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ex's=hurt
I have a best friend and we are extremely close. She had a boyfirned for only 3 months..and he broke up with her. its been about 3 months since they broke up. well we are frineds still. and he IMed me the other dayand wad like do you want to hang out. and i said sure. so we were driving in his car for awhile at night and then he wanted to kiss me. so he did we hooked up. well now i feel horrible becuase that was my best frineds ex. i mean we never made a pact to get wit each others exes..but she already got wit two other guys since the break up. i need help please..what should i do...
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Ive been in a situation similar to this one before. I know this may be hard to do but tell your friend what happened. If shes really your friend she'll forgive you. Plus if its been three months and shes seeing other guys shes probably over him, so hopefully there wont be any jealousy issues.
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well ask yor friend beacuse friend are more important tell her is it ok if i went out with your ex if ex then tell her your going tout with him if not brea up wiht him but also tell your friend email me and tell me wat happened
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Hey,
I think that the right thing that should be done, is for you to go up to her ,and ask her in a very natural and cool way if its fine with her if you supposedly dated her ex and started a relationship with him, and if she said that its okay with her, then you don't have to feel guilty or sad anymore, and you can date him,make out with him and do all you want ,and know that its cool with her. But if she said that she would feel uncomfortable and that its not something that she;d want you to do, then just as quite as you went out with him and made out with him, break up with him and tell him that by what you are doing,then you are betraying your freind and not being honest to her. Because believe me, to have your best freind, is so much better than to have this guy put between you to ruin your friendship, which i am sure is really important to you, because your freind loves you and cares about you, and according to how she would feel about you dating her ex, you should make sure to make her happy.
So if you need any other help or advice, please be free to contact me.
Goodluck,
xoxoxoxo
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If you tell your friend she may not forgive you,you can't go back,fix the mistake but the only thing you can do is not to make the same big mistake,and make yourself a better person.Trust me that you'll be a whole lot better.
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Tell the truth. Tell your best friend that something happened between you and her ex. She may not have a good reaction, but you'll feel a lot better letting her know how bad you feel about it and that if it bothers her you will end it in a heartbeat and I hope you will end it IF she is bothered by it.
Whether she's been with 5 peole since the break-up or nobody, she may not be over this guy yet. She's probably doing what every vulnerable girl does after a break-up, having fun dating other people to get her mind off of her ex. I just want you to know that you can't be upset with her if she becomes upset about this. You don't have to make a pact in order to not hook up with ex boyfriends. Girls don't hook up with their exes because it's out of respect.
I know that you aren't a horrible person. You just need to come clean to your friend and apologize even if shes screaming or crying, that way you can feel better about this.
-TheTeenGirl
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i think that you should ask her if she's over the guy and if she says yes, ask her if she would mind if you got with him. if she says yes then great, but if she says no, say something like "i know we agreed not to date each others exes but since you've already gone out with 2 other guys since then, can i please give it a shot with (insert name here)?" If she still doesnt want you to do it, then i would suggest that you dont unless you're ready to lose her as a friend.
and about telling her about what happened...its always best to be honest with each other but that can be hard to do. so i'd say tell her if you want to but if its too hard dont worry about it until later. hope i helped and good luck
HM911
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