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Guy confusion
Alright so, I went to a halloween party friday night at my friend's house. Her mom is cool, and let the guys who came stay the night. (which was only like 4 guys that could because of their own parents) And we were like messing around, dancing, singing and all that fun stuff.. then we were watching movies. And this kid who i thought that was one of my guy friends, but like never thought of anything more was watching the movie Rachel. and you know the reclining part of the couches? like on each side? So she was on one of those, and then i was laying with my feet over her and then the kid i was telling you about earlier who i thought was just my friend came, and was like oohhh Sam scoot over. So i was like sure. so i scooted to the inside of the couch and he was on the outer part. and like i get scared easily.. so like when we watched the movie I'd jump, and grab his hand. and then like he put his arm around me at one point and then i was holding his other hand while i had my head on his chest while we watched the rest of the movie and stuff. And like i eventually fell asleep on him for like 20 minutes like that then woke up. and then like i dunno. i kind of felt something, and then like whenever somebody saw us when we were watching the movie they'd be like "awwww you two are so cute! Are you going outtt?" and then we'd just be like "nopeee." But like I don't know like if i have feelings for him, or if i just liked having somebody to hold me like he diddd. How would i know thattt? Like how do you know if you like like somebody.? Thanks!!
Oh and I'm almost 15, and i'm a girl =]
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I think you were just scared.And,let me tell you how you know if you like some1:
1:When you go near the person,you get all blushy and nervous,cuz you don't know what to say,or do.
2:You always want to be around the person,so you know what they're doing,you literally puppy gaud them.
3:You always think about the person,can't get them off your mind.
4:And if any1 goes out with him,you'll hate that person.
One or ALL of these symtoms means you like the guy.
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Hm, it sounds to me like it could be going either way. I've had that before with some guy friends. They treat you so great and everything and you love every minute of it, but you don't know if you're just loving the attention, or them.
The only real way I suggest to find out is to just flirt with him more and see what happens. And don't try to cuddle and everything as much, cause that'll just be a repeat of before. Try talking to him and everything, and imagining yourself as a couple and whatnot. If you can't imagine you two being a couple and everything, then you're probably just loving the attnetion he's giving you.
But if you can imagine it, continue doing what you guys are doing, and show him more attention and flirt more and make him feel special. And then if you ever feel comfortable enough and gutsy enough to, maybe someday let him know that you like him and everything, and see where it takes off.
I hope I helped.
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Well, it sounds kinda in the middle, I mean.. maybe if you never thought about him before more then a friend, now you finally are. I think if that happened to me & I did that.. I think I'd end up liking the guy. So, you probaly do. I can't really tell you if you do or don't, because only you know that. But, it sounds like it to me. Next time you talk to him, see how he acts & see if he likes you too (:
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i really think you guys like eachother!! give him a try, go on a date and you will know how you really feel.he seems like a good guy, deff. keep talking to him. =)
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