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okay so ha, i went out with this guy last year and it didnt work out but we're still friends. we've gone out with other people since but basically i like him again and im pretty sure he likes me. he stares at me totally and completely, he doesnt even care that i see. he talks about me all the time and crap like that. and last week he brought up our former relationship to one of my friends.
so i have 2 questions: 1)he always talks about me like guy-talk or w/e. like "i wanna fuck her" and shit like that. and i cant tell if he actually likes me and thats the guy part coming out or if thats all he wants. b/c wen he was talking to my girlfriend, he told her if he had a gf he'd want it to be me, but then when he was talkin to my guy friend, he is all like "i dont wanna date her, i just wanna 'fuck' her" and "oh, she wants me so bad"
and 2) i sit w/ him every few days in class like when i feel like it as just friends and i dont know if i should continue or if i should just play hard to get...but when i sit with him and his guy friends talk about other girls, it kinda seems like he tries to purposely not too. and his friends give me looks and stuff...idk its just confusing, i want him to chase after me, but at the same time im afraid if i stop giving him any attention at all then he'll just be like "screw it" so yea..it would help getting some feedback from a guy. thanks!! :) (link)
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its kind of hard to tell if he really likes you for you and not just for your body. it seems to me like he's trying to be cool in front of his friends. he doesn't seem like someone you should date.
but if you really want to date him, you should be straight forward with him. guys sometimes do like the chase, but all that does is prolong things, which sometimes doesn't work out. if you like him, just tell him
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ok so last year, i went to my middle schools first dance.well my friends and i were kidding around and we randomly chose him for me to like for the year. of course we knew it was just a joke. so for the night i pretended to like him. he was in my homeroom and i sat besde him and we became really good friends.about halfway through the year i started accually liking him.so we like ALWAYS sat together at lunch and in classes so i got the impression he liked me too.at the end of the year i told him that i liked him and aked if he liked me too.he said that he didnt think of me that way and we were just reall good friends.so for the rest of the summer i was depressed and by the time we had to go back to school i hadnt talked to him.well i have science class with him and he is constantly flirting with me.i was talking to him one day and he asked me who i liked. i told him that i wasnt going to tell him because i hadnt even told my best friends. he was like, "its not me is it? because that was really weird" i leid and told him it wasnt him. he is really confusing me and its really hurting me. wat can i do? (link)
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ehh it depends..its a tough situation. let me just ask you this...what grade are you in? (so i know about how old this guy is, so i know what he's thinkin)
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ok so i have a long list oof love life stuff i NEED to talk about with someone... is anyone interested in helping me out? (link)
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i'd be more than happy to help you out as well..
i could give you the guy perspective on situations
drop it in my inbox as well if ya need
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my bf and i last night talked about what we daydream and stuff not exactly text sex/sex put like him taking off my shirt and where i would touch his back and chest and stuff like that. we both really liked it and got turned on and thought it was sexy but the thing is we are really good Christians and we are wondering if it was wrong that we did that. can anyone tell me what they consider this? its not sex but is it 'unholy' i think it might have been kinda bad but i still really liked it. what should i do?? thanks so much :] (link)
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thedarkestside is definitely on the money with this one. the other answers are a bit misguided. if you know something is a sin, you shouldn't keep doing it and just plan to repent for it. that's not what God is looking for. you've gotta control the temptation the best you can and trust God to give you the strength. its definitely easier said than done, but i think in the end, you'll see its worth it
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i'm 16/f. i really like this guy who's a year older than me and i know he likes me too. we hang out at school some and after my soccer games. we've only been on one date - out to dinner after a game. he's not a christian, and i'm a very strong and dedicated christian. he's into partying. i'm not at all. he's already hinted about having sex, i'm for sure saving myself until marriage. i really like him, but is this too much of a risk for myself? i might be able to help him change for the better, but i might end up being brought down. i'm really not sure of what to do right now. any advice would be helpful. please give me some honest answers. thank you so much! (link)
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i agree with HiChick 100% word for word. i just wanted to give you a Bible scripture to back it up.
(2 Corinthians 6:14-16)
14 Do not be joined to unbelievers. What do right and wrong have in common? Can light and darkness be friends? 15 How can Christ and Satan agree? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 16 How can the temple of the true God and the statues of other gods agree?
hope i helped
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how can you tell when someone wants you to kiss them?
whenever im with my boyfriend i can never tell so im never sure if i should or not (link)
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there really isn't a "bad" time to kiss a guy other than if he's with his friends (if he even cares). i dont mean to make guys sound like dogs, cuz not all of us are, but if you surprise a guy with a kiss or just kiss him out of the blue or if it feels right at that moment, he's not gonna mind. just don't overdo it unless you can definitely tell that he wants to kiss you back. good luck!
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I have a best friend and we are extremely close. She had a boyfirned for only 3 months..and he broke up with her. its been about 3 months since they broke up. well we are frineds still. and he IMed me the other dayand wad like do you want to hang out. and i said sure. so we were driving in his car for awhile at night and then he wanted to kiss me. so he did we hooked up. well now i feel horrible becuase that was my best frineds ex. i mean we never made a pact to get wit each others exes..but she already got wit two other guys since the break up. i need help please..what should i do... (link)
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i think that you should ask her if she's over the guy and if she says yes, ask her if she would mind if you got with him. if she says yes then great, but if she says no, say something like "i know we agreed not to date each others exes but since you've already gone out with 2 other guys since then, can i please give it a shot with (insert name here)?" If she still doesnt want you to do it, then i would suggest that you dont unless you're ready to lose her as a friend.
and about telling her about what happened...its always best to be honest with each other but that can be hard to do. so i'd say tell her if you want to but if its too hard dont worry about it until later. hope i helped and good luck
HM911
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19/Male...There is one girl in my Accounting class that I am attracted to. We are in the same lunch line every day right after class, but it seems like every time I am about to talk to her, i freeze up. I still haven't said one word to her. What should I do to break the ice? (link)
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15/m i kinda struggle with that problem too sometimes. But i realize that this is such a stupid problem. Being attracted to someone doesn't mean you have to sweep her off her feet the first time you talk to her. What i do is i would just say something like "it's nice the way the weather hasn't been that bad lately" or "it's unbelievable how cold it is outside". You could also say this to her one day.."excuse me miss, but are you in (teacher's name) Accounting class at (time of class)?" Then when she says yes, say something like, "how did you find that test/quiz we just took?" (You'd probably wanna wait until after you take a test/quiz). After she responds, say something like "i'm sorry i forgot, my name is (your name) by the way". She'll tell you hers and then you'll start talking pretty naturally. I know it's a bit long but I did my best. Hope I helped and Good Luck! HM911
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okay well this boy that i like is going to the dance this friday and i've been meaning to ask him if i should give up on him.. or if he is going to give me another chance... how does this sound to you...
(i'm gonna ask him to dance and he will say yes if i go up and ask him myself... ) then while were dancing i'm going to say to him " okay i need to ask you a question but you have to give me a straight answer and a truthful one or else it will be useless for me to even ask you =] so .. i wanted to know if you are going to give me another chance soon like in the next month or should i move on and not wait for you to come around" is that good.. should i switch anything around?
thanks in advance =] i always give 5's for a try =] (link)
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Being a guy, i like that plan alot. That kinda sends him the message that you want him, but at the same time, you're not gonna sit there and wait forever. The only thing is he might tell you that he needs to think about it and get back to you. That pretty much means that he wants to see what his friends think. If he tells you that he needs to think about it, ask him why he cant tell you right now. Tell him that you dont want to wait and get your hopes up if he's not gonna give you another chance. Good luck and hope i helped! HM911
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apperently i have a major problem with leading guys on? but thats not the worst part...the worst part is not being able to just be straight up with a person telling them "i dont like them like that" even saying it nicely "your a great guy,we should deffinitly hang out sometime but a friendship is all i can offer you" is just way to hard to say sometimes. so ever since i broke up with one of my exes we have been tight, and i love being friends with him...problem he asked me to chill this weekend and i said i couldnt b/c of exams next week, so he was like what about over winter break, we should go to the movies sometime" n now we are close friends so i was like yeah sure and he goes "alright so its a date" um i kinda like froze n iwas like "yeah um i have to go" how the heck do i get out of this one... i mean i love this kid to death...as a bestfriend! help! (link)
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Before i start, i'm a guy just so you know.
Ok so wait..do you want to get out of going? or do you want to get out of going as more than friends?
Here's how to get out of going as more than friends or making it a date..
The next time you guys talk about the movies like when you're going to go, just be like "we're just going to the movies as friends right?" Then if he says yea then you say "ok good just making sure." If he says that you guys were going out on a real date, say "i'm not really interested in dating right now. i just wanna be friends." That should work.
Here's how to get out of going altogether..
All you have to do is make up some kind of excuse why you cant go. "i have to babysit. i'm going out of town. i got in trouble and now i cant." Any of those should work.
Good luck and hope i helped! HM911
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ok so there is this guy that i REALLY like..and i talk to him online a lot and tells me im really pretty and stuff..and i think he's really hott but i dont know what to say back to him? because instead of telling me im hott he says that im pretty and beautiful and stuff which i really like because its not insensitive like saying im hott is..so whats a sweet way to tell him he's "hott" or fine or whatever?? (link)
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all you have to say is "right back at ya". i know guys aren't usually called pretty but at least he'll get a laugh out of it. or if u don't want to say that u can always say "your quite attractive yourself"
hope i helped! HM911
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I really like this one guy he flirts a whole bunch with other girls but he respects me more then the other girls as far as i know. do u all think its better to be respected of flirted with? (link)
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it is definitely more fun to be flirted with, but it is far better that a guy respects you. don't worry about it. if it is meant to be, it will happen. hope i helped! HM911
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