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Hi!!! We're Regina & Gretchen! This is our Advice Column! We give the best advice and like looovveee to help people with their problems! We are like both really experienced so you can ask us anything!By the way, Regina is the one on the left and me (Gretchen)is the one on the right!

xoxo Regina & Gretchen

~Karen is too stupid to give advice, sorry!~ ♥ from Regina

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How do I know if I am in love? I'm really confused and I want to know so badly... please help.

When yer in luv, you know it cuz you cant stop thinking about him and you start to imagine getting married and what your life will be like in the future. If he's always on your mind, and you're happiest when you're with him, & you can imagine the two of you travelling the world together and junk, then youre probably in love, but don't get obsessed. We gotta be strong even when love makes us weak. *kisses* Regina

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how do i make franch kissing more fun for me and my boyfriend

i totally can answer this one! Okay so do fun things with your tongue, like work it girl. And then you should try a piece of candy and pass it back and forth and hands, omg hands, guys LOOOVE ANYwhere you touch them!


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how do i know if he's with me 4 sex or not

God. Are you the same person who has been asking like 50000 sex questions on this site? it's really annoying. You need to give more info so we can actually answer the question. Here's an idea: Are you two in a relationship as in DATING? If not, then yeah, he probably is using you.

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okay I really like this boy but, I can't describe what I feel for him... Is it love? or just a 13 year old's crush?
TY in advance Jeni Lots Of love

Nobody falls in love when they're 13.
13 year olds just too young to understand the real concept of love.
If you can't decide what you feel for him, then you're obviously not in love.
Are you dating him?
If you're not, then sorry hun, it can't possibly be love. Love is when two people feel the same way about each other, learn to trust each other, and have been together for a while.
You probably just like him alot, and are confused about the difference between like and love.

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Alright, well im 14 years old. And i've been with my girlfriend for awhile in which i extremely love, i've kissed her before, just little pecks on the lips and cheek, but what is the best way to have a long kiss with your girlfriend? Like, just kissing for awhile, is there a certain way that girls like guys to kiss?

Can't wait for an answer. :-)
Thanks.

Do what feels right. it doesn't even matter. haven't you ever seen a movie with a really long kiss in it? If you don't know how to kiss like that then you probably shouldn't be doing it!

Lawlz.

~regina~

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My bf always tells me to ask him questions, but i never have any, i know alot about him already. can sombody give me a list (as long as possible please)

You should just go with the flow. Talk about stuff that happened that day. And the next time he tells you to "ask him questions" you should say, "hey bud, why don't you ask me some for a change?"

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So i like this kid named joe. and joe said that he likes me too but the problem is he likes this other girl jeana. jeana is rlly pretty and popular. jeana can basically make any guy like her so shes been like flirtin w/ joe alot and it makes me mad. i always see joe n jeana flirting and i get like upset so i go over 2 joe and ask him if he rlly likes jeana and he just shrug and be like i guess. and so then i had my friend go ovr 2 joe n ask him who he likes better me or jean and he said he doesnt know yet and i dunno cuz i really like him and i want to go out with him but should i ask him out because i feel like jeana will always be in the way and hes gonna like jeana better. what r some things i can do to make him like me?

Well, first of all, I only read like the first and last sentence of this because it's not like I have all the time in the world. Umm you can make joe like you by wearing really short mini skirts and low cut tops and uh dye your hair blonde and get really close to him.

♥ Regina

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okay well me and this kid started going out & we were crazy for eachother but we were like the kind of couple that joked around all the time and made fun of eachother in a kidding way. well last night he dumped me because he said i didnt show him that i liked him enough and that we were just different from eachother. i really want him back like i have cried all night last night and almost all day today and i told him that i do love him so much but idk he just put a frown face. we still talk like nothing happened but it hurts soo bad. i just want him back. any suggestions? ill rate all 5's for help. i love him more then ever.

Ask him exactly what would be a good way for you to show him "that you liked him."! If he doesn't want you back, move on! get a new boyfriend and make him jealous and maybe he'll want you back!

xoxo Regina & gretchen ♥

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It was my birthday a couple of days ago. I was at work when I checked my voice mail messgages. I male friend of mine left a really sweet message. He was singing happy birthday in a really romantic voice. Then he said he would be sending me a small gift in the mail ( he lives out of town). None of my other male friends have done that for me? Do you think it sounds like he may like me as more than a friend?

I think he really likes you! He at least likes you alot as a friend, but I'm pretty sure he likes you more! Call him back and go for it!!!

I wonder what he's gonna get you!!!

xoxo Gretchen

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hi there, well there's this girl i like. she has a boyfriend and she usually comes to me for help. we have lots in common and she has said to me that she wishes she had a boyfriend like me.. well recently i told her how i felt about her.. i dont know if i should of said this because im not sure things will be the same. she says its ok and she still loves me. but it feels like im in an awkward kind of position. any advice would really be appreciated, thanks.

I totally think she likes you. You should just keep being "friends" with her, and if she really doesn't like her boyfriend, maybe she'll dump him. You should ask her out!

♥ Gretchen

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What do people mean when they say "opposites attract"? Is this statement true?

It's like when like two totally different people fall in love and you know its kind of like magnets or something. I don't know, I really didn't pay attention in Science class that day. But wait, so are you like in love with a magnet then?

♥ Regina

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alright so my boyfriend comes over here like everyday and i love it because i get to see him everyyyy dayy and thats just fine with me but sometimes when hes over here and im in the shower i get out come to my room and hes on myspace writing someone or reading someones message to him but once i really get in the room he closes out of it really quick and this has happen twice. idk what to do because if hes hiding something i need to know but im scared to ask him because i dont want us to start an arguement. what should i do?????

Just like ask him what's going on, because one of my ex boyfriends used to do that with IM. Just say, "Who's myspace were you on?" or "Hey, were you on myspace? Who were you talking to?" If he tries to say "Noone" then just like ask him if he's doing something that he probably shouldn't be like doing. Like it is your house and you can totally kick him off the computer. But just like try asking him, and if he doesn't admit what he's really doing, dump him! Because if he keeps lyin to you, you don't desserve that!

xoxo Regina

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i met some girls a few months ago. i got to know them pretty good. i have much in common with both of them. i liked 1 of them so i told her how i felt, but she has a bf. after she said that i said it's kind of awkward talking to her. she said not to worry and she'll forget about it. i'm ok with that because i wasn't deeply inlove with her anyway. but now i think i'm starting to like her friend, she seems real nice and always calls me cute and i say the same to her. is it too sudden to say i like her? note: she doesnt have a boyfriend

No, it's not too early! I knew my boyfriend for less than a day! I always say, it's never too early. She's so obviously flirting with you, so she likes you!!! You should totally ask her out before she becomes unavailable!

xox Gretchen

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Hey, I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with another girl. I'm scared to ask him about it. What should I do?!

You should cheat on him! Get a boy toy, someone who will do anything for you, and walk right in front of your boyfriend and kiss your new boy toy! That'll show him not to cheat on you! Oh and then dump him publicly in front of everyone.

Love, Regina

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My boyfriend is the best person I have ever met he loves church, Me, and his family and I love is personalitiy but he is not all that cut i mean he's cute but not sexy the thing i hate most about him is his eyes and lips there big big but i dont want to break up with him because his mom just died and he need someone to talk to more than ever now cause he is goin through a lot what should I do signed CONFUSED.

Heyy,

you just need to be honest with him. Just tell him you'd think you two would be better off as friends. If you two are just friends, it might be easier to talk to him and comfort him. He definitely needs a friend right now.

His lips are really big? Well mine are kinda big too. Lol. But I'm a girl.

xoxo Gretchen

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I really like this guy but there is one problem, he has a girlfriend. I want to go out with him, but I don't want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend. That's just not what I do. He is really easy to talk to and he is really cute. The other guys who I have had crushes on were really cute but shallow. But this guy is different. What should I do?

signed,
confused

If you really truly like him, then it will find a way to work out. You should get to know him better and just become friends first. If he gets to know you, and gets to see how awesome you are, then maybe he will decide that he wants to be with you!

I used to like this guy who had a really mean girlfriend, but then I got to know the guy and I found out that he had feelings for me too, and then we went out! Sometimes things just seem to work out like that.

xoxo Reggii

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ive been w/ my bf for about 8 months now .. and i love him soo much. When i hang out w/ my ex bf and see him w/ his new gf i get kinda jelious, but i dont like him like that. we're best friends and hes like my brother but i dont no what to do. I feel like i might have feelings but i dont no.

That's okay, it's common for people to feel like that after they break up with someone. If you really love your boyfriend, stick with him. You probably just have some left over feelings from that relationship with your ex boyfriend. It just might seem a little weird to be hanging out as friends, but you'll probably get used to it over time! Just try to decide who you really like by spending time with both of the guys! That's what I did, but then I went back to my Ex after I made him really jealous.

Hope I helped!

xoxo Regina

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