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I've never liked more than one person before. It's always been that way. About 4 weeks ago I broke up with my bf because I knew he liked someone else. So we stayed friends because we were better off friends, and i'm fine with that because I stopped liking him anyway. But now, I started liking this one boy, John, and he's so awesome. Anyway everytime I look at my ex I get the same feeling of liking him, and when I look at John I feel the same thing. It's not like love because love feels better. I've been telling myself I don't like my ex, and I've convinced everyone else that I don't like my ex. The only person I haven't convinced is myself. I'm not sure who I like John, or my ex. Who does it sound like I like? Is John just my rebound boy? HELP! (link)
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Getting over someone is one of the hardest things in the world to do, especially if it was a serious relationship. If you want to persue a relationship again with your ex, you should wait it out, and John is probably a rebound. If not, you are probably recovering, and honestly do like this boy. I would advise you to wait it out a bit longer.
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16-f. ive been with my bf for 3-4ish months and were both really comfortable with each other. last nite for the first time i gave him a handjob and he fingered me. thats the farthest either of us have gone, both with each other and just in general. i feel a little guilty about it. i dont REGRET it, because, yeah we were both a little nervous, i dont know what his reason was, but mine was i just didnt kno how to do what i was doin lol, but also bc it feels like such a sin. i mean my familys not all church-every-sunday-pray-before-every-meal kinda stuff, but we do have a sense of faith.. and believe you should wait till youre a little older and with someone you truly love before havin sex or anything. my bf and i have both talked about this stuff, and i told him i wouldnt have sex till we were together for AT LEAST a year if not longer, and hes totally cool with that and all, and it was a mutual decision that this is the farthest we go for awhile. but i just have this idea in my head that im like going against God because we did that, and its weird. if it wasnt for that idea that like my family would be ashamed of me or that im betrayin my faith [i mean i sin ive lied and i cuss and stuff] but this is bigger ya kno. i dont regret it and im comfortable with him and i feel like we were ready to go a little further so thats not the issue.. but i dont know what to think i mean i almost feel slutty doin that but when i think of other people doin it, it doesnt seem like a big deal to me. i guess im mostly worried about what my family would think/say if they knew.. ahh help? lol (link)
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I think that if you've been dating for three or four months, you shouldn't be worried at all about being a slut, especially if you like him. I know people feel guilty when they do things they when they are unsure about liking the person they are with, but you seem to like him, and you've been dating for a long time, so It's ok, in that sense.
But as for your parents. My parents wouldn't even be ok with me making out with a girl, I mean, it's a parents job to be protective. As for religion, I won't get into that, because everyone has different views. But you shouldn't feel bad for taking a step with your boyfriend, especially if you both wanted it. You're parents are supposed to be worried, but honestly, if they are normal parents, they would be cool with it. I mean, my parents are freaks, but they know what I've done, and they except it, as long as I'm safe. Religion is a different factor that you have to find for yourself. Anyone can tell you its "ok" and "god will be fine with it" but you actually have to ask yourself if you are ok with it, and I don't really do that whole -religion- thing, but you have to ask yourself if god would be ok with it too, if that is what you're looking for.
Don't sweat it though, everything is ok, and its perfectly fine to be nervous.
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what does it mean when a guy says "i would give it to you good"? (link)
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probably either sex, or death. Be careful.
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well i have been going out with this guy for about a week and he won't make a move to kiss me. we always just hug should i make the move and if i should can someone please tell me how (link)
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well, I think one way to go about it is to ask him how he feels and if he is ready, but if you want it to be spontaneious and fun, I would say just go for it. The worst thing that would happen would be for him to tell you that he isn't ready, which sounds bad, but really isn't. Because then he would know you want to, and when he is ready, you wouldn't have this problem again. Don't worry about it, either talk to him, or just do it =)
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Heres a weird question: is it normal for my lips to kinda get swollen after me and my boyfriend make-out? lol i always come home looking like angelina! any ways to prevent it? (link)
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that never happened to me.. hmm. maybe something is wrong. Is he like.. sucking on your lips? Because that sounds weird.
maybe I just didn't notice it.
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can you tell your bf you love him if youve only been datn a month (link)
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I definitely don't think time matters. If you feel it you feel it. and you know it when you do. If you think about it hard enough, you really shouldn't have to ask, you should just know. I mean, if you hesitate at all, put it off, it's not like It is going to change anything if you don't tell him, and if you tell him and then don't feel it, you aren't ever going to feel the same. Take you're time, but when you are ready, you'll know it.
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