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Ok soo theres this guy and i guess he likes me,ALOT! But i've known him forever and i dont want to ruin our frinedship over it. My friend said he was going to ask me out like soon, and i don't know what to say i don't know if i should go out with him, or if i should tell him no, but if i tell him no what should i say?? please help! =]]
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If you once cross that boundary it can be very difficult, if not impossible, to go back to how things were before should anything go wrong. That said, if the two of you are meant to be together, it could be worth taking that chance. You really need to decide which is more important to you, the friendship or a relationship and go from there.
Weigh up what feels right for you, no one will be able to tell you this, it has to your decision. You are off to a good start as you have known him for so long, there shouldn't be too many nasty surprises! If he is willing to give it a try, listen to what he has to say, then make your choice.
Maybe your doubt is trying to tell you no. If you do turn him down, be careful not to hurt his feelings or you could lose him to embarrassment. Tell him that you value him too much to want to jeopardise your friendship at this point in time. Let him know how important he is to you and perhaps, some time in the future, you will get together, but not just yet.
Hope that helps a little and the best of luck.
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Well, do you like him? If so, how much? You just have to go with what "feels" right. Once you to have gone out for awhile, if you do break up, thing's wont be like they used to. Maybe not drastically different, but they won't be the same, you know?
When he asks you, if you want to go out with him, you say yes. If you don't say no, I don't want to ruin a friendship. But if he wants to give a relationship a try, maybe it's worth a shot!
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your in a tough situation. if you like him and wanna go for it, then go out for it. if you think its gunna ruin your friendship, your screwed because if you tell him no then it could break his heart. just listen to what your heart is saying and you'll make the right decision.
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