about

my name is SHELBY

but you can call me boo

im a caretaker

i knock on wood alot

i can make you smile

im getting braces soon

i like capri sun & zebra cakez!

i still count with my fingers

i will watch Sex And The City with you

i will thumb wrestle you in public

and i will make cute faces at you in the rear view mirror

if you need to get ahold of me in another way besides advicenators then feel free to send me an email at SHELBYcrunkpants@yahoo.com

advice

I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions?

Well those sound like great ideas but maybe you should start off when something a bit smaller than a Jets game.
Just hangout at the movies, go bowling, go to the mall, or wherever everyone always hangsout.
Just keep on becoming better and better friends with him and start flirting it up.
Have fun!

[view]

well...i think i like this kid named connor (im a girl by the way) but i also think i like this kid named darryl. im not sure which one that i really like.

well connor is alot like me..but darryl is different, not to mention i barely know anythink about him!!!

help me decide which 1 i like!!

Get to know Darryl.
THEN think about whos friends with your friends, whos nicer, who makes you laugh, etc etc.

[view]

I really like this girl but am to afrain to ask her out or talk to her from fear of rejection. I really like her and want a relationship but i dunno what to do. Any advice?

Dont think so negative, she could say yes too not just no so stop thinking your going to get rejected. You need confidence. My advice would be start talking to her more and more and become friends, make her laugh, etc. Then it should be pretty comfortable to talk to her. If you still dont want to ask her face to face you could ask on the phone, but whatever you do, DO NOT do the asking over myspace, aim, email thing. Its cheesy and doesnt make girls feel special so phone would probably be the best besides in person. Good luck!

[view]

Im a female and Im 15 years old. Me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday and it was my first time. And it was unprotected sex and I was on my period. Is there a higher risk now that I could get pregrant?

Your not at a higher risk but you could still be pregnant. Get a pregnancy test asap.

[view]

theres this one guy i like
he tells me he loves me and that wont ever change and that he's so happy he talks to me and he wants to hold me and kiss me
so obviously he likes me too
but when i go to his myspace all these girls comment him
saying i love you
and like text me later
and he says i love you back and comments there pictures saying cute and everything
i text him all the time too and i wasted all my 500 texts in like a week on him!!!!
and also my best firned started talking to him before i did and like he tells her he loves her too and i know its not a friend kind of love
and i dont know what to do!!!!
cause i really like the him but hes suck a little player/manwhore
i wanna talk to him
but i dont know that to say
someone help me!!!

Dont I repeat DO NOT try to get in a relationship with him.
Guys like that end up cheating on you, dumping you after a few days, or using you for something sexual. Bad idea.
Believe me you could do better than someone who flirts with every girl he talks to.
Take it from someone with experience with a situation like this.

[view]

Hello.
My boyfriend recently graduated so I'm going to strip for him when we go on vacation to the beach.
The thing is I don't know which song to stripdance to!
We both like alternative and rock but pop is okay.
I need a song that I can dance to in stilettos, seductive/sultry songs are preferred, but with enough of an update beat to dance to

Thanks!!!

Buttons- Pussycat Dolls.
Candy Shop- 50 Cent.
Me & You- Cassie.
Dont Cha- Pussycat Dolls.
Im N luv (wit A Stripper)- T-pain.
Sexyback- Justin Timberlake.
Ms. New Booty- Ying Yang Twins.
Get Low- Lil Jon & the East Side Boyz.

[view]

my friend whos a guy called his girlfriend a prude..
what does a prude mean?

It means she wont do anything sexual.
Like say he wanted to makeout but she never has and doesnt want to, that would generally be known as prude.

[view]

ok im 17 and want a kid. ok i do see that its gona be hard and that is probly not best to have a kid yet. but do you think it might help me change my mind bout having a kid if i speak to my boyfriend.
what could the out comes be? im scared if i tell him that he will get worride and leave me. but i dont want to keep something like this from him.
please help me some one.

thanks
xXxXx

If you cant talk to the person your planning on having a baby with about either having the baby or not then your not ready. So yes talk to your boyfriend, I doubt he will leave you just because a conversation, not like your pregnant yet right?

[view]

Right. This could be a bit long.
For the last few days/weeks, I have been thinking about having a baby. Me and my boyfriend are very happy and it definatly looks like we will be together for a long time. He has mentioned before bout kids and stuff. but I always said to him that I would but not yet. I am only 17 years old and I have got a 2 year course at collage coming up. also i dont know if he would actually want a kid yet.
but I have been thinking and I would really love to have a kid.
Can someone please help me change my mind because I know I'm to young to have a kid and I probly wouldn't be able to cope. Even though I'm pretty sure my mum would help me out if I did have a child.
Please help me change my mind because I really want a kid but I am only 17.

Any advise would be brilliant.

Thanks
xXxXxXx

Bad idea. Dont have a kid at this age. Your not even an adult yet, technically your still a kid.

Some reasons why you shouldnt.

If you plan on going to a two year course at collage then you will probably have to put those plans on hold if you have a newborn to take care of.

You and your boyfriend arnt married. Not saying he would but he could leave you at any moment and then your stuck with no father and thats not fair to your child and it will be hard as hell for you to take care of the child.

Just make the right decision, I know you already know since you posted this question on here. In the back of your mind, you know your not ready.

Believe me, its a lot harder than you think.

[view]

im gonna be out of town during our 2 month anniversary thingy and i told my boyfriend i got him a present but i havent gotten it yet and i really dont know what to get or what to make and hes coming home tommorow!! anyone have ideas?

Since its two months dont go super big on it. You should still get him something with meaning behind it though, showing how much you are. A card with a the lyrics a special song, his favorite, or just any love song inside and a picture of the two of you also. Be creative and have fun :]

[view]

Whats a good gift to get any guy..I just want to get something for my boyfriend.

Tickets for you and him to a baseball, football, or a basketball game etc. Make sure its one of his favorite teams/sport. That way he can be with you but still be a guy with his love for sports.
-♥Shelby

[view]

this may be kind of long but ill try to make it as short as possible. me and this guy mike have been broken up for about a year and a half. the whole time we have talked and he still tells me he loves me and misses me every once in a while. well tonight i was with my friend and he called me. well he then told me he was coming to my house but i told him no cause im scared of heartbreak. i do have a boyfriend of 7 months but i still do care about mike. and my boyfriend is amazing so i dont want to hurt him. well mike stayed for like 10 minutes trying to get me to come outside but i couldnt bring my self to it cause i always do. well later on he told me that he made me something since i made him a scrapbook last summer. he refuses to give it to me til i see him. he stayed on the phone with me after he left and had something to say but couldnt because his friend was there. he told me wed talk about it later and i asked when that was and he told me he didnt know. i really care about him and i always will cause he was my first love but i dont know what to do. should i just let him come over and give it to me and talk to me like he wanted and say what he wanted or should i just say no? please help. thanks so much!!

Well to from what your saying it sounds like you still love eachother but your afraid of getting your heart broken again. That shouldn't stop you. Follow your heart, if you love him then see him. Yes that will suck for your boyfriend of seven months but believe me it would hurt him WAY more to find out you love someone else THEN be dumped so just do it now. Let him give you whatever he made, let him come over, and etc.

Good luck and tell me how it goes! If you need anymore help just leave me another question in my inbox.

-♥Shelby

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker