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i really need help
hey my name is jess i really like this kid john. He told me that he liked me but also this other girl. I told him i liked him and ive been waiting for him to make the next move. Im scared that if i let ut my true feelings to him he will say that he likes that other girl more. its soo hard sitting hear waiting for him to actually tell me if he likes me or not. i dont just wanna ask him because its wierd. someone please help me
thank you,
jess
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Well, im my opinion you should just tell him. I had a guy i liked that liked me and another girl. I told him how I felt and he felt the same way.
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Yeah, you could get someone else to ask him. Yeah, you could sit around waiting for him to come to you. But you're worth more than that. This guy should be CHASING you. Sounds to me like he wants to keep his options open in case one of you says 'no' to him. Forget about him and find someone worthy of your time!
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Well he told you he likes you, and you told him you like him so just wait cause he will soon realize you should be together. Don't bother him about who he likes more cause then he will get aggitated, and then tell you that he doesn't like you anymore and that he likes the other girl more. Think about it this way, would you want someone going...who do you like more over and over again? I wouldn't so don't do it to him. I hope things work out for the best!! Well, I hope I have helped!
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Why wait around for him? He knows how you feel and the ball is in his court. There is no reason for you to torture yourself sitting waiting by the phone and or computer to hear from him. Go out with your friends, talk on the phone about things not related to him. Find something fun to do, have a snack. See that there are lots of other cute boys for back up in case this doesn't pan out. He likes more than one girl, there is no reason for you to only like him.
Live your life, don't worry about him for right now. Who knows, maybe that will make you more attractive.
You will feel better not making yourself sick worrying about this boy.
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I think you should have a friend ask him. Then he won't think you're weird but it will probably get the answer out of him. Do you have any guy friends that he's friends with? Guy friends will usually do better in this kind of situation.
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