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Will he wait? PLZ Help im in need to know.
okay theres this guy i go to school with and have because well rather bestfriends with him.
yesturday i was talking to him and he said he was thinking about going out with me. ((i have liked him the whole time he's been here for 3 years.))
But the only thing is im not aloud to have a real go out on dates boyfriend(until im 16) which is what he wants. I told him about the sixteen thing and he said he would wait...he turns 16 3 days after me in december..thats 6 MONTHS!!. He wants us to talk and keep close friends and he said he wants to be my first REAL boyfriend.
But just a few months ago he said that he tells girls what they want to here to get what he wants.
The only problem is in october he was pressuring me to flash him which ended badly and we didnt talk for awhile. now he says he doesnt want to do anything with me or have me do anything to him until we are dating and he says no pressure will be put on me anymore...He also turned some really pretty girl down for sex! because of me!!!
do you think he's telling the truth and we should keep close till then or is he just telling me what i want to hear?
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Well two signs for trouble: he gets girls for sex, and he asked you, a friend, to flash him. Why would he do something so disrespectful to a friend unless he had his own maturity issues?
Because you liked him for three years, I say you give him a chance, just because you may not stop liking him unless you know what being with him is like. Only if you go with this option, be extremely careful. Take things extremely slow and show him that you are not going to flash him/ be there only for physical action/ be his sex toy. Don't ever do anything you feel uncomfortable doing. Tell him that if he pressures you then it's over, and you can even get friends to help you with this one.
Wait out this one the six months and then only do what is comfortable, and what feels right. Some guys do change when they find someone who they really like and are willing to give away their... tendencies.. for. Not all but most, if they really like the girl. Remember though, while you may give your heart to him, you must always respect yourself or you will get into more awkward situations (for example, the flashing incident).
Be good to yourself and take it slow so even if he is a scumbag you can still say you stuck to what you were comfortable with. Wish you luck!
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well think about it this way...if he was just telling you what you want to hear to get what he wants, why would he choose to wait for 6 months for it when obviously h can get it much sooner than that. it doesnt sound like hes too concerned about the physical aspects of it (i mean of course to a certain extent, he is a guy). it sounds like he really wants a relationship with you. hes just frustrated because he cant see you as much as he would like to. guys have egos, sometimes they say stuff like that to build themselves up that they dont really mean. testosterone is funny like that lol
stick it out with this guy, he sounds like he has good intentions. im kinda interested in this one, so please give me updates =)
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No way sweety, hes obviously thinks you'd be hot in bed.i say let him wait, but dont think about makin any moves because it could be a big mistake.every guy wants a grl tom flash him. thats normal. but if that get mad. its not a good sign, meaning he'll probably critize you and shit.but if you guys decide to go out...wait at least 4-6 months, if your planing on having sex with him, but please, a young girls virginity is sacred.Keep safe, till you trust, and truly fall in love.But to admit, i dont think hes telling the truth, but keep close, and watch his every move, and be very careful! okay, hope ive helped
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he seems like hes telling the truth. but none of us will actually be able to tell you the right answer. just check him out fir a while. see if hes doing everything he promised you. if he isnt i suggest you dump him badly haha.
also, he should wait. and thats a better idea becase you guys will be able to know eachtother. its better then making the mistake and going out with him right away. jsut wait and see if he is telling the truth. 6 months is alot to wait for but its enough time to know his intentions. goodluck! and i hope you make the right decision. you wouldnt want a rotten old guy to be your first boyfriend.
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