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So, i've been going through some crap. i'm a freshman, and at the beginning of the year i was in a show where i met a bunch of seniors and juniors and sophomores and other freshman and became friends with them. one of them i immediately had a crush on and his name was david, and he's a senior. he's had a girlfriend for almost a year now, but the girlfriend is a sophomore and she is SO oblivious to what is going on around her and she has no social life and she studies all the time, and she's not a very sexual person at all though her boyfriend is. so by the time the show ended, we were all really good friends. a few weeks later, i started another show with some of them, and david was in it and we grew to be even closer. we used to talk online every night about stuff. keep in mind, now, that he didnt get all that much from his girlfriend. after awhile, things began to get a little out of hand online-i told him that i do masturbate, and that's where it kind of took off. we started to like do it together online, and it wasnt all that bad, but it still was wrong. and we told each other everything and talked about sex all the time and fantasies we have and who we'd like to have sex with. he would compliment me all the time, and tell me i'm beautiful and that he would love to have sex with me someday, but he would never do anything right now because i'm so much younger than him (he's 18, i'm 14). so this went on 2-4 times a week, and it slowly got like more intense and we would say what we were doing as we did it and i dont know what made me do it because i know it was stupid and all but i had a huge crush on him and he made me feel so good about myself. and he used to kid around all the time about sending naked pictures. until one night when he actually did. they got more and more "risky" each picture he sent and by the last one was just like him naked and it was so fun but so wrong! and he asked me to do the same..so i said i would..but i was so afraid because im self conscious and naked pictures are just a bad idea in general. so the next night i did it and sent more teasingly pictures than completely naked ones, and he sent more, and the next night we did it together at the same time and did the whole cyber thing. he also sent a video and asked me to do the same the next night..i was so stressed out every day because i didnt want to take the pictures but at the same time i did and i loved his compliments and i wanted to please him and a video would be just awkward you know? but the night before we did he went to a party, got drunk, and kissed another girl and had to tell his girlfriend and it was this big to do so i told him we need to stop and we did. so then i was like alright we'll still be close and all will be well. yeaaaa right. he didnt talk to me that much at all and he told people he was sick of me and he totally ignored me for a week and during that week i figured out from talking to other people and through whats been going on that he was just using me and he never actually cared about me and was only nice to me and pretended to be my friend so id send the pictures and cyber with him at night. not only did he do this to me, he started to do this with another girl within the past week. and shes 14 too. it sucks and it hurts a lot and he IMed me this morning and said "you are really mad at me huh?" and i just let him have it and i felt so great but he was sweet and said he really does care and really is my friend and all and feels guilty and like..w'ere going to talk later tonight..and i still like him..and i dont know what i should do now! not be friends with him anymore? be aquaintances? be friends? let it all go? be mad or upset? i'm so confused. sorry this is so long, but any help/advice would be greatly appreciated!:) (link)
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I would avoid him at all costs. This guy is sick
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Okay well as we all know Valentines day is next Tuesday..
I want to get my boyfriend something obviously but i don`t know what to get the boy i mean serioulsy i don`t want to get him a stuff animal cuz he don`t seem to like those,Candy he won`t eat and cards his grandpa reads then makes fun of him..
Also colonge won`t work cuz i just recently bought him some.. So if you have some idea on what to get i`d be happy to rate you.. ♥Dez (link)
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Well, do you know what he's inerested in? LIke me, for instance, I'm getting my bf a pair a autographed drumsticks b/c he is a drummer and really likes that kind of stuff. So you could find something he's interested in and get something that has to do with that. Hope this helps
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Hey okay well i am wondering what are some things I could do to make my good features stand out and make me look prettier? I know a few things but what can I do with my face/hair/body, etc. I use makeup and I know how and all that. If it helps i am sorta pale, brown hair, and hazel eyes. Make-up tips i guess, etc. Just ways to "accent" my prettyness if you get what im saying. Sorry this is confusing but ill RATE! Thanks in advance! (link)
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You and I look alot alike. I have found that using darker eyeshadow brings out my eyes and it looks really nice. Not black or anything, I use a dark purple, mixed with blue and a little light gray. I also use a pale pink lip gloss. To dark and it makes me look like I have big lips.
Hope this helps
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okay so there is this guy that I like who likes me back but he is kind of pushy when it comes to sexual activitys I have tried to tell him to slow down but he keeps pressuring, still. I dont want to end things with him, I feel that I need him in my life. Im just so confused about him.
Plz help me with this. how do I tell him that im not ready to do the things that he wants me to do without offending him? (link)
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WEll my friend, we'll call her Kaylen, has the same problem. I personally think that if he is going to act like that, she should drop him like a hot potatoe.
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hey my name is jess i really like this kid john. He told me that he liked me but also this other girl. I told him i liked him and ive been waiting for him to make the next move. Im scared that if i let ut my true feelings to him he will say that he likes that other girl more. its soo hard sitting hear waiting for him to actually tell me if he likes me or not. i dont just wanna ask him because its wierd. someone please help me
thank you,
jess (link)
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Well, im my opinion you should just tell him. I had a guy i liked that liked me and another girl. I told him how I felt and he felt the same way.
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In your opinion (meaning that if you tell me what you think you'll get a 5), do you think that people should miss out on church in order to do yardwork, study for an exam, play in a soccer tournament, etc? I just want to know what qualifies as an acceptable excuse for not going to church. What other good reasons are there for missing church? -no I'm not trying to avoid going to church-
Thanks! (link)
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WEll, since I am a strong christian girl, i find that unless your sick, or are not at home, you should go. You can study afterwards, or do your work. As for sports, it is more important to learn in church than to win a game. hope it helps
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I don’t know what to do anymore, my life seems to be dying slowly even though I am alive. I don’t want to live anymore; I have imagines everyday of me jumping out my window. My life just seems all messed up. It may seem like nothing to you but all my problems put together are just killing me little by little. No one understands. Today I came from school all upset I couldn’t take it and told my grandmother I don’t want to live anymore. She got mad, called my mom and dad and was yelling at me telling me how lazy I am. She kept saying I’m just a lazy person that wont get anywhere in life without studying. She kept yelling and talking and now her and my mom got into a fight over this. My grandma tried to make this all seem like she’s the victim and I’m taking advantage of her. She kept saying with a grandchild like me the one who cries for every little reason she should just take an overdoes and die. Why on earth would she say all these things when she knows how I feel about life! I go to her are you crazy you bitch, don’t you understand why I want to kill myself you are one of the main reasons. I don’t have a main reason its juts that I’m very unlucky, I have really low self cofidecne, some people tend to make fun of my face, since I have acne and put a lot of cover up on. Which hurts the most because I had acne for about five years and I tried everything, I went everywhere, took her pill possible, and nothing works. It’s like a long rode that never ends no matter how hard you try. You keep running and running until you think you got to the end but it just keeps on going. That’s how my life feels. Now we got new teachers and new students in our classrooms. I hate most of my classes, and most of all I hate my math teacher. Now I’m really bad at math I mean really bad I don’t even know what 7 times 8 is unless I think about it for half an hour. Yeah sad I know. Hes really mean and trys to bring people who are not as smart as him down. I tired getting out of his class but my counselor is such a bitch! She told me to come early to school today so she could change my singing class since they put me in the wrong one. They put me back to the one I already took, so I would be learning everything all over and I passed her class with a 90. I come back at the end of the horrible day I had and she tells me the teacher said its okie and I can stay in that class. I was like butt … she stooped me and said theres nothing I can do. I was like but wait im learning everything over again I don’t understand. She goes yeah I know but then we would have to change your whole program I was like sooo you do it for everybody else. I know shes just a fucken lazy bitch that needs to get fired, Counselor my ass. I don’t know what to do! I hate schhol and wanna quite im only 16 but I don’t see school in my future. My grandma makes me feel like shit about this but I don’t know what to do!!! Please help and don’t say talk to her because that wont work ill just end up killing myself faster. I don’t know what to do with my life. Please answer if you ever felt like this about school and juts ur whole life and tell me what you (link)
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I have had this same problem. I had things falling aparty in my life. I never smiled, never felt like doing anything, and my friends and family were all like, just get over it. I did have one friend that cared tho, and he helped me get back on my feet. Mow I'm a straight A student, and getting better. If you ever want to talk, leave me a message at my advice colum.
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My bestfriend and I used to have a wonderful friendship. Well recently she has done something to really make me question our friendship. I told her to go to the nurse for me to get some pads( i didnt want to do it because i've been there more then two times already) and I did the same for her a couple of months back. But she told the nurse that they were for me, eventhough i specifically told her not to put my name in it. So we got in a big argument over it. So later that day we had track practice. And i really needed the pads but she wouldn't give them to me. Fortunately I got them from someone else. But the fact that she was willing to let me just leak at practice really made me question our friendship. I need some guidance. I don't know what to do from here. Should I stay with her as a best friend? What should I do about the situation? (link)
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I have had a lot of problems with my best friends. Some have been like your problem. I say make up with her, but maybe not ask her to do things like that anymore. Something like that isn't used to lose a whole friendship over, trust me.
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