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Ok so I'm a freshamn and there's a kid in my gym class. He's cute and he always stares at me. Like a lot!. I think he likes me nd he's a really shy person. How can I get him 2 talk to me without looking stupid. Please don't say to ask him for what time it is...I don't think he carries a watch lol help
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The best thing I could probably think of doing is just talking to him about whatever's going on in gym. Try to get on the team he's playing, and maybe just ask him how to do this thing, or where do you go after you kick the ball and whatnot, just to get the conversation flowing.
And then after he "helps" you out, just be like,"Haha, thanks. This game is alot of fun, but I'm always forgetting what to do. Do you like it?" And then just carry on a conversation as best as you can about gym and then maybe carry on to other subject such as school in general and what teachers does he have, are any the same as yours, did he take that test on monday, etc.
I hope I helped.
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talk bout wat ya doin in gym class or summet den talk 2 him bout other stuff but get it started init
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um asking him what time would just make everything awkward so im glad you didnt do that.
Anywho, you should just go up to him and be like "hey whats your name? I'm ____" and ask him what class he has next and stuff. also say he did good in gym whatever sport it was that he was playing and ask him what sports he plays and wrap up the conversation and keep him curious and wanting more. then next gym class maybe look at him so he gets that your interested and maybe he'll go up to you and talk.
just take it slow dont rush into anything get to know him more and make sure you smile alot and dont act boring or scared - its a turn off.
if you say the right things and kinda flirt you will hit it off.
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Asking him what time it is is probably one of the worst things you could do, even if he does have a watch. The conversation would probably go a little like this:
YOU: What time is it?
HIM: (Shaking) Um...1:30.
YOU: Okay, thanks!
HIM: Uh huh...
YOU: ....Okay, bye!
Not a good ice breaker! If you are too shy to just go up and talk to him, try to get on his team whenever you play a sport and talk to him then. Afterwards, you can talk about how the game went, how tough the other team was, how well he played, etc. Don't freak him out: take it slow, talk for a couple minutes the first day and then start talking to him more and more as the days go by. Chances are, if he likes you, he'll really be open to talking to you, and though he might not seem like it since he's shy, he'll be thrilled that you're even talking to him.
Let me know how it goes...
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