th grade(girl of course)..corny but hey, and i like this guy..everyone says that we would look really good together, and i know him well. this is my 3rd year of being in the same class as him, we hang out together sometimes, and we basically sit next to eachother. well, his gf just broke up with him, althogh it wasnt a real relashonship..they never really liked eachother..well, i don't know if he likes me or not..we get along great and all..and well, i really want him to ask me out! he is so nice and funny, caring also..i always said that i would never have a bf until like 7th or 8th grade..cuz the relashonships are never real..but how can i clue him to like ask me out? or how can i get clues as to if he likes me or not? i really need help on this one..sorry for the length
signed..
need help!

first off .. finding out if he likes you, just od what i did. I had one of my friends ask this guy if he liked me. so ask one of your friends to ask him. Then giving clues, just flirt alot and give him hints that you like him. hope this helped.

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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!

most guys go for the personality and not the looks. So thats probly why your friend has boyfriedns and you dont. I htink it is rude for you to say that about your friend too. If you want to change all that, then flirt with guys more and talk to them more and let alot of guys get to know you, and then maybe someone will ask you out soon. hope this helped.

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