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can you tell your bf you love him if youve only been datn a month
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You can, if you want him to run. With very rare exceptions, boys panic when a girl tells him she loves him. Especially after as little time as a month.
I'd hold out for a while until I were sure that he feels the same way.
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I definitely don't think time matters. If you feel it you feel it. and you know it when you do. If you think about it hard enough, you really shouldn't have to ask, you should just know. I mean, if you hesitate at all, put it off, it's not like It is going to change anything if you don't tell him, and if you tell him and then don't feel it, you aren't ever going to feel the same. Take you're time, but when you are ready, you'll know it.
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Sure, there's no rules. But remember, there's a big difference between "loving" someone and being "in love". I "love" my parents, my friends, my family, etc. But I have only been "in love" twice. You can tell him whenever you feel that you really do care about him, but don't take it lightly. Love is a big thing and it's a lot more than a four letter word...it's an attitude and a very powerful emotion. Be realistic, if you've only been dating a month, chances are you're really not "in love" with him (maybe I'm wrong, but in my experience it usually takes quite a while to really fall "in love"...not that there's a set "time limit" or anything). Just make sure that, whenever it is, you mean it with everything you have and that you treat him like you do.
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If you REALLY love him, you can. True love has no real rules-it's unlimited!
There are people who have claimed to fall in love at first sight and have spent the rest of their lives together-very happy.However, for most people it takes a little more time.
If you're having doubts to whether you really love him or not then it's too soon to tell him you love him. If you love him-then go ahead!
Just keepin' it real
LadyJade
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It's only been a month. I don't think he would believe you. Maybe you should just keep it to yourself because I doubt he's in "love".
You can show him that you really care about him.. but it's too early for that.
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No, because I seriously doubt you love him after a month.
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