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I'm Kaylee, I'm fourteen but many people say I act older then I really am. People say I'm high maintence, I have no clue why they would ever think that! =P I have some people in my life right now that mean a lot to me and I would do anything for them. I love to give advice so send your questions to my inbox. ♥
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which are good movies, like teenage love comedy =) like a piece of my heart, mean girls, or somethign like that ?
Bring It On All Or Nothing
Stick It
Step Up
John Tucker Must Die
The Devil Wears Prada
American Pie: Band Camp
...Hope you like those!
alright so me and this boy have been hooking up. not having sex but hanging out and getting really close and we have done stuff. well he has this ex g/f. and shes like crazy stalkerish. he told be that they have been broken up for like 3 weeks. well she made him a myspace and everything and it said they were still goin out. well i asked him and he said no they werent. well then on his myspace he took down all the pics of them kissing and put single on it. so i added him. well then i just seen that he deleted me and there are pictures of them kissing again. and she put on there she loves him. and it says in a relationship. but i really dont think that its him on there. i dont think he would go back out with her. i think its her on his myspace putting things on there. me & him were supposed to hang out today but i dont know if i should call him. i know he likes me. like on saturday night i was supposed to go to a party he was at but i couldnt find a ride. he did everything in his power he could to get me a ride. he walked in on this naked guy and begged him to come pick me up. plus i was in the other room and i heard his friend say something about me and my guy was like "im in love with her". should i still call him and hang out with him?
awww, you have to call him.
don't let her take the power.
tell him about the myspace and since
he loves you (or so he says,) he will
tell you if it's him or not.
tell him you don't want him speaking
with his ex because you think
she's creepy. i'm sure if he loves you
that much to walk in on a naked guy,
than he would stop talking an ex.
it seems like he really loves you, so i
wouldn't worry about it. dont assume hes
cheating on you because he seems like a good
guy. ex's will do anything to break couples
up. so just don't let her get to you
help im 10 and my bf wants to have sex with me!
i dont want to but he does he says we're ready
weve been going out for a year and he says its times
hes 11
HELP
um, i dont even know if i believe this because 10 year olds and 11 year olds should be playing with barbies and playing in the playground, NOT HAVING SEX.
if this is a true story which i doubt, then the obvious answer. don't do it.
if you get pregnant then when your 30 your daughter will be 20 and thats a close age difference. your daughter could technically be your sister. haha
so yeah, you don't want to worry about STDs, pregnancy, and all of that. your very young and you have time to worry about sex with you're wayyy older. for now, just go back to being a kid because thats what you are. enjoy it while it lasts.
and if you really are 10, you need to get of this site now because you have to be 13. alrighty bye
Ok soo theres this guy and i guess he likes me,ALOT! But i've known him forever and i dont want to ruin our frinedship over it. My friend said he was going to ask me out like soon, and i don't know what to say i don't know if i should go out with him, or if i should tell him no, but if i tell him no what should i say?? please help! =]]
your in a tough situation. if you like him and wanna go for it, then go out for it. if you think its gunna ruin your friendship, your screwed because if you tell him no then it could break his heart. just listen to what your heart is saying and you'll make the right decision.
Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers
yeah of course you can. one of my exes is my best friend and the rest i still keep in touch and hang out. as long as you didnt end your relationship with them with fighting, it wouldnt be awkward and theres no reason why you couldnt be friends.
i just made a question and now i get that girls can ask guys out but now how do we ask them out in a cute way i guess? specific kinda please? 13/f and ill see him again friday
theres no really "cute" way to do it but i can give you some different ways to asking out a boy.
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1. you could go over to him and just randomly say "will you go out with me?" and smile.
2. you could slip him a note in his locker or books to meet you somewhere after school and ask him out then.
3. or my favorite way to ask a boy out is to ask them to hang out and go to the movies (just as a friendly and casual thing) and while you're there ask him out
4. something sweet would be to bake him a cake and write on the cake "will you go out with me" it would be so cute lol
if you want your friends to ask him out for you,they could do it, or you could do it over the phone or online, but its not special if you dont do it in person. it will mean so much more to him if you ask yourself.
if your scared and shy just take a deep breath and ask. get it over with because once you ask you will feel so much better and the pressure will be gone. asking a boy out is easier then it sounds. i remember i spent 1 day in the mirror practicing what i would say to ask out the boy i liked and i was sweating my heart was pounding so fast i thought i was going to go blank, i was sooooo scared. but once i did it, i felt so much better. nothing is as bad as it seems.
good luck and i hope he says yes!!!
Is it bad to just hook up with someone even though you're not with them? It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I just need reassurance that it's okay. Please let me know! Thank you. ♥
everyone has different definitions of "hooking up" so i dont really know what you mean. if you mean just kissing, yeah thats totally okay. but if you mean further then that, i say thats unacceptable.
Lately I've been feeling really insecure about myself, because my boyfriend seems to be talking more and more to this girl. She goes to a different school, but they still talk often. I've asked him about it, and he's said they're just friends.
This is her - http://i12.tinypic.com/2jb0gbb.jpg
This is me - http://i12.tinypic.com/2ezikwm.jpg
Can you guys please give me an HONEST opinion of who you think is better looking? I really need to know if I should be worried or not that he is talking to her, like is she prettier than me? Thanks.
i'm going to be honest since you told me too and heres the truth. you are soo much prettier than her. no im not just saying that so you will give me a high rating. i truly mean it, you're really pretty and if that boy would pick her over you than he has some problems. that girl is so ugly when i saw the pictures i was like "ew who the hell is that?!" you dont need to worry at all.
much love...
This one guy I know from work, walked past me the other day & rubbed my arm? Does this mean he likes me?
theres two possible reasons why he touched your arm... either he was flirting with you, or it was just completely on accident. you really cant find out for sure. just flirt with him and if he flirts back, maybe he likes you.
good luck
I am a sophomore girl in highschool and i have had a major crush on this boy (who is a senior now) since last year. We have both ran on the same team for two years (but the season is over now). And i thought that there was absolutely no chance of "us" ever being together. But at our homecoming game (like october 3) i was sitting beside him and teasing him because a lot of freshmen girls always crowd around him. and he told me "its ok, because the girl sitting beside me (that would be me )is pretty cute. Then the next day he asked me to do something with him and we had an awesome time. But after that we didnt talk very much because i dont see him that much.
Then, about two weeks later, he called me and we talked on the phone for over an hour. He called me about 4 times within 2 weeks. He would skip class to eat lunch with me and it was great.
but i just found out that my friend has been telling him to call me and really pressuring him to be around me and ask me out and stuff. And now me and him havent talked on the phone for about a week and i'm wondering if he ever liked me to begin with or if he was just doing it becuase she told him to. (she has a way of leading people on and making them do stuff). I'm really confused and i dont know if i should call him or if i would seem needy, please help
the only way you can find out is to ask him yourself. asking your friend probably wont do any good because she doesnt know how he really felt to begin with. just dial his number and talk, it doesnt take a rocket scientist. im sure if he really didnt like you he wouldnt have skipped class to talk to you. if he didnt like you to begin with, he wouldnt have talked to you in the first place. maybe hes just been busy lately and hasnt had time to call you or maybe hes got a girlfriend. so just ask him its the only way you will ever know.
I like this guy and i sent him a not asking if he likes me and he said yes and i no he does because his friend says he talks about me alot and really wants to go out with me. I really want to go out with him but i don't want to ask him and he's not very confident so i think he's afraid to ask me. Should I ask him and ever since he told me he's kinda of ignored me. Also we are 13 too.
if hes a shy guy, chances are he cant just walk up to you and ask you out. he probably wants to, but he just can't.
one of you has to eventually do the asking. if he likes you theres no reason he would say no, so just get it over with and ask him out now so now you wont have to worry about asking anymore.
if you both keep being shy you will never go out if you're too shy to ask.
its not as bad as it seems, i've only asked out one boy in my life because usually i let them ask me, and i thought i was gunna sweat and be nervous and say the wrong thing or go blank, but i was being too negative. its really not that bad, trust me. anyone can do it, its just that most people dont try and it seems worse than the real thing.
much love and respect.
14/F.
I'm confused, does he like me or not?
Please, be completely honest. I want to know if I should continue to like him, or move on.
*Whenever I would see him, he'd give me these huge smiles & stare at me.
* I think he would take pictures of my ass? well, atleast, when he was walking behind me with his cell phone, I heard somrthing clicking. Like the sound that a camera phone makes.
*He'd show me how strong he is, or how tall he is.
*He'd take a bunch of random pictures of me.
*He'd lay on my bed & just smile and stare at me.. aha?
*He'd throw rubberbands at me.
& a bunch of other stuff.
[By the way, that was all in ONE night. Except for the first one.. he always does that]
So, what do you think? Is that the signs of a boy liking you? I'd tell him, but I have NO clue when I'll see him again, we don't go to the same schools. [I go to catholic, he goes to public] What do I do? He lives close to me...
Majorrrr thanks, in adavance.
aww he really does like you.
if you like him too, make your move before he moves on.
tell him you like him too!
Alright so, I went to a halloween party friday night at my friend's house. Her mom is cool, and let the guys who came stay the night. (which was only like 4 guys that could because of their own parents) And we were like messing around, dancing, singing and all that fun stuff.. then we were watching movies. And this kid who i thought that was one of my guy friends, but like never thought of anything more was watching the movie Rachel. and you know the reclining part of the couches? like on each side? So she was on one of those, and then i was laying with my feet over her and then the kid i was telling you about earlier who i thought was just my friend came, and was like oohhh Sam scoot over. So i was like sure. so i scooted to the inside of the couch and he was on the outer part. and like i get scared easily.. so like when we watched the movie I'd jump, and grab his hand. and then like he put his arm around me at one point and then i was holding his other hand while i had my head on his chest while we watched the rest of the movie and stuff. And like i eventually fell asleep on him for like 20 minutes like that then woke up. and then like i dunno. i kind of felt something, and then like whenever somebody saw us when we were watching the movie they'd be like "awwww you two are so cute! Are you going outtt?" and then we'd just be like "nopeee." But like I don't know like if i have feelings for him, or if i just liked having somebody to hold me like he diddd. How would i know thattt? Like how do you know if you like like somebody.? Thanks!!
Oh and I'm almost 15, and i'm a girl =]
i really think you guys like eachother!! give him a try, go on a date and you will know how you really feel.he seems like a good guy, deff. keep talking to him. =)
I have this guy friend named Alex. We flirt a lot, so I've gotten to really like him, because he's funny and charming and all that. We're the same religion and age and our parents know each other and stuff like that so there really wouldn't be any problem with us getting together. The problem is he flirts with everything that moves, so I don't know if he really likes me or if I'm just something that moves. Our girl's choice dance is in about 2 weeks, and I want to ask him, but I guess I'm a little chicken. Should I ask him, and if so, how?
female/16
just ask him because if you dont you might regret it. it sounds like hes into you so hopefully the results will be good. dont be scared, hes just a boy.
my boyfriend wants me to give him head, but i've never done it before. i'm comfortable with it and all, and i want to do it, but how do you give someone head?
if i answer this question, i will be kicked off advicenators. if you really want to know how about you try google???
www.google.com
its known to be a miracle worker.
ive been wit a guy for like a year n a half and were madly inlove but recently at my new job i met this guy whos soooooo hot and he wont leave me out alone, i dont want him 2 but i dont wanna cheat on my boyfriend i cant afford losin him, hes always trying 2 kiss, i kissed him but i stopped him and told him i cant, i dont no wat 2 do im so physically attracted to this guy, hes such a turn on n i dont wanna lose my boyfriend wat should i do?
okay, if you dont make your move fast you could lose both of them. you have to find out who you want to stay with. you have loved your boyfriend for 1 and a half years, but you have only known the girl from work for a short amount a time. i know he sounds really sweet, but you have to make sure thats his real personality and hes not being fake just so he can get in your pants. whatever you do, dont cheat on your boyfriend. your relationship with him will never be the same. theres a huge chance he will somehow find out and if he doesnt you will have to live with the guilt that you cheated on him and your conceious could haunt you forever. so whether he finds out or he doesnt, there will be some big concequences. you need to decide who you are attracted to more. i dont personally know you so i cant say which guy you should choose, so you have to list the good and bad things about both of them and come to a finally decision. for some support, you could have your friends help too and have them give you some reasons why one of the guys might be better. are you sure the guy at work isnt a phony? there has to be a way you can find out more about him. like maybe you, him and another one of your friends could go see a movie, not a date just for fun and maybe you could find out whether hes a really nice guy or if he just wants to get in your pants. dont tell your boyfriend about this new guy yet because it could break his heart. this is your decision, so really all i can say is listen to your heart. pick who you like better. i kno its a hard decision but if you really think about it and decide the outcomes for both choices, you will come to a decsion.
i really hope you make the right choice
adviice_whore
i really like this girl and i think she kinda likes me back but i'm too scared to ask what should i do???
get over your fear. the sooner the better
just go over to her and say "wanna go out
with me friday night and grab some pizza?"
or something like that or if you want her
to be your girlfriend say "hey, will you
go out with me?" she might say yes, she
might say no. its worth the risk
Hey, I'm 14 years old, a freshman in highschool. So there's this boy i really really like, we just met this year and are firends. I can't tell if he likes me back though. Sometimes he talks to me, sometimes i tlak to him, and now we've been walking to classes with one another ( he's in four of my classes, three of them are right after eachother)
I've caught him looking at me a few times, and he's caught me looking at him a few times. We joke around modestly, as he's pretty quiet. But he seems to like talking with me...he usually will make a comment to me if we're near eachother and spark up conversation. I try to stay back and walk with him, and sometimes he appears to walk with me by his own choice. And lately he's been looking at me more than usual and sparking up more conversation with me. But the thing is, if i try to talk to him online , he just doesnt seem interested. I'll get so far as to ask "whats up" and he wont reply. But he will reply to questions relating to school work etc. Does he like me? thanks for your help
golly gee, that boy seems head over heels for you. the fact that he walks to classes with you, and starts conversation when hes a shy guy, must tell that hes trying to get your attention. the reason he might not be talking online is maybe he doesnt know what to say. maybe he wants to say something smooth or funny or smart and doesnt want to seem boring but he cant think of anything.dont judge people on how they seem online because people are really different if you talked to them in person then if you talked to them online. i mean if you really wanna talk on aim, you could ask him why he never answers you. but you could also try talking to him on the phone. one of you have to make a move. hopefully hes planning to ask you out within the next week, but if he doesnt you might wanna ask him out. NOT ONLINE because things that important shouldnt be handeled by aim, in person would be the best. but no doubt, i know he likes you so flirt and stuff and just wait and see! dont let him get away.
with much love and respect
---adviice_whore ♥
Ok so I'm a freshamn and there's a kid in my gym class. He's cute and he always stares at me. Like a lot!. I think he likes me nd he's a really shy person. How can I get him 2 talk to me without looking stupid. Please don't say to ask him for what time it is...I don't think he carries a watch lol help
um asking him what time would just make everything awkward so im glad you didnt do that.
Anywho, you should just go up to him and be like "hey whats your name? I'm ____" and ask him what class he has next and stuff. also say he did good in gym whatever sport it was that he was playing and ask him what sports he plays and wrap up the conversation and keep him curious and wanting more. then next gym class maybe look at him so he gets that your interested and maybe he'll go up to you and talk.
just take it slow dont rush into anything get to know him more and make sure you smile alot and dont act boring or scared - its a turn off.
if you say the right things and kinda flirt you will hit it off.
:)
14/f
RAWR. my brother was on the phone with the kid i like.. & my brother goes "My sister likes you!"
I was like mortified..
I see him friday...& hes comin to my party..
What do i do!? Do I say something to him?
luckily he wont mention it and everything will go cool, right? just be normal dont be really shy or awkward just talk to him like you normally would.
if by chance he brings it up just say "sorry about that my bro is a little crazy nah jus kidding..he does it all the time i hope he didnt bother you or anything" and just smile. if you want to hint that your brother was true without giving it away just laugh and say "ughh brothers are soo annoying but dont mind him"
you really dont need to worry things will definitely go smoothly.practice what your going to say to him so if it does come up you will be ready
dont sweat it
=]