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him: hi
me: hi..
him: how have you been
me: greattt. you?
him: good. why have you been great?
me: haha idkk?
him: oh are you still talking to that guy
me: me and him are straight. were friends and stufff
him: oh that's good. do you miss me?
me: yeah.
him: can I have a pic
me: no.
him: why
me: cause I never got one that one time and you always randomly start talking to me and expect to get wahtever you want
(he then sent me one of him)
him: I haven't had my phone. I awlasy lose it and you know that
me: yeah.
him: I just sent you a pic
me: I know.
him: whatever bye
me: what?
him: your being gay
me: haha how
him: I say
me: alright I sent you a pic
him: a good one cause I will send you a good one if you want
me: no.
him: why
me: cause you have a girlfriend and I'm not gonna send you those kind of pictures whenever you want them.
him: me and her are on a break. we got in a huge fight this weekend. please can I have one
me: hahhh. no.
him: please just send me an old one and I sent you one
me: I sent you one.
him: thanks but a nude one.
me: noo. I'm sick and laying in bed. and I'm deff not sending you a nude one.
him: why I just did. please beautiful
me: no.
him: please one of each and ill just keep bugging you too.
me: no. why can't you ever have a normal conversation with me for once. you only talk to me for one reason and that's for pictures. I'm not that stupid.
him: that's not true. if you send them to me I will talk to you for a month and ill tlak to you more. I wanna talk more again.
me: yeah and the only reason why you wanna talk to me is because you're on a break with your other girl.
him: whatever think what you want. you're the one who cheated twice.
me: stop bringing that up.
him: ok then be nice. lets go back to the way we were.
me: I am being nice. and yeah about that..
him: can I have them now
me: nooo
him: please.
me: no. I'm not gonna say yes so just stop asking.
him:please. just one pick and ill stop asking
me: I sent one.
him: thanks.
me: mhmm. sowaht are you doing
him: nothing. you
me: watching the sox game and being sad.
him: why you sad.
me: I hate when people die and I miss how we used to be.
him: haha welll that's not gonna change for a while.
me: yeahhh
me: I really miss you :/
him: I miss you too
me: mhmmm I'm sureee.
him: yeah
me: so I've been asking my dad if were gonna go down there and I don't think we are :/
him: that sucks
me: I guess.
me: you don't seem like you wanna talk so ill just go. bye I guess.
him: ill text you after work.

that was our conversation.
what do you tihnk from it? I don't think he will text me after work. and I think he only wanted one thing from tlaking to me. and that was the pics. but I think he still cares about me and thinks about me and everything. becuase he always brings up the fact that I cheated so I think it bothers him alott (link)
Hi!
Okay, yeah that guy is defiantly egotistical... You shouldn't give him whatever he wants. If you do he'll just use you... He wants to abuse the power he has by saying you cheated on him twice. If he cared he wouldn't pressure you into sending inappropriate photographs of yourself. If it bother him that much then he needs to tell you, or prove it, that doesn't mean making you feel terrible... I mean of course you shouldn't have cheated but he shouldn't be using that against you. I still don't think that he really cares, because even if he did lose his phone often he would find another way to keep in touch with you.
Good luck!
~Sky


There's this board game I played awhile ago where you have to say random phrases like "do you smell bacon" ect. in a certain way like "sensual" and then people try to guess how you're trying to say it. It was a really fun game but unfortunately I was a little tipsy and didn't get the name! Anyone know? (link)
Hi!
Hmm...this isn't a board game, but it's called Mad Gab, and you say the phrase that is written on the card. The phrase could be "Aid Hay Huff Ache Asian" which would mean "A day of vacation" but you just give them the first phrase and they have to figure out the actual phrase. I hope this helped, and it's the only game I could think of that is kind of what you are talking about.
~Sky


I have regular brown hair and I am kind of bored and want to dye like a strand of my hair blue. So what's best to use, kool aid, food coloring, or cheap hair dye from wal mart? I don't want it to last very long. Like a week or two. So that's why I'm hesitant to use real hair dye. I'm just bored and in the mood to experiment. (link)
Hi!
First as others said, bleach your hair. Then use Manic Panic or Raw. You can buy Raw from Hot Topic and Manic Panic from Sally's Beauty Salon. Or you could always get it professionally done. I used L'oreal color rayz, but I don't know if it will work on your hair because mine hair wicked dark asin hair. I really liked L'oreal though. I haven't tried Splat yet, but I hear that works well too.
Good luck!
~Sky


i got a new computer and was wondering how to transfer all my songs onto my new computer from my ipod. thankyaa. (link)
Hi!
There are two ways, that I know of, you can do this.
1) buy a massive disk drive, basically like a large flash drive. You can transfer EVERYTHING this way. Take the songs and put them on the flash drive. Then plug it into your new computer. Open iTunes, Click File, Library, Import play list. By the way the large flash drive like drive I'm talking about is worth some money.
2) download all of your songs on to your iPod. Plug your iPod into the computer. Go to File, then scroll down to transfer purchases from iPod. With this you can simply delete all the songs from your iPod once you've transferred them that you don't wish to actually have ON your iPod but still in your library.
good luck!
~Sky


okay, so i don't know how to start this off but im 18 and a female. I'm very close with my mom and not so close with my dad. Growing up he was always like into politics, and always not home and out and about doing whatever he wants. He couldnt drink because he had diabetes and he was overweight and what not. i have an older brother and sister who are in their 30s and my dad was really close with my brother. but now that the both of them have moved out and have families hes never home to be wiht me. So as you can see like i never really have had a bond with my dad..like i dont talk to him about anything, fill him in with my life because hes never home. So recently maybe 4 months ago? he got the bipass suergy i think thats what its called to make him skinny or whatever? so since this he doesnt have diabetes anymore. the first like two months were good and for the past two months hes been drinking alllll the time. like its getting annoying because how could it not? my mom has been getting into fihgts with him and tells him that she thinks hes drinking too much but he just thinks shes wrong and says that "we don't understand him" he comes home around 3 or 4 all the time. he works, comes home at 6 eats goes out at maybe 7 and then comes home at 3 or 3. but anyway this week it just got so bad that he comes home and wakes us up during a school night and i was up till 3 ro 5 in the morning listening to him. last night sussobly he got a flat tire, and he kept calling and calling and calling the phone at 2 in the morning, like obviously we are not going to pick it up because its him probably being drunk. anyway i dont know like how anyone could help me? im too afraid to talk to my dad because weve never had a bond or anything and my mom tires sometimes but he always flips out at her. my brother needs to have like have a few drinks in him to even say anything like that to my dad and my sister just doesnt think anything of it. i dont know how to like help it because i want him to stop drinking and like be a real dad to me, i also dont want my parents to split up because my mom said to me earlier today that shes really close on saying "either you choose your family or your alochol" and she said something for him not coming back. and i dont want that. idk if anyone could help? maybe if anyone has been in this position before? or knows someone or anything. thanks sorry that this is so long too (link)
Hi!
I'm sorry you're having a tough time with your family! My dad was/may be an alcoholic as well. He says he has quit, but I don't buy it... he hides it, and i find it...great right? Anyway, sorry for rambling, and your mom is right, it basically does come back to the "either you choose your family or your alcohol" part. My mom has thought about divorce about a year and a half ago. Sometimes it takes someone to lose everything to realize what is top priority, but then again sometimes the addiction is to strong for them to realize. We kept thinking it would get better...hoping gets you no where. You just have to accept that your father is an alcoholic and the best way to deal with this is to talk with someone who is going through the same thing. It also is no use arguing with an alcoholic about them being addicted to alcohol because they will not realize that they have a problem. Sometimes that means getting out of there and connecting again hopefully down the road. My mom would get a divorce, but then my brother who is only in 6th grade and most likely not have a choice in court who to stay with, would have to go back and fourth because he is so young. I MAY have a choice, but then again I'm still only 14 1/2 and refuse to leave my brother... but since you are considered an adult you have more of a choice in the legal point of view. It's honestly tough living with an alcoholic. If you can get to an Alateen meeting, I think you should. You're not alone, many people, I think the percentage was like one out of every three families have a member with alcoholism (don't quote me on that, it was something close to that). You also have to realize that your father isn't trying to be a unreliable father, he most likely doesn't know how to change. The first step to helping him is for him to want to help himself. He has to want it for himself and recognize he has a problem...that can be the hardest thing to do. Then he has to want to go get help. It is very hard on everyone else in the family, but your family has to make a choice. Sometimes it is best for a family to separate for a while... If you father does end up going though the recovery process be there to support him. I wish you the best luck!
~Sky
f/14 1/2


Excuse me for asking this here, but I really need some help finding some skit ideas for my school talent show. Has anyone done or seen something that they really liked or that the judges really went crazy over?

Can anyone help me with talent show skits?

thank you! (link)
Hi!
I remember in 5th grade my class did a Charlie Brown skit. It was the most fun ever! The whole school was talking about it for about a week afterward! The skit was specifically the Doctor Is In. It was very funny. My classmates who were staged as Lucy and Charlie cracked the whole school up! It was the best. Of course it all depends on the age group, but usually if it has humor in the play, it is a good play. Good luck!
-Sky
f/14


What are some cute nicknames for your boyfriend? (link)
Mainly I'm going to repeat what others have said. The one my boyfriend and I both use for each other is Love. That's our favorite. I sometimes call him sweetie and sweetheart but that is mainly it. I also call him by his nickname, I mean a shortened version of his name. For example if your boyfriends name is Matthew call him Matt, same with Nicholas shortened to Nick, James to Jim, ect...


he hasn't talked to me in three days becuase he wanted a break.
and today I texted him and I'm like tell me if were broken up and he said yes.
and I'm like why? and he's like because were too far away I can't do this
and I'm like well thanks for not telling me. and he's like I just decided. and I'm like can we still be friends and he's like I was hoping we could be.
and I'm like yeah so I'm guessing I don't get to see you in march or when I come down there ( I have family who lives by him )
and he's like maybe if you really want to.,
and I'm like of course I do. and he's like well I don't know maybe.
and I'm like ok well just text me when you want to talk to me I guess :/
and he's like ok bye.

im heartbroken. I don't know waht to do.
i feel like I should say something to him. but I don't know whaat
help meee :[ (link)
Okay, so first of all, sorry to seem mean and point this out, but please, stop using like and and so often, it's difficult to read what you are writing.
Now, to answer your heartsickness, he's not worth your time if he can so easily do that. I'm sure there is a better guy out there for you, er, I know there is. A guy who really liked you wouldn't just break up out of no where and be over it so easily. He would also most likely have the respect to tell you over the phone not just simple text messages. I would say in person, but it would be too much trouble to fly/drive that far just to break up. I mean of course you could still remain friends. I think you should just move on. Tell yourself there are plenty of fish in the sea and others will be better and kinder to you. Good luck!
-Sky
14/f


Been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now. Lately, all we do is argue. It's always over really, really petty things, obviously because we're so frustrated with not being able to physically be with eachother, and we just miss eachother to bits.

Usually I want to fix the argument right away, but the last little argument we had, I just turned off my phone for 4 hours, and didn't talk to him. And honestly, it felt good. Of course I still worried, oh god, he's going to be so mad..but I felt worry free for a little while.

I never told him this, just said I left my phone at home on accident while I went out. But today we had another spat, and instead of solving it he just went to sleep. So, usually I text him some sweet things, apologizing for the stupidness of the argument, and say i love him.

But, this time I didn't. I don't know if it's that I'm just getting so sick of the constant arguments over literally nothing, or what. My question is, do you think its worth staying with him?

I like him a lot, and I'm supposed to be visiting him in march. But, I just feel in my gut that this isn't going how I wanted. I really DON'T want to break up with him, ONLY because he's the most sensitive person ever (his last ex, it took him about 2yrs to get over, and i'm his 1st relationship since then), and I don't want to hurt his feelings. And, if I break him with him, I KNOW i'll be so hurt/miserable too. I'll sit here feeling like a horrible person, and probably thinking of all the actual good times we had.

But, I can't help but think that the hurt of losing him may be better than dealing with these pointless arguments all the time. And if I completely cut off communication and stuff, which is easier in a long distance relationship, wouldn't it be easier to get over him?

Oh, please any advice you have would be so helpful!! Thanks! (link)
Hi!
Well, I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for about 7months. It's hard, like... REALLY hard, but we tough it out. He goes to a different school... a boarding school, and sees other girls, has other friends. We talked about what would happen if he or I found someone else. We also talked about how we would stay in touch, and what would happen. We talk EVERY issue out, haha, it's sometimes hard to bring up a complication, but it always helps out the relationship in the long run. It's difficult to be away, but then again we've never fought before. We talk about once a week, and see each other about once a month. It's okay not to be physical, but you do need it occasionally like a quick kiss, a hug, or a light hand touch. It works well for me being apart like it is, but sometimes I am frustrated as well. It's ultimately a decision you have to make.

I think that if you feel miserable then you have the right to break up with him. You're fist priority ALWAYS is yourself. It may seem somewhat selfish, but it is important to take care of yourself, because if you don't then how can you possibly take care of others? If you can't let go of him and are suffering then you aren't only hurting yourself, but you are actually hurting him because your, well... um, not to sound mean, because I don't mean to sound this way, but leading him on. It's not fair for him or you. If you do see him and have a change in heart you can always get back together later. Who knows you may go to college together, work together, or live in the same town later on in life. If you do break up, it's not like you have to be enemies or have no contact with each other, you can simply if the option is present, revert to being friends again.

You could always use video chat on AIM, MSN, or other sites. Instant messaging is nice, but it's hard to send a kiss to your boyfriend on a screen. Here is a website I found with many ideas: http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Long-Distance-Relationship-Work
it's number 2 on the list.

I hope I've helped you somewhat. I'm sorry I rambled on in the beginning. Good luck!
~Sky
f/14


im 18 my boyfriends 20..and im pregnant.
we were so careful..we used condoms and bc but we ran out of condoms and thought it would be ok. i took every pill on time but im pregnant. he wants to give the baby up for adoption and i cant, i already love it. does anyone have advice on how and can convince him to keep it? no lectures please. (link)
Hi,
I'm adopted. I wish I knew my birth parents, but I don't. I am happy though. I have a great family and they take care of me everyday. I have a great life and it's a gift. If you can't take care of your child, adoption would be best. Sorry to say that. If you think you can support your child then don't put him/her up for adoption. If you do put him/her up for adoption let him/her know you exist and it was painfully hard for you to chose. Also try to connect with the child even if he or she is not living with you, they will appreciate it trust me. Showing you care makes all the difference for your child's life whether your living with him/her or not. Your boyfriend does have to know that it is your body and your choice ultimately. I wish you luck. :) It's a hard choice... you'll know best :)
~Sky
f/14


i'm a 19 year old girl in a huge tug of war emotionally. my boyfriend and i are either going to stay together or break up over this. i have been in a relationship for 2 years and during this time i lost a friend over a petty lie. he lied to me about something stupid and now my boyfriend completely distrusts him although i now realize it was a petty lie that i no longer care about and i want to be friends with him again. i have known my friend for 15 years! however, my boyfriend says he cannot allow me to be friends with him again and pretty much said its me or him. should i pick the person that love with all every inch of my heart, or my friend who i've known for 15 years? (link)
Hi!
Hmm, that's one tricky situation. Well I don't know. I think maybe your boyfriend is being a bit controlling. He has no right to decide who your friends are. You both have your own lives and they just happen to be crossing paths right now. You should though find out why your boyfriend doesn't want you to be friends with him. Is he worried that you'll hang out with your other friend more? I know this is a tough decision.
What would make you happy? Don't think about their feelings for a minute. What would you like? Since you have been friends with this other guy for 15 years why let such a petty thing ruin your friendship? Did the lie really impact your life that much?
You boyfriend should let you live your life and be friends with who you want to be friends with. I think you should talk it over with him. Talk about how you don't decide who he hangs out with, if you don't tell him who to hang out with. If you do tell him who to hang out with, then that's a whole other problem.
I wish you much luck!
~Sky
f/14


I didn't make a garden at home this year but next year I plan to do that because I want some nice, tasty home-grown vegetables for salads and stuff. Anyway, what are easy vegetables to grow at home? I want to go on and make a list so I don't have to worry about it next year. I have enough space to plant whatever vegetables but I don't want to try anything that is complicated or needs a lot of maintenance since I'm just getting into this. (link)
Hi!
Usually growing vegetables works best in the Spring. I love to grow herbs, but out of vegetables tomatoes are defiantly the easiest and most delicious. Also I love green and yellow wax beans. I planted squash last year but planted 3 plants, when I really only needed one...I was SOO sick of squash by the end of the summer same with zucchini. Carrots are also easy to grow, but just don't step on the land near the seeds or otherwise you'll have fat stubby carrots instead of fat long carrots. Romaine lettuce is also fairly easy to grow, and taste great in salads. Strawberries are fairly simple as well, but for the first year take the first flowers off. It helps the plant. The plant grows runners later on. Wishing you the best of luck. (sorry this is choppy)
~Sky


my skin is really dry on my hands from the wind and the cooler weather right now. is there a really good hand lotion that i could get somewhere? I'm up for ANYTHING! they crack and bleed a little bit too and it sucks so I need hand lotion with deep moisture, I think... (link)
Aveeno hand cream all the way! It works amazingly and makes your hands feel SOOOO soft. My whole family and I use it. It is organic too! It is somewhat pricey at times, but totally worth it. I know for sure you can buy it at a CVS and Rite Aid, and I think most department stores carry it.
~Sky


I got my new puppy, she is six weeks old.

And please don't give me all the crap about her being to young. She eats on her own, and has stoped winning at night.

Any who...
My puppy is a smart dog, an australian sheperd and possibley 1/4 lab but I want to start training her stuff, like the usuall, fetch, sit, etc. But I don't know how to start?


What stuff should will I be able to teach her since she is so young, and what are easy ways to do that. (link)
First, congratulations on your new puppy! I'm sure she is absolutely adorable! I used my dogs dinner to train them with tricks especially sit and down. I wouldn't give them a kibble (of course my dogs are yorkshire terriers and small...) until they do the trick correctly. I would always say, "Good girl___!" I'd say the word and push their bottom down to learn 'sit', and then give them the kibble. This is of course just how I trained my dogs, I'm sure there are better and other methods out there. Good luck!
~Sky
14/f


Hi, I'm just wondering if anyone could help me out with this problem. I've recently started throwing up in my mouth more frequently. You know the way you do it every year or few years or so? Where it comes up in the back of your mouth but not enough to come out really? It kind of burns, too. Well, recently I have been doing it loads and I don't know why. Is it something to worry about? Will it go away soon? Should I see a doctor? What is this called anyway? Just throwing up in the mouth??? Help... :( (link)
Hmm, I see. I wonder if you have reflux disease... or heart burn? My younger sibling had reflux and he had that for awhile. He went to a doctor and sort it out though. It could also be you're eating too late and going to bed. That isn't good for your digestive system. I'm no expert of course, but these are just ideas of what you might have. Heartburn also helps if you don't eat a ton of sugar before you go to bed. Try to eat 3 hours before you go to bed, that way your not lying down while your stomach is still digesting. I hope I helped. Good luck! :)
~Sky


I really suck on this part of this game from zelda the hour glass game from ds. well i am suck this part where i went elmor tell me to go back temple get another sea chart and to beat the darkness. well i went tample try get this one trester i think it in b5 i see it i cna't seem jump over or.. i try to beat time. i am really confusse anybody know i am try to do? any cheat or imfortation (link)
Hello!
This is the site I was using to help me before my dog ate the game...i know, so sad, but here it is, and it's very useful. Wishing you luck!
~Sky
http://guides.ign.com/guides/694756/page_3.html


i have a black eye and need to get rid of it quickly ... taking family pictures and it needs to be gone by then (link)
Hi!
You could google it like another person suggested. You could also put ice on it to reduce swelling. The color clears up faster if you put ice on it. I hope this helps!
~Sky


What should if a boy i like says he doesn't like me but other people says he does? (link)
Hi!
First how old is this boy? If he's young (13,14, younger) then he may just trying to dodge the whole relationship thing. Remember guys don't mature until after girls usually. Listen to him. If he doesn't like you that way don't make him like you. It's his loss, not yours. He may just not be ready for a relationship. If you ask him in front of others his response could be different than when you ask him over the phone or in person privately. If you haven't talked to him one-one-one try that and see how it works.
Good luck!
~Sky
13/f


well im dating a girl who ive known for awhile and am pretty good friends with and she doesnt like making out. she doesnt think its fun so she doesnt like it. what can i do to either change that or do to find something else just as fun? any ideas would greatly help. (link)
Hi!
I hate to tell you this, but you have to respect her wishes. If she doesn't want to make out then don't make out. I personally didn't like how my ex-boyfriend was always trying to hug, kiss, and touch me. It was seriously annoying. Try not to kiss her too much in public cause that is annoying too.Some girls like to be touched more than others. Talk with her about it though. See what she says then use your judgment to decide. It seems she doesn't like being physical, so just talk with her and tell her how much you adore her.
Good luck!
13/f
~Sky


(16/m)
What do girls like to get as a gift?
(only girls answer!!!!!) (link)
Hi!
Something simple is what girls appreciate. Something homemade is always special too. A drawing, poem, homemade card, and that type of thing girls always like to get. Chocolate is always nice, a candle, or a stuffed animal. You beading her a bracelet or necklace is super sweet too. Simple things are the best way to go, but just make sure they come from the heart.
Good luck!
13/f
~Sky




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