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Hey, I'm 14 years old, a freshman in highschool. So there's this boy i really really like, we just met this year and are firends. I can't tell if he likes me back though. Sometimes he talks to me, sometimes i tlak to him, and now we've been walking to classes with one another ( he's in four of my classes, three of them are right after eachother)
I've caught him looking at me a few times, and he's caught me looking at him a few times. We joke around modestly, as he's pretty quiet. But he seems to like talking with me...he usually will make a comment to me if we're near eachother and spark up conversation. I try to stay back and walk with him, and sometimes he appears to walk with me by his own choice. And lately he's been looking at me more than usual and sparking up more conversation with me. But the thing is, if i try to talk to him online , he just doesnt seem interested. I'll get so far as to ask "whats up" and he wont reply. But he will reply to questions relating to school work etc. Does he like me? thanks for your help
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golly gee, that boy seems head over heels for you. the fact that he walks to classes with you, and starts conversation when hes a shy guy, must tell that hes trying to get your attention. the reason he might not be talking online is maybe he doesnt know what to say. maybe he wants to say something smooth or funny or smart and doesnt want to seem boring but he cant think of anything.dont judge people on how they seem online because people are really different if you talked to them in person then if you talked to them online. i mean if you really wanna talk on aim, you could ask him why he never answers you. but you could also try talking to him on the phone. one of you have to make a move. hopefully hes planning to ask you out within the next week, but if he doesnt you might wanna ask him out. NOT ONLINE because things that important shouldnt be handeled by aim, in person would be the best. but no doubt, i know he likes you so flirt and stuff and just wait and see! dont let him get away.
with much love and respect
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well in my own opinion the guy likes you but " he is somewhat afraid to tell you becoz he is also trying to figure out if you will like him also its like a case of misunderstanding you are trying to know if he likes you and he is trying also to know if you like him also , the best thing to get anywhere with this guy, you're gonna have to be bold and make the first move, as scary as that might seem. But you have nothing to lose, so go for it! This guy might like you and wants to take things slow. he may not want to get into a fast relationship and is taking his time to know you more since you just met. you can try asking him why he doesnt IM you back and see what his response is.Heres the big whammy which takes alot of courage. you can ask him. its really not as bad as it seems. i did it once. sure i was scared but i did it and you never know untill you try.make sure you Don't try to rush anything! If he likes u let him chase you. I have noticed that most guys like the thrill of the chase. For now be his friend, and don't put any pressure on him. you might scare him away. It sounds as though he is slowly coming around. You might be best off just hanging back to see how it plays out. Considering you are both young, he may still be in the "I don't like girls very much" stage. When guys are young, they are still trying to find themselves. Girls mature faster than guys, so don't worry about just this one guy. Let him come to you. If you are on the Internet, you never know if he has any of his guy friends with him. Guys don't like their friends knowing they like someone. Things get said, and they don't like to be embarrassed. thas just a thought though about not telling his friends. Boys are strange creatures by nature,i think you are both shy,so just talk to him when he talks to you,and sometimes its ok to talk first,part of him still wants to be a boy and part of him is trying to learn to be a man,friends of either sex is always a great way to start as well. okay well i hope i helped you as best as i could and sorry i got to answer this so late. i got caught up in my homework. good luck and i hope i did my best. email me again if you have anymore questions. its scdgirl288@yahoo.com my name is also Brianna. bye and good luck again.
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It sounds to me like he likes you, looking at eachother all the time and giving compliments and walking to class and everything are usually signs that a boy is interested in someone - or he's just being really really nice, but I think he likes you.
There are all sorts of different talkers out there. Some prefer the phone, some prefer the internet, some prefer just face to face. I hate talking on the phone myself, whereas he might hate talking on the internet to people, so he tries to veer away from conversation.
Also, he might be afraid to talk to you after school, because during school, whats there to talk about? Of course, school and the classes and wahts going on right then and there, so that already creates immediate conversation. He might not know what to talk to about with anything else, and might be nervous and doesn't want to say anything stupid and come up with some lame conversation.
So during school, don't just talk of school, try and talk of other things like music and everything,and then as the bell rings, tell him you'll talk to him about it later online, and IM him about it and see if he responds. If he does, it may just be because he had nothing to say and was shy, if he doesn't, maybe try and ask him the next day at school why he doesn't talk so much on the internet. He might also be distracted ; he could be doing homework or playing a game or something, also. You never know unless you ask.
And since you like him, try giving him hugs and poke him and just flirt with him in school and everything, even on the internet, and try and hang out with him more outside of school so you can see eachother more in person. Then try and see if he flirts with you even more and shows you more signs of him liking you, cause then you'll definetley know.
I hope I helped.
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well i have preety much the same thing happening to me.
it depends on the guy and you i cant be 100% sure but theres a preety good chance he likes you.
what i do is ask him one day be like do you wanna play questions, and if he says yes dont just be like who do youlike and get to know him well, like ask random questions like shoe size and stuff like that. he could like you or he could not it depends. he might just be flirting and not know that hes making it seem like more.
well i hope i helped, if theres anything else i can help you with i will.
good luck <3
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Never judge a relationship by an online conversation.
Love, lust, and crushes are mistaken for the wrong thing online time and time again.
Most guys aren't really big into the whole "IMing" scene these days. They try to get away with the most basic font and the code that takes up the least amount of typing time. Wats ^ and U? for example.
By the looks of what you told me, he's into the early stages of it. Keep flirting and keep playing the game. After a while, try hanging out (if you don't already) hug him goodbye, go for a "Hey Cutie" instead of a simple "hi" (if you're the brave sort)
Also, try grabbing his hand when you walk with him when you feel comfortable too, it usually get the point across.
To see if he likes you, try this:
Smile at him from across the room (don't do it when he's sitting next to you)
If the ..
A: Smiles back eagerly, its a yes!
B: A struggled, small smile, he's shy but interested.
C: A weird look and he walks away, its a no.
Good Luck!
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