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13/f

i have been friends with this guy for about a year. he's really cool and all, and i consider him my guy best friend, and i guess he considers me his girl best friend. we have a lot of things in common, and we talk about all anything. from sports to music to girls and all that stuff. one time we talked in AIM for 8 hours straight! the last time i talked to him, before he left for vacation, we talked about how we talked for 8 hours straight. [[it's always been random things that we talk about]] and somewhere along the line of conversation, i said something like, "well, i wouldn't wanna waste your time talking to me."
here's a quick scene from that conversation::
HIM: oh come on. you're one of the only people i could talk to for 8 hours and love it
ME: uh-huh
HIM: yeaah. why do you think that it would be a waste of time for me?
ME: i don't know... maybe you have better things 2 do?
HIM: now why would i talk to you for so long if i had better things to do? i talked to you for 8 hours because i love talking to you
ME: i guess... lol... this is turning into one of those "aw" moments
HIM: hahahahahaha. sure i guess. just being
honest

i thought it was REALLLY sweet of him to say that. since then i've been feeling like i like him more than a friend. i heard that he kinda likes someone, but i'm not sure who it is. i don't really wanna tell him that i like him, because i don't wanna put our friendship in jeopardy. i'm thinking of just waiting to see if he'll ask me out. maybe not anytime soon, but hopefully when i still like him. should i? we don't go to the same school anymore. we used to, but his parents wants him to go to this other school so that he has a better chance of him getting into this high school that i'm hoping to get into, too. i really miss him, and even though i talk to him more than anybody else, i still feel like it's not enough. what should i do?

Well I think you should wait till he asks you out. Maybe you should flirt a little so he gets the picture.


~Lucky

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okay, i'm 14/f and there's someone that i like, but he's 2 years younger than me. is it okay to like or date someone 2 years younger? it seems kind of weird, but it's not that big of a difference and in fact i think my parents are 2 years apart. thanks

Well if he's 12, it kinda matters now, but when your older it doesnt really matter. but do whatever you want because it's your choice,and if you like him go for it.


~Lucky

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tonight when i was with my boyfriend i suddenly got bored and didnt wanna be with him anymore. i started having thoughts of breaking up with him. but then like 10 minutes later he was holding me and i felt so happy! i LOVE the physical attraction we have and hes really funny but im not sure if hes right for me cause i cant always be the crazy, hyper person that i am. is it bad that i was having those negative thoughts or is it normal? any advice will be appreciated!

Well i think those thoughts are normal. Everyone thinks about that kind of stuff. U have nothing 2 worry about!


~Lucky

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I need help on how to forget about a little event that occurred between my friend and me. We were just playing around and he bet me that I wouldn't kiss him because I was a wuss. Well, I did, and then later could not stop thinking about it. We kissed again another day, but then we both decided that it was wrong and now it's two days later and I still can't stop thinking about it. How do I get over this? How can I move on?

Well if you dont have feelings 4 him, you should think about other guys. if you think about other guys, you'll stop thinking about the kiss. Yuo were just playing around.


~Lucky

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me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for the past 2 years.I recently found out he cheated on me 3 times with some girls from Johnston.Now he asked me if we were dating about 2 days ago and i stupidly said "Yea,I guesss".Today he came to my house and told me that he has a new girlfriend. I said "i thought me and you were together" and he said "O well shes hotter".5 minutes later he tried kissing me.What should I do about all of this???Now im stuck the single one!



PLEASE HELP ME FAST!:(

find someone who respects you, and wont cheat. If your gonna keep with the other guy, he'll just cheat on you again. What you need is a true boyfriend. And that guy was WAY lame to say O well shes hotter" that's really mean. and then 5 min later tries 2 kiss u!!! I think you can do better. any guy who doesnt respect you, is not worthy 2 be your boyfriend.


~lucky

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Hi,
I'm with my boyfriend for close to 4 years now. We met when I was 15 years old and been dating more on and then off. We've had our fair share of problems; my parents didn't approove of him before 1 year ago (he was into drugs, blablabla.). Anywho, we've been on now for more than a year but have serious issues.
When he broke up with me at first, we both went with someone else. Thing is, when he asked me if I'd been with anyone else, I told him the truth. When I asked him tho, he denied it until 2 years AFTER, when I found out by someone else. That really hurt me and affected my trust issues with him.
Now, he's turn into this big possessive guy. Meaning, I can't even talk to guys when he's around or else he freaks out. He says I flirt with eveyrbody but I've always been social even when I was without him. I feel like I'm ignoring a ton of people whenever he's around because I don't want to get him mad. If I talk to a guy ( A FRIEND ), he gives me these dirty looks that make me feel very unconfortable. Once, I was talking to a 30year old man, we were kidding around and my boyfriend got really mad so I stopped talking to that man for the whole weekend. My boyfriend, although, receives phonecalls from one of his 'female friends' almost twice a week but I can't say anything about that. She's only his friend (I'm sure, too) but it bothers me also. Whatever he does, it's always less important than what I do. I talk to a guy and it's the end of the world but when he talks to a girl, I can't say anything or else we get into an argument.
We argue almost every week but I really love him - he's my first real love. He doesn't like when I go out with the girls into bars or that I dance at a club because he says I want some attention and I shouldn't want some since I'm with him. When I dance or go out, it's certainly not to cheat on him or to flirt and I need to reassure him every time. I can't chat on MSN because he get's paranoid that I might be two-timing him and that I might find someone else... (I still do it but without him knowing it.) Once, I wore a padded bra and he found out and wasn't happy about it. He just doesn't understand why I would want to wear it but I don't see anything wrong with it - I didn't even have a cleavage with that shirt. Also, he doesn't like me to wear low shirts or short shorts.. that I can understand.
He says he reacts that way about guys, clothes, whatever because he's scared of loosing me and he doesn't want me to go with anyone else. By the way he's acting... it isn't going well.
We've had some deep discussions about that and we always agree that we'd both change.... but that's what we do. We fight - we talk - we make up and then it starts over again.
I don't wanna end my relationship with him - I truly love him... but I need some advice.

I'm afraid his jealousy will tear us apart...
Tell me what I should do!!!

If you really love him, I think you should stay with him. but if this happends ALL THE TIME i think you should have a serios talk with him. because he shouldnt get mad when you go out into clubs, and hang out with your friends. Or when you talk in MSN because, your probably just talking 2 FRIENDS. If he really loves you, he'll let you do those things. but when he gets mad cuz your hanging out with other guys, guys get mad because they think your going 2 break up wit them. but he just doesnt want 2 lose you. So talk 2 him, and tell him your the only guy for me dont worry, those other guys are just my friends, and ONLY MY FRIENDS. If you cant trust me, maybe we shouldnt be 2gether, but I really care about u. If that doest work maybe you should break up with him.

~Lucky

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i am 15 years old going into my sophomore year and i have never been kissed and only had 1 boyfriend which we hung out but it wasnt like a real boyfriend, i use to do modeling and i was on the cheerleading team in middle school i know i am not ugly and people think i am pretty, some guys do like me and guys ask me out but i always turn them down, i have 2 older brothers and a little sister, my brothers are protective so i never want to have a guy around me or bring any guys to my house. is there something wrong with me? when people find out i havnt kissed a guy or done anything like that think i am weird or not likeable. but i do want a boyfriend i just have a hard time getting one i like, is anyone else like this? i dont know what to do!

I've never really had a true boyfriend either.Or kissed a guy. Wait u'll time will come. I promise. if your pretty, your bound 2 find a guy you like.


~lucky

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okay well i really like this guy and i know that he likes me and we are both really shy none of my friends know that i like him.Its summer and what do i do when i go back to school and see him again

It not your friends who r gonna choose who you go outt with. if you like him, ask him out.;)

~lucky

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I like this girl and our families are into the same things but im to shy to ask her out what should I do?

Become friends with her first. Once you become friend with her, youll ahve a better chance.Once she can relate 2 you, she mite feel the same way.
Thats all i got srry. Hope it wrks outt!


~Lucky

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Ok, I really like his guy and I think I'm going to dump my boyfriend for him.
I'm positive he likes me too by the way..
And we made this deal where we're saving our first kiss for each other, and I really want to kiss him. Should I make out, too?
Should I make the firts move, because he's shy.

Any help is loved =]

I would. If hes shy, he mite not want 2. Sooo yea. But if you liked the 1st kiss, make out wit him.

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Hi everyone, this is the first time im trying this site, but my situation has gotten so serious, i really need some advice from outsiders. Im a 18 year old male.

Alright, the situation is that at our college we have this group of friends that we all hang out in. We are all a pretty close knit group, go to the movies together, lime at each others houses etc.. In this group there are a few relationships, one of which is Julia and Danny. They were in this constant on and off sort of thing for 3 years, he would break it off to give her space and they used to fight all the time. One time when it was off, me and Julia started talking alot, some flirting started and she eventually told me she liked me and i admitted i did to. I had liked her but was always afraid to admit it. Anyways, things took off from there and everything was great. She still didnt want to commit so soon after ending a 3 year relationship..which i understood..so we just dated.

But then we started to do "stuff". Not sex, but nearly evreything except sex. And I am not the type of person who just gets into a relationship to do stuff. I really want to be comitted..and even though we do evreything a commited couple do, knowing that we werent really together and she still thinks about gettin back together with him really pulls at my heart.

I have really falling in Love with Julia, I do these spontaneous things around her that in never knew i was capable of and she makes me feel complete. I know it is not Infatuation cause i have felt that before with another girl and this is far different. And btw, we have been out for two months constantly now, and we find it impossible to argue with each other.

The real twist in our relationship now, is that now he really wants her back, and he is saying all this mushy stuff like "he is changed person and wil treat her better". HE USED TO IGNORE HER FOR VIDEOGAMES! and didnt make alot of sacrifices for her. I would sacrifice anything for her. and i mean ANYTHING. So now she is between two minds wether to hold onto the past or wether to move on to something new. And she was kissing both of us at one point...now she has stopped kissing both of us till she makes her decision. Plz give ur comments on this situation, I want to be with her so badly it hurts...and give her some advice too, and i will relay it..anything is much appreciated

Im kina young but heres my opinion: If the other guy treats her like crap, why does she want 2 be w/ him? I no he said he'll change, but what if he doesent? I hope she picks you cuz you sound a lot nicer, and i no u'll treat her well.Besides, if he doesnt change, she'll go back 2 you.

Best wishes =]

~lucky

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ok, i am 14f. i am dating this guy, that is kind of shy, but i really like him. We've been friends for a couple of years, and dated last year, but last year he was kind of selfish so we were friends this year, and he asked me out, i said yes. We've been dating for 2 and a half weeks, and last week he got dared to kiss me. He hasn't yet. I'm worried. I'm kind of nervous cause this is my first kiss, and i really do like him. help,
M.J.

Dont be worried. Kinda let him do it, cause its your 1st 1.Hope all goes well!


~Lucky

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. The first few months we started dating, he asked me the usual "virginity" questions and things like that.. I told him everything, BUT I added and took away things to make me sound ok. I still wasn't comfortable telling him everything.

After the drama of me being a "liar", I prayed, and realized that if I want this relationship to be the way it needs to, then I need to let him know EVERYTHING about me. Nothing should be hidden. So, at 4am (what a great time) I let him know.

8 months later, he has moved to my city for me, we'll be going to school together.. basically starting a new chapter. Everything is PERFECT.

I live in a VERY small town where everyone knows everyone and everyone likes to have something to say bad about someone. A guy that comes into my boyfriends store often came in to tell my boyfriend a handful of LIES about me. The things he said didn't derive from any truth.. they were literally made up off of the top of his head. My boyfriend knew this guy lies about a lot of things, but then someone I had never met before that was friends with the liar backed him up.

The liar is someone I went to highschool with, but never knew. I knew of him. The other guy I have yet to have ever met him, nor have seen in my entire life. Plus.. both guys kept saying to my boyfriend "don't tell her we said this.." That's pretty obvious to me that those were all lies.

I want to confront the liars without making a scene.

I feel like I'm 15 again.

Why can't people grow up, and why can't my boyfriend believe me??? I have been truthful to him since the one and only incident before.

I'm way past this nonsense drama. I'm ready for a future and I can't have this future here with people like that. I'm tired of people that I don't even KNOW stepping into my relationship and causing problems.

...I'm clueless.. Hopefully this will blow over.

Those guys are totally jealous that you have a boyfriend. Ignore them. if you and your boyfriend ignore the lies, they'll stop spreading them, because he doesnt belive them.


~lucky

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Well i kindaa have this problem like everytime i talk on the phone ot this guy i get really really horny and it makes me wanna plow him like everytime i don't know why and well this guy is my ex boyfriend what should i do i don't know if he feels the same way i need help whats going on why do i feel like this??

Well, its probably because he's your x. If he broke up with you, that's why you feel this. if you broke up with him, you probably did it because he makes you mad. and thats why you feel like that.Because hes annoying or w.e. but whether you broke up with him, or he broke up with you, you may just be that way, because he's your x. Its normal. dont worry about it.


~lucky

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hi. im 16 and i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for our one year. im madly in love with him and i want it to be something really romantic i dont know what to do. please help

Ask him what he wants! if you dont no, ask. Or get him a giftcard 2 his favorite store. Or 2 the movie rentals.

~Lucky

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lately ive just been so FED UP with my appearance i hate looking in the mirror because its not what i want to see =( everyone else is so much prettier than me or thats what i think. my hair bugs me it never stays right i wish i was tanner i wish i was everything else..

i know im not DEPRESSED or i dont think so but maybe just jealous of every other girl. and i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend and it kills me everytime i hear her name because i know that i cant have him

also my parents have been telling me that i need to go do other things rather than come home go on the computer go to my cousins (my best friends house) and then when i get home get back on the computer! they are telling me i need to get out of the house and go with my other friends but the only problem is i dont have many OTHER close friends i can hangout with..

my life just seems to be going completely wrong.

ahh! what do i do? i cant live like this anymore..

well, you and my are officially twins! It feels like everyone else is sooo much prettier than me! I wish I had blonde or brunette hair, cuuse i have red. I am the pailest thing. i want a tan, but i cant, cuz ill get burned. Im on the computer like 24-7 2! and my parents bug me about it.Plus i only hav like one close group of friends. My life is messed ^^^. But that's why I started this advice thing. It gets my confidence up when i help someone. What you need is to do something you love. A sport, team, club. anything. once you feel like u belong somewhere, you wont feel like that. And you are pretty. so dont say youre not. I mean, ino i want a tan, and a different hair color, but you have to except you 4 who you r. Because you're not going to change. And one day, you'll find a guy that likes you for who you r. Guys can be weird, and only like girls for stupid things, like your chest, or how skinny you r. dont give up. And FYI their r lots of girls outt there who feel the same way!

Hope i helped

~lucky

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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay?

I think your bi.

~Lucky

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I was at my friend lillys house for her 15th birthday with a few other people. Everything was great we were doing manicures and making prank calls. But then it got really late and everyone got a sugar rush and were bouncing off the walls it was crazy! Well I was sitting on top of Lillys dresser next to her cousin Jenna and all of the sudden Jenna started rubbing my feet and telling me how soft my skin was....it really weirded me out. Everyone laughed like it was a joke...but it didnt seem like a joke to her. She looked kinda like my boyfriend does right after we make out. Should I be weirded out by this? I'm going to her house again on tuesday and her cousin will be there, and I'm kinda scared...should I be? Hellllp!

I dont think you should worry. Some people look serious when they do something funny. She was probably joking around. If she does it again, tell her to stop, because it makes you fell unconfortable.

~Lucky

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so i have a real big problem..i dated this boy for about a month and it was real intense but then he just dropped me out of no where and i was hurt and i never fully got over him so then about a month and a half passed and i started talkin to my old boyfriend and we started dating again and things were going great and then he all the sudden popped up again and started talkin to me again and i know i still have feelings for him and he told dat he had feelings for me still and now i don't know what to do i don't know if i should tell him how i feel about him or just try my best to get over him and try to work it out with my boyfriend? i really need some help if you give me good advice then i'll give good rates

I think you should tell your boyfried how you feel about the other guy. Tell him that you just never really got over the last guy.If you still ahve feelings for him, go for it!

~Lucky

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okay, ive been thinking about what i am...straight, bi, lesbian. and i dont know.like i think i am bi but im not sure. i found out the other day that my ex is bi and that made me think alot about myself. like if i did anything wrong or something. but i dont know. i think i am bi. but i dont want to be, cuz if i am, then my friends and family would hate me. im only 13 an usually when kids are younge and say the arent straight, people usually dont take them seriously and say "oh your straight, your just saying that to get attention" well im not trying to get attention. im just confused.

Im only 13 2. personally, I dont belive in labels. It's not a matter of who you want 2 be. Its a matter of who you r.And nomatter what your family could never hate you. they're ur family! anf if your friends are really your friends, they wont hate you either. If your bi, your bi. If your straight, your straight. Be who you r, not who you wanna be.

~lucky

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