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am confused
ive been wit a guy for like a year n a half and were madly inlove but recently at my new job i met this guy whos soooooo hot and he wont leave me out alone, i dont want him 2 but i dont wanna cheat on my boyfriend i cant afford losin him, hes always trying 2 kiss, i kissed him but i stopped him and told him i cant, i dont no wat 2 do im so physically attracted to this guy, hes such a turn on n i dont wanna lose my boyfriend wat should i do?
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okay, if you dont make your move fast you could lose both of them. you have to find out who you want to stay with. you have loved your boyfriend for 1 and a half years, but you have only known the girl from work for a short amount a time. i know he sounds really sweet, but you have to make sure thats his real personality and hes not being fake just so he can get in your pants. whatever you do, dont cheat on your boyfriend. your relationship with him will never be the same. theres a huge chance he will somehow find out and if he doesnt you will have to live with the guilt that you cheated on him and your conceious could haunt you forever. so whether he finds out or he doesnt, there will be some big concequences. you need to decide who you are attracted to more. i dont personally know you so i cant say which guy you should choose, so you have to list the good and bad things about both of them and come to a finally decision. for some support, you could have your friends help too and have them give you some reasons why one of the guys might be better. are you sure the guy at work isnt a phony? there has to be a way you can find out more about him. like maybe you, him and another one of your friends could go see a movie, not a date just for fun and maybe you could find out whether hes a really nice guy or if he just wants to get in your pants. dont tell your boyfriend about this new guy yet because it could break his heart. this is your decision, so really all i can say is listen to your heart. pick who you like better. i kno its a hard decision but if you really think about it and decide the outcomes for both choices, you will come to a decsion.
i really hope you make the right choice
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