heyy 14/m i like this girl from school and im pretty sure she likes me bak--but im having trouble talking to her its like i dont know what to say. what do girls like to talk about? and what do you like to see in a guy? thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SkyLi answered Wednesday February 18 2009, 9:58 am: Hi!
I'm 13/f.
You don't need to know what to say. Just talk about your favorite things such as music, food, subject, animal, and ect... You can also talk about vacations, stupidest thing you ever did, your family, and stuff like that.
I personally like guys who are funny, kind, artsy, hard workers, animal lovers, respectful, loyal, honest, themselves, and laid back. I am not saying be any of these people, when you aren't cause that's lame.
I don't like it when guys swear at me, are disrespectful, hot tempered, can't take any joke, and are super serious.
There are millions of things to talk about, so just think of what you enjoy talking about, and that's where you start. Good luck!
~Sky [ SkyLi's advice column | Ask SkyLi A Question ]
VixenLuna answered Wednesday October 24 2007, 11:03 am: well if you ask me haha im 17/f, very pretty but who cares, anyway, what girls like, well what most girls like is that we dont like shy guys, sometimes its cute but we like men who are out going. When you see her, just go up to her and be like "hey whats good?"
and she'll say "oh hey whats up" or "oh nothing, whats up with you" and you say "so whats good for today, doing anything later, because i think your mad cute and i want to get to know you" you know something like that, then she'll give you her answer and shit and see how it goes. You guys will start talkin and shit, but dont say stupid crap we hate that. But we love humor!!! humor is number 1! dont get into any awkward silence. Girls like to see confidence and attractive-ness whatever. So give it a try, and never call yourself out, like "oh im soo ugly" we dont like guys with no self esteem okay, hope ive helped [ VixenLuna's advice column | Ask VixenLuna A Question ]
hilaryjonas answered Wednesday October 24 2007, 9:55 am: hey! im a 15 year old girl :)
well when i like a boy i dont care what we talk about. im happy as long as were talking. we walk to our 5th period class together and we normally talk about our geography grade :/ cause thats the class we just got out of. i mean we talk about other stuff but stuff stupid like that. i think if she likes you she doesnt really care what you guys talk about unless she is like one of the girls that only likes to talk about her. now that would be a problem.. but i think you should talk to her as a friend dont think about her as the girl you like. trust me it will be easier. girls like all kinds of guys, some may like shy guys some may like jocks, or preps, or "bad boys".. u should maybe ask her wut kind of guys she likes. if you cant do it face to face write it on paper!! thats what im going to do today at school weill with the guy i like.. but just write on paper like "hey i was wondering what kind of guys do you like??" and she will tell you.. most likely...
just see if your anything that she likes... but whatever you do DONT change for her if she doesnt like you the way you are she isnt worth it!!
well i hope i helped!!!???
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