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Wat shuld i do?
so i have a real big problem..i dated this boy for about a month and it was real intense but then he just dropped me out of no where and i was hurt and i never fully got over him so then about a month and a half passed and i started talkin to my old boyfriend and we started dating again and things were going great and then he all the sudden popped up again and started talkin to me again and i know i still have feelings for him and he told dat he had feelings for me still and now i don't know what to do i don't know if i should tell him how i feel about him or just try my best to get over him and try to work it out with my boyfriend? i really need some help if you give me good advice then i'll give good rates
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some guys are like this,when they see that you desperatley like them more than they do they dump you and go to their friends and be like "oh you shoulda seen how hard she was crying about me"hes just playin with you cuz he has nothing eles better to do and wants the attention and to proove that what i said is true,when you went back to your old boyfreind he popped outta nowhere and talks to you...it all means that he thinks he lost what he used to play around with and has nothing to brag about now and he cant tell his freinds that you got a boyfreind or eles theyd laff in his face.thank god youve only gone out with him for a month,if it was any longer than that itd be even HARDER for you to get over him.dont bother talking to him and when he says hi just pass by him as if you didnt hear.and dont worry youll get over him because time heals everything.you didnt even get to know this guy good enough,it was only a month.hope you get over him :P
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I know it's hard but you have to get over that other guy. He hurt you once before, your current bf didn't. Chances are he'll do it again, you don't really want to feel that pain again do you? If you do you're crazy, and chances are he'll do the same thing again. So my advice is be happy with the person your with, and forget the other guy. But before you forget him have some self control over yourself, walk up to him, and ask why.
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~~
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I think you should tell your boyfried how you feel about the other guy. Tell him that you just never really got over the last guy.If you still ahve feelings for him, go for it!
~Lucky
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If he just dropped your relationship out of nowhere last time, chances are he will if you date him again. If you're happy with your current boyfriend, stick with him.
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Well this is a tricky one.
I guess it all depends on how you feel about your current boyfriend, for starters.
And it also greatly depends on wheather or not this other guy is going to cut-and-run on you again. If that is a possibility, I would steer clear of him. You have feelings for this guy, and if he ditches you again you will feel all of that sadness and hurt again, and it may be worse than the first time. So you definately don't want to set yourself up for disaster.
However, if you think he REALLY means what he says about his feelings, and things aren't working out with your current bo, maybe give him a second chance.
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Okay look I'm going to tell you what to do but you're not gonna like the solution very much but you have to do it unless he's gonna think you're cheap and he's gonna use you. Don't tell him how you feel and turn him down..look he left you suddenly and you didn't do anything to him and mostly you didnt do anything wrong . so why would he leave you like that and your old bf took you back that means he really does love you..forget about that other dude trust me. my best friend was put in the same position now shes goin out with a guy n he loves her alot! like he could die for her..she's been hangin out with that other dude that left her as friends and when he asked her back she didnt agree or she didnt answer even though she still has feelings for him..guys have bad thoughts and guys have little thoughts and if you go back to him 1st you're gonna lose you bf and he loves you..2nd he's gonna concider you a cheap girl..so trust me when I tell you don't go back. I know what's gonna happen. Nimo
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