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well im 17 and i like boys you can say im a little boy crazy and i have had boyfriends in the past but at my school there are alot of couples and i get all sad when i see cute couples walking in school when ever i see them hold hands i get sad whenever i see the couples kiss or play around i get all sad and i start to feel lonley i dont know what to do i mean im not ugly you know and im pretty nice... how do i get a boyfriend? if thats not the right think to do then what do i do to not feel lonley but still have a guy without him being my boyfriend and if then how do i just get my mind of boys???? :) any advice? (link)
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Be Patient, Good things come to those who WAIT :)
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My boyfriend and I have been together for five months and up until now have had a very strong and loving relationship. Recently, we have started to have lots of arguments, primarily about the fact that I feel slightly sidelined by his busy lifestyle.
We have always been open with each other and make sure we talk about the problems we are having, and today I told him that I didn't see how we could continue like this, especially as things will get busier what with exams and the growing success of his musical career. His reply was that every single problem we have is entirely down to me.
I know we love each other very much, but at the moment I really don't know how to solve this seemingly permanent problem. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Well if I were in your position an I really LOVED my boyfriend I would try to make a compromise on his life an my life an than OUR life together. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3yrs an we have our little arguments about him working together Tuesdays-Sunday giving him ONE day off out of a week, It sucks because yeah I admit it's my last year of highschool but at the same time I like being with my boyfriend but at the same time he needs money for bills an not to mention him living by himself. But all you need to do is make a compromise just because times are getting hard for you both ask him to maybe come over BEFORE his band practice or after, Maybe ask him every 2 days to come over your house an change up the routine a bit. But I wouldn't end a relationship because it's not going your way an how you want an expect it to, Stuff happens an Stuff WILL test your relationship an this is just your chance to prove how strong it really is :)
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ok well i went over this boys house last weekend and we ended up making out and you knpow just messin around. well things really clicked we had hung out once before but that was the first time we had done somthing. so hes my best friends cousin and shes fine with everything but he said he would call but never did. he has basketball and i know hes busy but i mean he could have called what do you guys think?. (link)
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Well it sound's kind of bad but it seems to me like he was just using you. I don't know the kid what so ever but if I were to kiss a guy an he hadn't called me a few days after that kiss took place than that would bother me but at the same time tell me something like maybe that was just his intention to kiss me, An if things went further than he probably wanted that too. But just don't let it bother you give him the fuck it attitude because if you show you care than he knows he's got you.
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ill be 15 in a week and im with this guy and im kinda prude. i dont really no how to not be prude like i just feel akward soometimes when he like feels me up and stuff. and his friend asked me today why i went to his house last nite and no one was there and we didnt do n e thing then he called me prude. i feel so akward now. and idk what he ment by doing nothing but we couldnt have sex or n e thing cuz im on my period but he doesnt no that. ahhhhh this suckss. i would appricate some advicee =] (link)
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Okay well your still young an it does seem to me that you want to do stuff but you just feel awkward getting comfortable and letting him see your body or even touch you. When my boyfriend and I first got together I didn't understand alot I was no where near expierenced because the sheltered life I was used to. You don't have to have sex with him RIGHT now unless you feel comfortable an you seem like you dont by the way you took time out to write it all out online. But what I would do is let the relationship progress an the longer yall date the more comfortable you will be around him an stuff will get better :)
-Stephanie
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for a very long time nothing boy wise was going my way i would start talking to a boy then as soon as i started liking him something would happen and we would stop talking like that well last weekend i was hanging at my friends cousins house and we really clicked and we kissed so i thought that things were finally working out for me but he hasnt called. i honestly dont know what else to do. i feel like theres something wrong with me but i dont know what to think anymore. any comments/advice>!> (link)
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Well honestly if a guy isn't calling you after yall kissed give him the cold shoulder if you act like you DONT care than somehow guys find that attractive. I mean I have no clue why boys like that but I am that way an it happens to just get them all the time. But that's my best advice don't let it bother you but be shady toward him if he is going to act that way toward you an don't let him show you it gets to you because in some cases that's what guys want.
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my boyfriend dumped me after a year of seein eachother Every single day and i spend all my time with him he was there for me wen no1 else was wen i lost all my friends and because wen we fight i take it too far he just had to dump me i begged for another chance but he said no i feel so sick im achining i miss him so much i see him everyday so its soo hard not to see him from now on i dont want to see him with another girl to thats going to make things harder please help because no1 is giving me good advice to stop the pain i love this boy i told him EVERYTHING and now its all over he dont want anything to do with me help!
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Honestly, One word of advice from me to you is.
"If he is worth having he is worth waiting for"
Stephanie-
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my boyfriend has been bringing me down ALOT lately. all he ever talks about is how much it sucks that hes gonna lose me someday..and the other day he was like "youre gonna fall in love with someone else and i cant do anything to change it" and no matter what i said he kept going ON AND ON about it! nonstop!! then last night i called him and he told me that he was talking to ex girlfriend (shes really slutty) about when hes coming to visit and she wants to meet up with him. i didnt wanna hear that at all. then he said "YOU DONT LIKE ME ANYMORE!im such a bad boyfriend and no one likes me!" which he knows isnt true. before we hung up i said i love you like i always do, but he didnt say it back..he said "k".
well today he apoligized..and today all hes been saying is how much he loves me and how awesome i am which is obviously to make up for last night.
what should i do? does anyone have any idea whats up with him?? thanks! (link)
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Hey Hun, I would definetly dump this boy. He seems like he is not totally devoted to you especially if he has to rely on his EX girlfriend to keep him entertained on the phone. I mean lord what do they talk about. It's obvious that any girl who talks to their ex boyfriend will always bring up how much they miss them EXSPECIALLY when they are single because some girls act like their hearts are bigger then the dagum two twin towers an it's ridiculous but true. I would definetly dump him tell him your not comfortable with him talking to his EX girlfriend an you totally disagree that it is okay because it isnt under any circumstances. Then tell him your just tired of being treated with disrespect all the time. And tell him if he loves you he wouldnt ever treat you that way an he would devote his time with YOU not talking to his EX girlfriend on the phone!! Hope I helped.
Stephanie-
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Well, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months last night around 11:50. I dont even know what I was thinking! I was confused and I kept thinking about what would happen if he broke up with me. then I guess I started conviceing myself that he WAS cheating on me and I broke up with him. He didnt seem too upset. After I got off the phone with him I balled my head off for hours. I even started gasping for air and then started choking. I dont know what that was all about but thats how much I was crying. anyways then I talked to my friend Zach till i dont know what time but we talked for at least 3 hours. He cheered me up some but I still cant help but think about him. I love him more than life itself! I miss him so much and I dont think he misses me. I want to call him and say sorry and everything but Im afraid he wont care! I miss him so much you have no idea! Please help! should I call him?!?!? Should I just move on??! please Ill rate 5's i swear! (link)
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Hey Hun,
It seem's hard you know to deal with not having the person you love around anymore. But I mean you got to loook at it like you were dating 1yr and 2monthes of course your goin to miss him exspecially like looking around in your room just remembering thing's of course your going to be sad,dissapointed,stressed out,crying. It happen's! But if you do still wanna get back with him just call him exsplain your feeling's to him, and if he doesn't listen then maybe it was not meant to be. But at least you said what was on your mind. But im sure he seen it coming if their was no reaction, or maybe he was just shocked. But if you wanna call him go for it!
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-Stephanie
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hey i have a boyfriend i been with him for 8 months and i l0ve him but when he is with his friends he acts weird and shows off...we also fight because i get jealous a lot and dont trust him...we fight a lot and break up but always get back together and he used to be so nice when we first went out how do i get him to be whipped? (link)
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HaHa, well obviously you dont have him whipped otherwise he would be devoting all his time to you an not his friends as much.
You cant just magically get him whipped unless you give him your thoughts an opinions about different situations an stuff he does.
But then again you know what is the point of putting yourself in a relationship with someone who acts one way to you, an then one way around his friend's.
Also is their a reason WHY you don't trust your bf. Like what makes you NOT trust him. Because honestly if you don't have trust then you dont really have anything judging by the situation you are in.
I know you say you LOVE him but TRUST is something that is involved with love to. And if you can't trust him as much as you say you love him, then what else do you have to loose? Your relationship??
Really talk to him tell him what's on your mind because seems to me like he is prettttty shady!!
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Ok...Is it weird that i can only see myself havin sex with my ex...I mean i have other guy friends and all but i jus can't let myself get closer to them to build a relationship without gettin scared or thinking the same thing will happen to me again...givin my all to have my heartbroken again...But that doesn't stop me from talkin to my ex and still havin sex wit him...i really need advice... it's like i'm drawn to him and i know that we'll never be together again considering he still has a girlfriend...Please be real wit me...i can take it..i really need help...thanks in advance:) (link)
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*Hey Hun*
- - I completly understand what you mean by not having sex with any one other then your ex. I mean obviously like my friend is in the SAME situation. And no it is totally NOT wierd that you only see your self having sex with one boy whitch obviously is your ex. But you gotta learn how to just go out there an move on ya know. Like you may not want to get your heartbroken, who know's you probably wont get your heartbroken but at least if you did at least it's a lesson learned in life an so yes their is definetly a reason whyy things didnt work out. But I would suggest like going off with your girlfriends even if you dont want to, believe me it will bring no stress to your mind an it will help you not just sit around wanting your ex more and more. I mean dang if his girlfriend only knew he would have nothing. And obviously this boy STILL has some kind of feelings for having sex with you. But honestly what you should do is tell him you dont wanna do anything with him, tell him he needs to tell his girlfriend what he has been doing an he just needs to end things with her before she finds out an then a big fight gets stirred up because he decided to cheat. So just like I know it will be hard not having sex but just say no until he can get the balls an tell his gf he has been cheating on her an his feelings proabbyl werent ever there for her because obviously he kept running back to you. Anyway girlie hope I helped an understood your situation somewhat anyway if you need advice feel free to IM me at OHILOVETRAVIS on aol/aim whatever they call it these days!!
-Stephanie
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my boyfriend is about to leave for basic and i want to get him something he can use daily or see or whatever to remind him of me...any ideas? (link)
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If yall take photos together with a camera or ALREADY have pictures. Think about like getting a like u know them little boards you stick thumtacks into. Like kinda big or whatever well get a collage of pictures an make something out of it on one side an then on the otherside write a long note telling him why you love him. OR if your really good at computer make him a cd like that plays as a video that he could whatch everytime he misses you and add like music to it. I did that for my hunnie and he LOVED it!!
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i've liked this guy for 2 months.. a few weeks ago, i found out that one of my best friends likes him again [ they went out in the beginning of the year ]... he likes her. this girl always gets who she wants, and i don't know why, she dumps everyone she goes out with after she gets bored with them. i really like this guy but he likes her. is there anything i can do to make him see me and not her?
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You can't really make him see you as nothing more than a friend. If she does happen to breakup with him then show him that you will be there. Just talk to him n stuff, dont ask him about your friend (whitch may be his gf) because you don't know how much he likes her an how he totally feels about her yet. Just be friends with him an stuff. And remmeber if he is worth having he is worth waiting for, an if you don't have him right now then he might be worth the wait despite girls who may come into his life!!
-Steph
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whats a good program that you can fix up pics and were can i download (link)
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Try going to google and looking for FREE PICTURE EDITING SOFTWARE..and im sure it should give you plenty of options!!
-Stephanie
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so im taking drivers ed this summer and its kind of nice b/c i dont really know anyone in there so i get to act more like myself. basically im not as shy. so theres this guy who sits behind me and he cought my eye the first day. hes smart and taller than me which is rare because im 5'9 but anyways i flirt w/ him and its fun but i dunno im kind of interested in him but i dont know how to get his attention more like i dont know how to be more agressive without coming off as crazy. i think he gets it b/c he flirts back and it makes those 2 boring hours very interesting but im still confused on what i should do. please help! (sorry this is so long!) (link)
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Hey Girlie!
Wellp I have some friends taking drivers ed as well this summer. I do think it is a very wise decision anyway! Ha besides thats I think you pretty much made it known that you want his attention an he seems to be wanting yours as well if he is accepting the little flirtation messages you may give him such as sarcasim in a cute way, THE look haha, hitting, haha its all in the little messages. So im pretty sure you have made it known. Now all you gotta do is keep pursuing that, nothing more than that. Because you don't wanna bring up the whole wanting to get involved in a relationship yet, so like ask him if like one dya after drivers ed does he wanna go out to lunch or something and if he accepts it then he might be interested in you as well. Wellp hope I helped ya out stick in there girlie I think he is a good one hhaha an im pretty sure you made it known your interested!
-StephAnie-
*If ya need anymore advice,
IM me on aol at OHiLOVETRAViS*
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can you get pregnant off of pre cum
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Yes it is possible!
-StephAnie-
*If ya need anymore advice,
IM me on aol at OHiLOVETRAViS*
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kay me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months now..we have been talking about gettin a place of our own and really settle down with eachother..the thing is he wants me to be more AGGRESSIVE but i dont know how because im a soft person that gets hurt very easily and i am a big baby..he also wants me to WOMAN up but i dont know how or what he means by that...and i need help on how i can do these things so we can work out and last..so if u could please help me out..were together everyday..stay at eachothers houses..in love..families want us to be together..just this little bump keeping us alittle apart..ill rate high! (link)
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Hey Hun,
Alright sounds pretty cool moving in with your boyfriend, actually being together not having to worry about parents wanting yall home at a certain time because then yall would always be together correct? Well thing is what exactly is meant by aggressive and women up? In my own mind if a boy says that it would probably be meant as nothing bad just he probably meant this as like your too nice of a person. Idk what exactly he meant it as like too nice of a person to him whitch I doubt that but maybe he see's other people like being rude to you or something an your just really sweet and end up giving into them. Or maybe he is meaning it as in your too sweet to him. And like I know like sometimes with my bf he ends up just randomly arguing haha an im like wayy to sweet an give into him, soo maybe he meant it like that? Idk but just keep doing what your doing I mean he cant change the way you act I know it sounds crazy but just be you an tell him to exsplain what bothers him so you can like figure out what is actually making you need a change in your actions or whatever! Anyway hope I helped!!
-StephAnie-
*If ya need anymore advice,
IM me on aol at OHiLOVETRAViS*
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OMG!! I LIKED THIS GUY FOR THE LONGEST TIME. I DONT THINK HE KNOWS IT. WELL TODAY I CAME HOME FROM WORK AND GOT ONLINE. MY BEST FRIEND IMED ME AND SAID "PLEASE DONT GET MAD AT ME." i said i wouldnt and asked her what she needed to tell me. she sent me a conversation between her and the guy i like (bobby). she asked him who he liked and his exact words were "dont think im weird but i kinda sort of like you" OMG!!! I SERIOUSLY CRYED MY EYES OUT. my best friend has a boyfriend that i know she wouldnt leave but its just that i really really like bobby and it just sucks!!! what can i do??!?!?!?!?
PLEASE I WILL RATE 5'S!!! (link)
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Hey,
Well your friend seems like she was trying to do you the favor of asking him did he like you. But she did it in the most incorrect way ever. Plus yeah she told you the truth about what he said but did she ever think about what kinda reaction you would have to it? Yeah truth hurts but what hurts more is it coming from your best friend. But really you should try to just be you around this boy, if he cant accept that then pshh..he wasnt really worth your time anyway an im sure your a very pretty girl an their is plenty more boys out their worth your time an etc. Plus its not like you were IN-LOVE with this boy, but yeah it hurts but time cures everything an im sure you will move on sooner or later!!
-Stephanie
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ok.. so there's this guy. we used to be BEST FRIENDS.. we talked about everything. he would flirt with me all the time even if he HAD girlfriends (one happened to be my best friend) and i admit i flirted back. sooner or later i fell for him.. and this was also even when he had a girlfriend. only my close friends knew, but my heart seriously ACHED for him. his girlfriend broke up with him.. he was SINGLE.. things didn't change.. still best friends. so then he asks out my best friend again (the one he went out with before) and she turns him down and him and his friend call me one night and tell me he likes me alot and he asks me out. OF COURSE i say yes.. we were together.. everything was perfect. he was the perfect boyfriend anyone could ever ask for. his smile was amazing and he could make me laugh no matter how bad i felt. but then i got a text message just out of the blue after a week or so of us going out and he says he wants to just be friends like we used to be.. and my heart just drops. i cry and cry.. all my friends were calling me and i couldn't even talk while tears were running down my face. the next day i sat right next to him in social studies and i felt tears swelling up in my eyes. he tried to make things go back to normal and we talked.. just acted like everything was alright when inside i was dying. so then i find out more news.. he got a new girlfriend. and surprisingly i don't care because she has liked him for a LONG time and i'm happy for her.. we were just aquantices (can't spell) so it wasn't one of those "going out with your friend's ex" type of situation. but there's more.. i find out he cheated on his ex-girlfriend.. not my best friend, but the other one. my whole world falls apart. i don't think of him the same way.. i thought he was the perfect guy ever. it may not seem like a big deal, but it just makes me wonder.... for weeks i have been ignoring him and he knows why now. but i STILL miss him.. i want him back so bad.. i mean if he asked me back out i would say no just because of all the pain he put me through.. or would i? yesterday he wasn't at school and all i could do is put my hand down.. him being absent ONE DAY killed me. it's like i hate him when he's there, but when he's gonna i love him sooo much. even when he isn't there i still think i secretly love him, but i just don't want to admit it. i mean.. there are other guys who have my eye right now.. i LIKE them.. but i LOVE him. i seriously think he's THE one. i probably seem really stupid, but you don't understand. he was AMAZINNGGG.. he was so sweet to me and funny and outgoing.. and he was smart.. he could actually hold a conversation. he would stick up for me when other guys were being jerks and his hugs were so cute and cuddly. anyways.. what i'm saying is.. idk what to do. it seems like my heart's incomplete without him. maybe i should move on? or just wait? if he just wants to be friends.. then i guess that's what i'll have to do.. but i just want so much more than that. and plus i still hate him, but i love him?! wtf.. ok.. just please help me.. (link)
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Hey,
Its like my old saying that I tell all of my friends..."IF HE IS WORTH HAVING HE IS WORTH WAITING FOR"! Honestly, I have been in the same situation cept he was single an EXTREMLY confused, good god played so many mind games, went out with my best friend then denied it now we are like no longer best friends over this boy. But just what I would suggest with the whole situation is just think about what I said up there in the beginning of my answer to your question!!
-Stephanie
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. He's going away to college this fall, two and a half hours away. We've been apart for a three months, that's it and it was very hard. He says he's going to try to come home every weekend or at least every other weekend. We've started talking about it, and the only thing we have decided on is to attempt staying together, but we're both afraid of it hurting too much. I tell him that I'm still going to be in the same boring town, with no new people, he's the one going to a completely different place (but it's an automotive college, so not a lot of girls), then he pulls out of card of me going to college in a year, but I'll be going somewhere only 45 minutes away from our home town. What can I do to relax about him going away and keep the person that I love more than anything???? (link)
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Hey,
Well my cousin was in the same situation except her boyfriend was 2yrs ahead of her in college. It is a bad situation to be in ya know with the love of your life being however many miles away he might be. All you need to do is relax. Dont think about it that much, have him call you like every now in then during the day an update you on what he is doing an stuff, an im sure you would feel better about the situation. If not then try exsplaing to your parents how much you love him or w/e an see if they would let you go some day out of the month to see him. Believe me as long as you dont think about it, it will defiently get better over time!!
-Stephanie-
*JUST REMEMBER*
-Absence makes the Heart grow fonder-
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It was midnight,i ve been walking through the graves ..there was noone exept me to cemetery..only darkness..and terrifying silence,someone waswhispering,laughing ..thought had gone mad..i did it for forgetting u,but even there i couldn't have done it,even fear couldn't make me put your name out of my mind..you'd never know how much i prayed to be with you.feel there's no one who can help me (link)
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Hey,
Aw, this is kinda wierd but is it like a poem or story of something that happened in your life? Anywho..nice work if its just a writing it has alot of feeling in it! But what exactly is your question?
-Stephanie
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