i have this reallllly good guy friend and he likes me a lot. i feel bad denying him everytime he asks me to go on a date or anything but it just would feel wierd for me. he says im leading him on because i flirt too much but thats the way i am with all guys. i kinda cant help it. do i give him a chance or stick with the no? how can i stop flirting with him when i dont want him?
Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:32 pm: If you go out with him, I would think that he would think it was out of pity. Just becuz you flirt doesn't mean that you show any real attraction to him, that's just how you are. If you want to set him straight just tell him that you have no feelings as far as to be in a relationship with him. Don't let your guilt make you do something you don't want to. [ Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy's advice column | Ask Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy A Question ]
angelinluv6767 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 10:54 pm: same thing wtih me. one of my good guy friends keeps asking me out and when i say no he says i always flirt with him. i cant help it tho! i would say still stick with no if you dont like him like that. [ angelinluv6767's advice column | Ask angelinluv6767 A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 10:42 pm: Some people are just flirty people. Maybe you're one of those. Nothing wrong with it but it may be sending him mixed signals. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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