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Ok theres this guy who is my friend, we hang out alot, and i REALLY like him, i mean more than ive ever liked any one in my whole life! Im fairly shure he likes me 2, but he has a g/f, and is happy with her, i mean im really happy for him, but what do i do? (oh and he knows i like him...) i rate 5's! (link)
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Well if you really cared for him. I'd leave him be, like still be there and talk to him and be a good friend but don't try anything. If you cared for him as much as you as you do you'd let him be and be happy that he's happy even if it's not necessarily with you. You never know they may not work out and the next target is you. Honestly if a boy and a girl are best friends until forever they are most likely to date in the future when they are more mature and know what exactly they want. And if what he wants is someone like you he'd be with you, vise versa. Hope I helped. Trust me MOST teenage relationships never last. Some of blessed. But some are ordinary teenagers and date like 100 people a year. Ya know??
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helo,
my boy friend said he realy love me and then go and marry another girl just because am a christain and he is a muslims he said sorry i wish to marry u but becoz of religion am sorry and i realy love u.pls tell me if truely he loves me.
thanks. (link)
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Well if he truly loved you he wouldn't care of what type of religion are you he'd actually realize that your worth the world besides some stupid religion statement. There's other guys out there more better guys that realize what your really worth in life. I honestly can't say he doesn't fully love you but I think he *likes* you but honestly come on he married another girl. That's wrong and I bet you were really upset about it. Would you rather find true happiness with someone that actually cares for you and only cares for you and your personality? Or a guy that says he won't be with you because of his religion. Don't get me wrong some people are very true to their religion they abide by it but it still shouldn't matter to the person they really and truly care for. Hope I helped. Seriously though I think you need to get over him. Sorry if I didn't help.
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well my x boyfriend loves to talk a lot of crap about me and laughs when i get hurt but some of his friends tell me he still likes me but i do not know whato think please help me sincerly confuse! (link)
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Well I don't know about this one. Maybe you should ask him be like look I know you like being a jerk to me but I still don't understand why so please if you could just spare me some mature level at your age just tell me without any sarcastic comment flying back into my face. Ask if he still feels things for you, because it does sound like he's picking on you and usually the old skewl* ways for guys to tell a chick that they like em is to pick on them. Maybe he's in for the old skewl*. Hope I helped.
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ok so me and my boyfriend were going out for exactly 2 and a half days. I thought our thing was going great untell the 2nd day. I went to fnl and the next morning I got a call from his X GIRLFRIEND saying he hated me and he did not wanna be with me and he needed a brake after two and a half days!! I cryed so much because i really liked him and i don't understand what i did to deserve this!! Please help me and this is the 4th time we have gone out is it over or wat? (link)
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The X is either a bitch.. or a bitch for telling the truth, call that dickhead boyfriend up and tell him what she said word for word if he says its true what can you say your boyfriend ((x)) is an asssss find a new asss to fulfil. Hope I helped.
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ok...i am a guy 14 and i like this girl,shes 14 too.So how i make sure she likes me?I tried asking her out she said no srr im too busy this week...how i know she could like me?or to make her like me? (link)
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Well to be honest you can't *make* someone like you. But you can get them more involved with you. If she's not a *good* friend like one of your best friends you need to worry and work about that before anything. Then maybe she would start to like you more, and maybe ***doubt it*** but maybe you will understand that you don't want to ruin your friendship with her and think that your friendship is more important than anything and wouldn't want to risk losing it and having nothing. Just talk to her, be interested as I know you are. Ask her questions like does she watch any sports, if so what kind? What's her favorite color. Questions that will get a conversation going. Hope I helped.
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After discussing this many times with friends, I still am not straight on what the 3 bases are.
Anyone care to give their opinion? (link)
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For a guy:
1st base- kissing/making out
2nd base- oral sex? anything fingering a chick licking her anything that doesn't involve sex.
3rd base- sex
for *most* chicks its different, more emotional and feelings are involved instead of when your a guy all they think is with their dick.
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okay so i have liked this guy since last year and we have been really good friends. he is in 8th grade and im a freshmen and he always waits for me before 4th period every day and hugs me everytime he sees me. and so i finally told him and he says that we are too good of friends and he doesnt want to mess anything up but i dont really get it because all the girls he has gone out with have like cheated on him and stuff and he knows i would never be like that and i dont understand why you wouldnt want to go out with your friend.. like would you rather go out with a complete stranger? someone please help idk what to do. (link)
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You may not think this but trust me friendship is *always* stronger than boyfriend/girlfriend. If he says he doesn't want to mess it up then believe him. Maybe because he has been cheated on that he won't go out with you he may just be afraid of going out with you and then you end up cheating and then your whole friendship is over. No matter how much you say he doesn't care for me just because he won't go out with you its the totally oppisite it's because that you guys are too good of friends to start dating. But you never know usually best friends/friends end up going out in the long run. Hope I helped.
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How can you tell if a guy is interested in you or interested in using you? (link)
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A guy that isn't just interested in getting into your pants by him asking questions like what are you into? do you play any sports? do you like animals? if so what kind of animals? And a guy that is only interested into getting INTO your pants just talks about sex, sextual comments as in so what would you do if I came over to your house right now. Or a guy that just says... do you wanna* have sex..
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I didn't know if i should put this in friendships but anyways... i tried talking to the guy i have a crush on, but then someone came to talk to me and he left. all i could ask him was what he was listening to and what kind of music it was. I didn't get neither answers. Now i don't know if i should try talking to him again. if yes, what can i say? i feel like an idiot. i know i should just say hi but when i see him he like avoids eye contact... i tried to just smile and wave at him but he never looks at me so that doesnt work. well he does but not at the right times, like on the way to class or something... so what do i do?
by the way, i only want to be friends with him at first lol (link)
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Walk up to him, start asking him questions to make you sound like your interested. I would just keep starting up the conversation not necessarily ask him questions all the time because that gets kind of creepy after a while just be like well I think your really cool and I would love to hang out with you with a group of friends or something and I think we'd have a blast. Be honest, don't lie because if you do end up liking him and he ends up liking you and you guys date trust me that'll be taunting you til the day you tell him. Even if it's not that big of a deal it's still a lie. Hope I helped. If you give me more details by asking me anymore unanswered advice just please ask me. I like these kinds of questions.
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hi i am danie and i am a girl that is my nickname. I like this boy at school but he has a girlfriend and a friend of his told me that he had said that if he broke up with his girlfriend than he would consider being my bf so do you think i should keep with it or no????????????
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pickme111 (link)
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Well, actually there's 2 sides to it. If you really like him sure go for it because honestly if he's saying that while he's in a relationship then he knows that it won't last with his present girlfriend. But there's also a bad side, maybe *his* friend is making a fib, or if he can say things like that behind *her* back what makes you think he won't say it behind yours if you guys do start dating. But if he acts like he really cares, doesn't treat you like shit, always makes you laugh, never made you cry, never made you think about crying when your around him or anything like that then I'd deffinately say go for it. Hope I helped.
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I'll have to start from the beginning...
This guy, Nick, is in my Spanish class. I noticed that everytime I looked up, he was staring at me. I smiled at him and from then on, we've been really close. He calls me every night and we talk for hours. ..But he had a g/f..
We walk to across the campuses together to go to Spanish. Yesterday he wasnt there. When I got to class, I looked at my phone and he called me from his house. I called him back and he said that he was sorry for not walking me to class. I thanked him for thinking of me and told him that I would call him when I got home.
When I got home, he called me before I could call him. He explained to me that him and his girlfriend of 22 months had just broken up and he wasnt sad or anything. He jumped right into say that he had a new girl in mind and I was that girl.
Today at school, he would run up behind me and tickle my sides whenever he saw me. Then, at the end of the day, I was waiting with my friend for her bus because I was riding home with her. Nick walkde right passed me and walked on the same bus I was walking toward. Then I remember... his newly ex-girlfriend rides taht bus too.
He hasnt called me yet.
What should I think? (link)
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Don't think of anything, maybe he has a *guy* friend that rides that bus and was going home with him. Don't think too much of him it seems like he likes you a lot and maybe he didn't even see you when he walked right by to go on that bus. Be lucky to have a guy like that around he sounds really sweet I mean he calls you, let's everybody around you guys when he greets you with that tickle on the sides that "she's mine and I like her a lot, back off" kind of thing. I would suggest not talking to him about it because then he'll probably be like don't you trust me then next time you guys talk and it might end up in a big fight over really nothing, you know? Just go along with it but if it bugs you too much you have to tell him sooner or later but just talk in a calm manner don't be too hasty or he'll be like don't talk to me and don't take a risk like that, trust me. Just act like everythings normal and I bet you everything will be okay.. He'll call sooner or later maybe he's busy doing some family business or maybe he's hanging around his guy friends, ha, ha take my advice don't talk to a guy when he's hanging around his friends, most get really upset and pissy like their PMSing.. LoL hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't but I think I covered everything.
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mkay there's this guy i like and he likes me too. so he sat with me at lunch today and we barely talked. im not sure wat to talk about.. any ideas? thanks. (link)
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How his day went, how your day went, how everythings going in life, how everythings going in life. You could always ask him questions that you want to know about him like can you have his phone number, do you have AIM, what kind of music do you listen too, what do you love to do the most. Ya know* the original things you normally ask in a ordinary conversation. Hope I helped.
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My boyfriend and I been going out for a little over a year and I feel like im a noboby to him cause he never opens up with me, he won't tell me what he's feeling. Example..Just a feel minutes ago i called him and hes like hello and im like hello and he said what do you want and i said what do you mean what do i want don't you want to talk to me? he says no i don't want to talk to anyone and i asked him what's wrong and he just won't tell we got into a fight to because i hung up on him because he was being rude to me. This happens all the time! And i can't take it anymore, i want to feel like im his girlfriend when im around/talk to him not a fucking noboby!...Do you think i'm just wasteing my time on this, is the relationship dead? help please... (link)
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:\ The relationships dead. If he really did care for you he'd deffinately woudl have opened up for you already I mean damn it's been a year. I'd talk to him in person that he is so close of losing you that you feel like SHIT when he talks to you and treats you like your a nobody. Tell him if this is going to continue I feel that I'm just wasting my time so it's either over or you'll change for me. I hope I helped.. If you want to give me more details into it I want to help because I love love life questions especially these kinds.
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i have no clue what so ever what i am going to get my boyfriend for christmas..does anyone have any ideas..we have only been going out for like a little while..hes 14 and im 14 so i kinda need a inexpensive gift becuase i dont really have that much money..
thanks for the help
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Anything to do with his favorite football team, hockey team, soccer team, baseball team, basketball team anything -he's- into. Just get him like hats that have his favorite whatever. Hope I helped. Or make him a CD, movie that he wants?
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How do i break up with my boyfriend with our hurting him. I like him but not in a boyfriend way. there is no connection anymore. I still want to be his friend. Also he has no clue its coming.well that is what i think
thanks for the help
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Well your going to hurt him either way, I know it's not fare when you just want to be friends with a guy that's totally obsessed with you and the only way to say goodbye is bye breaking him into pieces one by one. Just tell him in a settle manner tell him that he's a really good friend, that he's been there all this time and that you wish to be only friends because you can't see him as a boyfriend anymore and you'd rather have something than nothing -friendship than nothing-. Hope I helped.
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Hey Advicenators! (;
I usually hate giving advice to questions like these, but I really need to know if what I'm doing is right. Basically, I have a boyfriend, and we've been dating for a month and a couple days. I really really like him a lot. He's been my best friend since I've moved here to Texas, and we just thought we should start being boyfriend / girlfriend. His name is Kevin.
Back in Pennsylvania, I had this best friend called Charles. We had been best friends since 2nd grade. But, we became REALLY close before I left PA because we knew that it'd be super heartbreaking for the both of us, since we wouldn't be together anymore.
I was completely sad because I knew that Charles didn't believe in long distance relationships. I knew I'd have to wait for him.
But then he found a girlfriend like a month after I left. I don't know her but I know that he has a girl. I was so pissed off about this because I thought he was "in love" with me. But obviously not. Then I met Kevin, like 2 months after I moved here.
Somehow he found out that I'm making Kevin a gift for Xmas, "100 reasons why I like you.." lol i'm pretty sure everyone knows about that. Then tonight, Charles IMed me and said, "Tell me 100 reasons why you love me.." & I'm like I'm not going to do that because it's unfair to Kevin, even if he never finds out about this conversation, I still think it's unfair to talk about US behind his back. He shouldn't even feel that way anyways because he has a girlfriend, right? Now he said he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. And he's never said that to me before.
I'm not going to be upset about this, because it isn't my fault, right? I just need other peoples' perspectives on this.
Thanks for any help.
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It's not your fault. I think your friend Charles is jealous, I think the reason why he moved on is because he he realizes there's no -you guys- and he just can't have you. The reason why I think he's jealous is because he can't face the face that yall can't be together. I'd suggest if Charles is going to act that way towards you don't bother talking to him he'll come back when he's ready and make sure he apologizes if he does come back as well. But yeah stay with your boyfriend be happy with HIM no one else. Hope I helped..
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me and my boyfriend were going out for about 14 months...everything was really great at first but then just a little while ago it started to go down hill, we started fighting a lot and everything. well i went to my friends yesterday and i met this kid Brandon, he was really nice and good looking. we flirted a little. But then today i went down to my friends house and he was there and me and him started talking and we connected really good, we made each other laugh we were kind all over each other but not alot. but me and him barly talked to anyone else that was there. It hard to explain we just hit it off really good...but anyway i was going to go home and he was going to walk me home but we got by my house and i asked him if he wanted to take a walk so we did and we ended up in the woods. so we sat and we talked and then we started kissing, and kissing lend into fingering then we had sex... i feel real bad tho and i know i have to tell my boyfriend but i'm not sure how to, i mean i don't want him to break up with me but i believe he will because i cheated on him, how is he supose to trust me....i need advice bad...
I also feel like a slut to and i feel really bad, like i let my self down and i did something that i know was wrong..like i just slept with a guy i just met..am i going to feel like this forever? how do i make it stop?...
Thanks in advance...
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Well you need to call your boyfriend, don't do that stupid AIM talk you need to either tell him in person or on the phone so he knows your not kidding or something like that. Please don't take this the wrong way but he may break up with you. I know how it feels like wow I think you connected with the other guy very well because your looking for attention((said by my one friend)) because you and YOUR boyfriend are fighting constantly you just feel left out and insecure about everything your confused and feel hopeless. I get that but if you really love your boyfriend then I'd suggest you get your act straight if your boyfriend wants time apart give him the time don't bother him don't talk to him unless he starts talking to you first. If you have any other advice needed to be answer please.. Ask me.
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I've got this friend Megan* who was asked to meet (french kiss) this guy David* but she said no coz hes to much of a friend to her and now 3 weeks later shes asking me to meet him coz hes always putting himself down in the love department so she wanted to show him that some girls do like him without implying that she did.When she said this, i admitted that i was slightly attracted to him at the start of the year.Im having doubt now because i dont want to be the last resort or the last person to be asked to meet him and megan shouldn't be dumping this kind of task and pressure onto me.Another part of me says that i should meet him because i havent metanyone in 2 years (my 1st kiss)
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Kind of difficult to understand this question but ok. I'll try because no one else did, so your friend has this guy friend that likes her but she doesn't want to kiss him becuz* he's too much of a friend but she knows you like him so she's trying to get you to meet him so maybe she'll find out that you guys belong with each other. Wow this is kind of fun trying to guess what your saying ha, ha. But you never had your first kiss so your a little nervous. Everybodies nervous with their first kiss hell I was nervous with my first kiss ha, ha everytime I was around my ex-boyfriend I was trembling because* I knew that he wanted to kiss me so he did and I wasn't ready at all but then I started getting used to it and being more outgoing and open to him. Then he cheated but that's besides the point. But you said you've liked this kid til* school* started thats a long time, I think you should meet** him and get to know him and when you want to kiss him you'll kiss him don't do something you don't want to do just because* your friends preasuring you. Hope I helped. If you have anymore advice needed to be answered I'm here!
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how do you know what kind of kiss your partner is going to do like wen he leans in to kiss you how do you know what kind of kiss to do?
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Well if they lean in to kiss you and their mouth is *slightly* open that means they want to do more than just a simple peck. But you'll know when your in the situation becuz* when their lips touch yours you'll know what to do. It's kind of like an instinct. Hope I helped.
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Im making my boyfriend a mix cd of love for our 1 year ann. and i need to know some rock songs that are about love, my goals is 18 and i have 10
WILL RATE FIVES
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I have one good song. I consider it as kind of rock but Bon Jovi I Will Be There For You.. Sorry I don't listen to rock very often and this is a very good song so here.
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