i am completely lost and confused. i first had a crush on a guy starting in may last year going till about juneish..or so i thought. turns out i dont' think i've ever stoped liking him. and he turns out to be one of my best guy friends. and i'm scared to tell him i like him and ruin a friendship. so please what should a 17 year old girl do about liking her really good basically best guy friend.
[and i heard he had a crush on me last year but i'm not sure if it was true or not]
well if some one told you he had a crush on you, you should take that to consideration, its possible that it may be true, because i too have a really big crush on my best friend and he likes me too, we've been liking each other for three years already and im 18 now, but we never went out, our friendship is great and hes the most trusted person i know, so it think at the moment keep your crush to yourself and let it grow more and more, and at times flirt and if he flirts back then hes interested, just don't rush it, and trust your heart and mind, keep your friendship closer and if it passes a year or a couple of month, do those little flirty comments like "when we having a baby" and "love ya" that type of crap and if he plays along instead of telling you to stop then you can keep your head up high and look toward a good relationship with him. WHo knows, me and my best friend might end up getting married tee hee
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Im a freshman!!!! yay i dont think its a bad thing i wear my I.D faithfully with that big 9 on it ...But 2 the point yeah uhhh i met this boy and he is like my best friend now he is in 10th and he is 16 its like it was an automatic click WeWhereThisCloseInThe SnapOfMyFingers but you know what they say its never about how long you've known someone its about how close you get to them and the point of this all is that ive fallen for him we cant be bestfriends anymore cuz friends dont look at eachother the way we do and people are always asking do we go out and saying how cute we are together we have never admitted to eachother about our feelings but i know he knows and he knows i know...MAJOR PROBLEM he has a girlfriend who doesnt go to our school...but the thing is i want him to be mine....Advice please : {
well be like "dam it sucks you have a girl? do you really like her?" but no, dont make him break up with his girlfriend, because if he breaks up with her to go out with you imagine if he ends up like some other chick, then he'll break up with you to go out with her, it will turn into a bad habbit, so try not to do that. wait till he starts complaining about her, so be patient, if hes worth it then hes worth waiting for. But then if you cant wait any longer,just ask him how things are going in his relationship, and if he says its going bad, tell him, then it aint gonna get way better, you should just break up with her, but i advise you, do not convince a guy to break up with his girl for you, because he could possibly do the same thing to you.
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im like so embarrassed, ha so im always really tired in school, and when im not paying attention, i just kinda stare off into space. and so, some weird kid thinks i like him, and i deff. don't. i have a boyfriend. & i hope he doesn't tell anyone that i do. because i don't. what should i do?
well if that weird kid thinks you like him do what i do, be a little bitch, when he looks at you give him like a dirty look, but not the way that it would hurt his feelings, just like a little look "wow ur ugly, ewww turn away turn away " type of look, and like when you feel he is looking toward your direction, scoff, and lay your head on your hand so he thinks that you think hes gross to you, You really dont have to say anything, just by the way you look will repel him okay. and if he dont stop, then when he looks at you, be like "what!?!" "may i help you? geez then stop lookin at me?" nad tell your man before hand, be like "some dude thinks i fukin like him, cause im always staring out to space, what an idiot"
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Okay so I like this guy "H" and we're not all that close but we talk and are partly in the same social group . So , I smoke and he thinks it's gross . so I'm quiting . Anyways , he's been going about saying smoking kills everytime he sees me ... so I slap him on the shoulder playfully and say shushhh ! and smile and then he smiles and we talk . And today my friend "S" asked me to come to his vollyball game and H is on the team so he was practicing and he walked by and looked at me and smiled and I smiled , and it was EXACTLY like the slow motion moments in the movies !Plus I think H is just saying this to get me to talk to him .
Although , I asked him out like 1 and 1/2 months ago and he said "No , I'm sorry , I'm 13 and I don't need a girlfriend I'm fine by myself"
So ... I don't really see us going anywhere ... but if he liked me enough he might want to try it out [hes never had a girlfriend before]
So basiclly I'm just confused !
Answers by morning or the 30th would be highly apreciated and rated accordingly ! =]
I just need to know !
Oh yes , I also think S likes me ? but he flirts with EVERYONE ! so I dunno but he asked me to his vollyball games everytime and wants to walk me home just to get me to come . Plus he's really sweet to me . But he's like that with a lot of people ?
So I'm thinking because I'm usually one of the guys and easy to talk to , I might just be aprochable ?
Give me some opinions ?
PLEASE ?!?!
I AM DESPRATE !
thnxxxxx !
I will rate if you give good advice !
xoxo
well this is a difficult situation, first of all, do you think your friend S likes you, you should try talking to him, but if he dosnt interest you, then go up to H when hes by himself, just ask, why is it that you don't want a girlfriend, and if he thinks your cute, its possible that he is the stage where he feels that right now isnt the rite time to have a gf, and i believe its true, 13 is kinda young, wait till your 14 at least. haha not much of a difference but thats when the "wanting of a relationship" hormone starts, understand me? but then just talk to him, tell him how you feel, like you like him, you think hes really talented and nice. and that our interested, and if he says, we'll see or maybe "in the future" it will be like a 50 50 chance, because it takes time.
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why do i always fall in love with the emo/gothic guys, it doesnt matter who they are or what they look like, i mean he could be the ugliest and fattest guy in the world and i will still fall for him. can anyone tell me why im in lvoe wiht all the emo/gothic guys?!?
ohm y god me too, i used to fall for them all the time, its the same with white boys, they could be like the ugliest but i would still like them because there white, its just your specific taste and you dig the style. Its a kind of species you would love to be around, but its only temporary the feeling, i always wanted to marry and emo guy but its went away in about a year and a half, i still wouldn't mind, but if they are depressed people you'll just be like "get a life guys" hahaha hope that helped a bit
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but when i asked her if she read it she said yes
when i asked what she thought of it im not sure what it was she said like pttff and looked the other way then i said say something even if its stupid she smiled and laughed that was it she hardly says anything to me but says alot to every one else and one time i was talking to her and she acted or she did realy hit a door i kept going for a bit and looked back and smiled and waited for her then we walked out to the buses thats it
im so sorry, mother wouldnt let me on the computer, but well, if she said pfft its definelty not a good sighn, shes probably tryin to avoid you..thats what i do in school, but if your planing on talking to her, meet her at the locker, but make sure your not crowded by a bunch of people, simply tell her. " you know by now that i like you..and i was wondering if you could give me a chance..." but dont ask her if she likes you back, it will make her struggle to answer. When your around her, dont act shy, dont act tough, and dont act like a dork..simply act yourself, never call yourself ugly, becuase that is a no no, no girl wants a guy with no self esteem. But when you go up to her, dont crawl up to her, walk normal, try not to show that your nervous, and be like "hey whats up".look her straight in the eye, dont stutter, and dont sweat, some dude did that to me, and its totally embarrassing. but think of it this way..if you could do this, you know by going up to her, you'll be able todo it again and again, without shitting in your pants, and if she rejects you, dont show that your hurt or depressed. be like "okay whatever then" and smaoke a blunt hahaha just kidding, hope i gave you an idea
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ok i like this girl and i told her and i did ask her what she thought about me and now this year it seems she might like me like when we were talking all we did was not pay attention to anything else but ecother but now for some reason i feel like shit cause every one now knows i like her and they told her and she laughed with them and there not my friends so i was sorta mad not realy at her but atmyself should i talk to her tommrrow and see how it goes should i care that i might make her life harder like her friends hating her for likeing me if she does and stuff and thats why i leave her alone i dont want her to be hurt but tommorrow i should talk to should i not but id have to wait after school and wait for her or go up to her? and start it cause this year we have no classes together
alright sweety, this is a difficult moment, and i bet you get all knotted up just thinking about it. But first things first, look in the mirror, are u good looking, because if you dislike your features then its a no no with her. But if she knows that you like her, its possible that she tryin to make you die for her. But its possible she may like you back. But first of all, dont talk to her yet, i want to be able to help you out in this situation, i need to know what it is that she told you when you told her that you liked her, becuase her answer could help find out what it is that shes feeling. So please let me know as soon as possible because i dont want you to risk a harsh rejection. okay
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Theres a dance coming up friday, and I as a dare asked Adam. I've liked Adam now for a couple months and everyone said we'd be cute together.. and that I should. I did, making sure he knew it was a dare, but I did really wanna go with him and he said yeahh. I was wickedd happy, and he went and ruined it. With a bunch of his friends he called me a bus. The SAME day! I was wickedd sad for the rest of the day, and like two days after like on brink of crying.. which I did. He said he was sorry like 20 times, which he always does! I told him I wasn't going to the dance with him, and now everyones like NOO NOO you should!!!
And now a week later were all okay, im flirting he is too.. I can tell lol easily.
But he's two faced like today i had my period and bled threw, and Sasha brought up the pants switch right infront of him.. and I was like what the hell and told her off and Adam was like dont worry I like these pants more on you =D...
Should I see if he's still going to the dance? Or forget about it because he's sorta two-faced but not really, really bad.
Anythings good.
thankxx
i've heard a couple times for you guys, he's a jerk.. sooo
Well then if hes a jerk then don't go to the dance with him, but tats only unless you got someone else in mind. But i just say go the dance with him. It isn't a big deal, just take pictures together and then your off, you can go dace with your friends while he goes dancing with his. But if you feel uncomfortable about your decision then don't go to the dance with him. But he dosnt sound much of a bad guy.
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So me & my boyfriend have been together for like 5 & half months.I'm trying to figure out what to get him as a anniversary gift & I can't think of anything..so far for christmas & his birthday I gave him a necklace when we weren't even together as a gift when we were talking & I got him some shorts & a shirt from AE & flip flops.Now I have nothing else to get him.If anyone has any ideas what to get that would be appreciated.Thanks in advance :]
Well you could get him a dog chain, with a picture of you and him prined on it, its really cute and they do it at malls or ewlery places, and it isnt even that expensive, also give him a teddy bear. Guys like teddy bears too, no matter how manly they are hahaha
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**Mods Don't Delete, Need some Major Help Here**
Alright, my dick is curved a little bit. I was wondering if there is anyway naturally to straighten it further. Also, without using pills or using weights to make it larger (wider and longer) 6 1/2 and about 5 in around....
Thanks
Okay, its okay if your dick is curved abit, its natural, but if it hurt, then you should tell your doctor, Alot of sex also helps get it bigger, NO I LIE haha, try natural male enhancement pills. They sell them at drug stores, hope ive helped
Luna
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heyy 14/m i like this girl from school and im pretty sure she likes me bak--but im having trouble talking to her its like i dont know what to say. what do girls like to talk about? and what do you like to see in a guy? thanks!
well if you ask me haha im 17/f, very pretty but who cares, anyway, what girls like, well what most girls like is that we dont like shy guys, sometimes its cute but we like men who are out going. When you see her, just go up to her and be like "hey whats good?"
and she'll say "oh hey whats up" or "oh nothing, whats up with you" and you say "so whats good for today, doing anything later, because i think your mad cute and i want to get to know you" you know something like that, then she'll give you her answer and shit and see how it goes. You guys will start talkin and shit, but dont say stupid crap we hate that. But we love humor!!! humor is number 1! dont get into any awkward silence. Girls like to see confidence and attractive-ness whatever. So give it a try, and never call yourself out, like "oh im soo ugly" we dont like guys with no self esteem okay, hope ive helped
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You know how love can be based on looks,personality,interest,etc.etc.?
well can it be based only one?I think so,but I want your opinion too,like some girls just love a guy cause he looks hot and then only get to know him further,and some girls like guys that play guitar.
anywayws,i met this gal online,and we did not see each other at all,after talking for quite a while we logged off.then the following day we chatted again for hours.She then told me that she likes me and really loves my personality and the way I talk and asked me to be her bf.
So the question is this,is that love? or maybe like?(If love is too strong a word).In this situation,can it be counted that this girl actually likes me? or is it not counted as a crush/love/like since she has not seen me at all but just talked to me?
thanks
Oh my god, same thing happened to me, let me just tell you, so that you know how it will all end up. I met a guy who knew about me through his friend. He aimed me and we talked and he said i was beautiful. He sent me his pictures and he was cute, he was a stalker he was a normal teen like me. so he called me, and everyday for 2 weeks, we talked. we liked each other so much we couldnt wait to meet! he called me baby and shit, and he said he could see us fallin in love..so did i...well we went to the movies, and he was sooooo cute, then a couple of days later he was a distant, and he said he had boxing and working to do so he would be too busy. he still called me, and lecture me, telling me never to let anyone let me down......bla bla bla, anyway it turned out shit, and in the end even if you saw the person once, it will hurt you like if you knew that person for years. it may feel like love but its just a really big crush. But i say give it a try. meet her...but count on it...you may wish that she remained annonmous....
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15/f
I don't know what to do anymore I really like him but he seems to be interested in my best friend. I've tried everything but I'm about to just give up because what ever I seem to do isn't working. I've already talked to her and she respects my feelings but she still flirts with him he says he doesn't like her but yet he flirts back with her. It just hurts because I really like him. I don't know what to do.
well sweety this is a serious problem, and sometimes and it cant be helped. Not all best friends will respect your feelings. She may have a crush on this boy as well. But no one can control their feelings. No one. You cant make him like you, and the only thing you can do at the moment is dont tell this friend of yours any of your secrets and to tell her to stay away from him. It will make her feel more powerful. The only thing right now, is to move on and ignore him, so enough he will feel that u have no interest in you, and try to get your attention. But then again, hes probably flirting with that friend of yours because he wants to make you mad and make you not like him anymore. there are many reasons. hope ive helped a bit, but if i havnt i have more ideas, muahhhh
love Luna
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im really wanting to try something to to me and my boyfriends french kissing u know something to make him be all like surprised so i was thinking about bite/suck his lower lip but when are you suppossed to do it?....the end.....the middle.....the begining???
and how do you do it effectivly so it wont feel akward for him?
well some guys don't like getting there lip bit because some girls do it too hard, so practice with your lip first, make sure its gentle. usually the biting of his lip is toward the end, before u start again.make him stick out his tongue or when he sticks it out, suck his tongue gently then lick his tongue and upper lip, its very sexy. it will turn him on i promise you.
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I found out my wife is cheating on me and she is pregnant with this other guys baby whats the most worst way to get back at her? And trust me she deserves it.
wow thats crazy, well then, one day when she comes home, say from work or fucking this guy, bring a girl over, or like lay a pair of womens painties on your bed, and if she askes who's is that, tell her it must be one of your fuck buddies or friends. also tell your female friends to cal your cell and call you boo maybe, it would rub her the wrong way and cause a burn hahaha its a nice try
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ANSWER ONLY IF YOUU KNOW WHAT YOUR TALKIN ABOUT!
i know that when you french kiss you put your tongue in a guyz mouth but i dont know how to do it like an expert. cuz im 17 and guyz still say i suck a it and ive been kissing sice i was in 7th grade! does any one know how to french kiss like an expert?
wel i cant really say im an expert, but they say i do it really good, maybe your stiff, so try movin your head side to side at times, and twirl your toungue with his, and stick out your tounue while he takes on his youngue and play with it, like snakes, its really fun and it can put you in the mood. i dont know, if this dosnt help, tell me, i might be able to help you better
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okay theres this guy i go to school with and have because well rather bestfriends with him.
yesturday i was talking to him and he said he was thinking about going out with me. ((i have liked him the whole time he's been here for 3 years.))
But the only thing is im not aloud to have a real go out on dates boyfriend(until im 16) which is what he wants. I told him about the sixteen thing and he said he would wait...he turns 16 3 days after me in december..thats 6 MONTHS!!. He wants us to talk and keep close friends and he said he wants to be my first REAL boyfriend.
But just a few months ago he said that he tells girls what they want to here to get what he wants.
The only problem is in october he was pressuring me to flash him which ended badly and we didnt talk for awhile. now he says he doesnt want to do anything with me or have me do anything to him until we are dating and he says no pressure will be put on me anymore...He also turned some really pretty girl down for sex! because of me!!!
do you think he's telling the truth and we should keep close till then or is he just telling me what i want to hear?
No way sweety, hes obviously thinks you'd be hot in bed.i say let him wait, but dont think about makin any moves because it could be a big mistake.every guy wants a grl tom flash him. thats normal. but if that get mad. its not a good sign, meaning he'll probably critize you and shit.but if you guys decide to go out...wait at least 4-6 months, if your planing on having sex with him, but please, a young girls virginity is sacred.Keep safe, till you trust, and truly fall in love.But to admit, i dont think hes telling the truth, but keep close, and watch his every move, and be very careful! okay, hope ive helped
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ok so last year i had this insane crush on this boy but i dodnt know what to do. i've talked to him some but its like he doesnt really care. and i know he knows me. i kept telling myself that i would ask him but i keep getting scared. i almost did once. i called him and he turned, looked at me, looked around,stopped for like 5 seconds then kept goin. (it could have been that he didnt think it was me who called him). and after school he was in my way so i just plainly said 'excuse me' and he turned to look at me then moved. my friend alexia (who was walking with me) said he said my name under his breath. what should i have done all year to get him or something, or see if he wanted me.
well if you have mixed feelings, and you feel that when you talk to him, its like hes ignoring you or something. When you talk to him, see if he looks you in your eyes, if not, then he's a person who dosnt make i contact. If he sighs or yawns when talking to you then he isnt interested in hearing. If your friend did say she heard your name try not to be excited. Because its possible your friend wanted to give you good news that possibly wasnt true. If hes a popular boy, I seriously advise you to stay away and save your heart because guys like them dont have hearts and want girls who are near perfect. When you walk by him, do you feel him eyeing you?? When you say hi, does he smile when he says hi back??When you walk by each other does he pretend not to notice you??But one thing, i want you to do, is sit down in front of a mirror, do you were makeup?? Do you think you are pretty??first of all if you think you are unattractive then theres no way that guy would be interested in girl who isnt confident. Look at your clothing? Do you need to change your style?? this is something you should of observed in the begining of the year. Also, when you would talk to him, do you flirt? thats one thing that must be done, because it makes the guy want to be interested in the conversation and yourself. But one thing dont make it obvious yet that you like him. If you feel its to late to try, tell your friend Alexia maybe to talk to him, like ask him,"what do you think of her?" pointin to an ugly random chick, you know start there, then randomly point to you, and see what he says about you. If he tells her he thinks you are cute, then theres a chance. Smile at him, is a start. Dont miss a moment to say hi. You should of been more outgoing around him, and first found out some info from his close friends or someone who is cool with him, because there is not point in killing yourself for a fake jerk. well if you need more, ask me again alright,
~Luna~
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k well first i'm 13 and a girl and i really like this guy i mean we've only hung out a few times but i've had an on-and-off crush on him since the first day we met. the other day i went to his house and at first it was kinda awkward but then we started making out and we went to his room. once i realized everything i was all like "no you have a girlfriend you can't do this with me." and he was all like "but i might break up with her." and i was really confused i mean i really like him and this was like wow. I convinced my self what she doesn't know won't hurt her...right?
so we had sex but for some reason it wasn't what i expected and it was just disapointing. i mean this is the guy i've liked for a least half a year and we shared something that is meant to be special but it wasn't really all that great for me. i mean i want to be with him so bad and he told me straight off that we can't go out because he has a girlfriend but he just cheated on her with me..
so wat am i suppose to do wait on him until they break up or just forget about him i'm so confused plz help!!!
THANK YOU =D
Dam girl your 13 and having sex!?!? and you shouldnt have gave yourself that easily. It will make him think your too easy. I understand you like him, but if he had a girlfriend he only used the breaking up excuse to sleep with you. Dont wait up for him sweety, because if he did that to her, and if he went out with you. how do u know he wont do the same thing??? Try not to speak about it or bring it up to him or around him. He could use it agaisnt you. Guys today seem really but you have to be really carefull next time.
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I dont have a crush on anyone because I have been getting over 3 guys who I used to like at the all the same time. But now, I really hate not liking someone. It just makes me feel really lonely. Life is boring. And no one is really cute in my school to like. So I really hate this. My sister has a huge crush on the most populariest guy in her school. But ME, I hate this. Im ususally the super boy crazy type of girl. Why do I feel this way? It feels like the time to like anyone is never.
oh sweety i know what you mean. I used to be BOY CRAZY!!! and since you were you actually get bored of it. For real. All this crushing is actually very tiring and also seeing the same people over and over again for the past 100 years at your school is boring. Your looking for new people arnt you? Not the same people you see everyday at school. You may not be crushing on anyone in your school, but its most likely you might crush on someone who graduated or dosnt go to your school. I know i have haha. but for real. Right now you think that you dont like anyone but one day when your walking in the city, you'll see someone you stop to look at hahaha, and just to tell you, its only temporary.
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