theres this one guy i like
he tells me he loves me and that wont ever change and that he's so happy he talks to me and he wants to hold me and kiss me
so obviously he likes me too
but when i go to his myspace all these girls comment him
saying i love you
and like text me later
and he says i love you back and comments there pictures saying cute and everything
i text him all the time too and i wasted all my 500 texts in like a week on him!!!!
and also my best firned started talking to him before i did and like he tells her he loves her too and i know its not a friend kind of love
and i dont know what to do!!!!
cause i really like the him but hes suck a little player/manwhore
i wanna talk to him
but i dont know that to say
someone help me!!!
<3
heatherniffer answered Wednesday August 16 2006, 10:58 pm: you said yourself hes a player and a manwhore. and if hes telling all those other girls the same things hes telling you then it shows that he doesnt really mean them. [ heatherniffer's advice column | Ask heatherniffer A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Wednesday August 16 2006, 9:46 pm: I know you really like him, but I say just stick to being friends with him, because in the end, he'll hurt you. You said so yourself, he's a player. And if you started a relationship with him, he'll probably just wind up cheating on you. And even if he didn't, I doubt you'd want him telling all his 'friends that are girls' that he loves them and will call them later all the time. I have a friend exactly like this, and he starts to really like a girl, and they'll start liking eachother, and then the girl sees how many times on myspace he tells girls he loves them and calls them baby and stuff, and the girl winds up ditching him. So, I think you should do what that girl did. I hope I helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
lilstef1992 answered Wednesday August 16 2006, 7:20 pm: all i say is get rid of him. guys like that down fall in life. and you don't wanna go with him. i bet if you get rid of him, you'll see all the other people out there for you that really do like you and you'll enjoy life better.
prep22 answered Wednesday August 16 2006, 5:37 pm: uhhh...is his name dylan? j/k i dealed with a guy just like this. i fell for him, and fell HARD too!! he was so cute and told me all this stuff how i was hott, and then all of a sudden stop calling me. to this day i wish i could see him, but i know that its not a good idea. oh ya this happened a couple years ago. JUST LEAVE THIS GUY ALONE. he is a player. players do this because they think that they are so cute that they can get any girl they want. so, the way to TRY to stop it is to just leave him alone!! your heart wont be broken and maybe hell realize he cant have every girl he wants!! [ prep22's advice column | Ask prep22 A Question ]
SHELBYcrunkpants answered Wednesday August 16 2006, 4:48 pm: Dont I repeat DO NOT try to get in a relationship with him.
Guys like that end up cheating on you, dumping you after a few days, or using you for something sexual. Bad idea.
Believe me you could do better than someone who flirts with every girl he talks to.
Take it from someone with experience with a situation like this. [ SHELBYcrunkpants's advice column | Ask SHELBYcrunkpants A Question ]
emilyy answered Wednesday August 16 2006, 4:05 pm: You're right, this guy is a player.
If you want to continue liking him you need to realize you will end up getting hurt because he 'loves' so many other girls.
I suggest forgetting about him (stay friends though) and find other guys who will treat you the way you want to be treated.
If you are really determined try saying ' __ I like you a lot and you say you like me too but you say it to a lot of girls ' and see where that goes. If he says he will change give him ONE chance and if he denies it then he is a liar.
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