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Confused about him
My boyfriend is the best person I have ever met he loves church, Me, and his family and I love is personalitiy but he is not all that cut i mean he's cute but not sexy the thing i hate most about him is his eyes and lips there big big but i dont want to break up with him because his mom just died and he need someone to talk to more than ever now cause he is goin through a lot what should I do signed CONFUSED.
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If you look at him and see only the surface which you consider flaws you should reevaluate your whole relationship. This guy may not be boyfriend material for you but he definitely sounds like he can be a really good friend to you and you need to get over his looks. As a user already stated, you can't choose what you look like- you are born that way. If you can't get over that, you should tell him that you just want to be friends. You shouldnt be leading him on. You can be his friend and still be able to work out his problems with him.
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Heyy,
you just need to be honest with him. Just tell him you'd think you two would be better off as friends. If you two are just friends, it might be easier to talk to him and comfort him. He definitely needs a friend right now.
His lips are really big? Well mine are kinda big too. Lol. But I'm a girl.
xoxo Gretchen
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you really shouldhn't judge people how the way they look. just like everyone, they were born the way they are. its not like they can choose what eyes and nose and mouth they want before they are born. we all come with what we've got. & we can change it with plastic surgery and learn to work around them in the future. but that's one of the most shallowest things i've ever heard of. especially if you've known him for a long time. so you know the personality. i'd say you should give the poor guy another chance. try to get past his face. try to get to his heart. & only focus on his personality. he seems sweet. think about it. & if he needs help, help him as much as you can. put yourself in his place and think about what he's going through. hard times. people can never go through those hard times alone. he really needs someone. hope it all goes well.
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i hope he finds a better girlfriend. some one not as shallow. Just because his lips and eyes arent as nice as you would like doesnt mean anything, if he is really sucha great guy that shouldnt amtter. or thats usually how it goes, when people look past apperances.
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If you break up with him, in the long run you may actually be doing him a favor. Because he doesn't deserve to waste his time on someone who is so low that she will dump him only based on his physical characteristics.
You need to get a life. He may have the unattractive looks but you are the one with the unattractive personality.
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Hey Sweetie,
Ok this is a pretty crazy posting.
So you say your boyfriend is the "Best person you have ever met", But you are not very fond of his personal appearance. I think at this time, you shouldn't break his heart! Exspecially by look's. That is like someone saying "Oh she is the best person I have ever met but on the other hand I don't like her choice of clothing and how it fit's her body image". Just put yourself in his position. How does he feel about you, and does he Love you? That is what you should ask yourself, an if he does than you should keep him for good. Because the good boys don't come a dime a dozen believe me it took me a while to find what I have an believe me i'd never let it go for some asshole out their who just wants to use girls.. Because believe it or not their is alot of them out there!!
-Stephanie-
*Hope I helped somewhat*
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Looks aren't everything and he does seem like a great guy. Concentrate on his inside, not just his outside.
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