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long distance boyfriend.
he hasn't talked to me in three days becuase he wanted a break.
and today I texted him and I'm like tell me if were broken up and he said yes.
and I'm like why? and he's like because were too far away I can't do this
and I'm like well thanks for not telling me. and he's like I just decided. and I'm like can we still be friends and he's like I was hoping we could be.
and I'm like yeah so I'm guessing I don't get to see you in march or when I come down there ( I have family who lives by him )
and he's like maybe if you really want to.,
and I'm like of course I do. and he's like well I don't know maybe.
and I'm like ok well just text me when you want to talk to me I guess :/
and he's like ok bye.
im heartbroken. I don't know waht to do.
i feel like I should say something to him. but I don't know whaat
help meee :[
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Okay, so first of all, sorry to seem mean and point this out, but please, stop using like and and so often, it's difficult to read what you are writing.
Now, to answer your heartsickness, he's not worth your time if he can so easily do that. I'm sure there is a better guy out there for you, er, I know there is. A guy who really liked you wouldn't just break up out of no where and be over it so easily. He would also most likely have the respect to tell you over the phone not just simple text messages. I would say in person, but it would be too much trouble to fly/drive that far just to break up. I mean of course you could still remain friends. I think you should just move on. Tell yourself there are plenty of fish in the sea and others will be better and kinder to you. Good luck!
-Sky
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Hunny seriously, it's hard but just try not to dwell on it. There's nothing else to say so don't say anything at all. My advice is to let yourself move on, which everyone does in their own way and time, but it means not trying to think of something to say/trying to talk to him/trying to make something out of nothing.
I like the saying "if its meant to happen, it'll happen." because i think that in some way or another things will work out for you. If your meant to be with him then maybe a year or so down the track you'll meet again and hit it off. Maybe when you do go to see your family you'll bump into him and be great friends again, but right now there is no need for you to not try and be happy and just move on.
Spend some time with your friends and family, reach out to someone close that you trust for a shoulder to cry on if you need it and at this time just try to enjoy yourself. Let yourself be sad but don't let it become a habit.
You'll be alright darl, I promise :)
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honestly i can say from experience that long distance realationships do not work out. It has to do with not seeing that person everyday, a realationship needs that. All I can say is let him come to you. Dont bug him with texting, I know it bothers you, but he doesn't have to know that. When I went through this the guy just stopped calling me and that let me know that we were done, and he got in touch with me like a half a year later and we decided to stay friends and that was four years ago. So who knows what will happen. Just stay strong and put on a poker face and you will be fine. There are more fish in the sea, and if he realizes what he lost, trust me he will let you know.
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