Question Posted Wednesday November 1 2006, 7:42 pm
I like this guy and i sent him a not asking if he likes me and he said yes and i no he does because his friend says he talks about me alot and really wants to go out with me. I really want to go out with him but i don't want to ask him and he's not very confident so i think he's afraid to ask me. Should I ask him and ever since he told me he's kinda of ignored me. Also we are 13 too.
adviice_whore answered Thursday November 2 2006, 7:09 am: if hes a shy guy, chances are he cant just walk up to you and ask you out. he probably wants to, but he just can't.
one of you has to eventually do the asking. if he likes you theres no reason he would say no, so just get it over with and ask him out now so now you wont have to worry about asking anymore.
if you both keep being shy you will never go out if you're too shy to ask.
its not as bad as it seems, i've only asked out one boy in my life because usually i let them ask me, and i thought i was gunna sweat and be nervous and say the wrong thing or go blank, but i was being too negative. its really not that bad, trust me. anyone can do it, its just that most people dont try and it seems worse than the real thing.
MelLeDisko answered Wednesday November 1 2006, 9:15 pm: It's normal for him to ignore you ; he's not tryign to be mean or anything, or it's not that he doesn't want to talk to you, he's probably just embarassed that he told you.
I would ask him out. If you like him and want to date him, and you don't ask, and he doesn't ask, how are you two ever going to go out? There's nothing to be nervous about - you already know he'll say yes!
Besides, guys like it whenever the girl makes the first move instead of the guys doing it all the time. It shows confidence.
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.