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I was wanted to know if girl like guys that are kind, nice, and polity. anserw and i give high rating. (link)
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Yes. Rather, they should. If you think someone likes you because you're hot, they are NOT the right girl. They should care about your personality, if you sympathize for them, if you're always there for them. But these days, guys and girls just look for if you're hot... hope I helped... good luck!
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OK, well im 14 and still havent had a b/f yet. Is there like smething wrong with mme? Im affraid I wont have a b/f the whole 4 years of highschool. Thanks! (link)
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Ah come on, now don't degrade yourself like that! Some people aren't even ALLOWED to date until they're like 15! Trust me, you're not odd! I'm only 13, but I've never had a date, and neither have any of my friends, and it doesn't look like we're gonna get a girl for a looooong time. Believe me, someone will come eventually. Just don't try to find them. Pretend they don't exist. You'll know when the time is right.
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well there is this guy in my class, matthew, hes a goth. well he seems to always talk to me, and at lunch my group sits near his group, like 6 meters apart. and he sits with his girlfriend but he seems to look at me alot. in class today he went "I love your eyes" and he always strokes my hair..and smells my hair...2 of my friends said he likes me...does he like me? can you give me some tips on how to tell if a guy likes you?
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From a guy's point of view, yeah, he likes you. I mean, the first thing aguy will point out is how deep your eyes are, followed by your hair... it all makes sense. It all fits together. He definitely likes you. But a lot of us guys are too shy to say that we like people or ask them out, so howzabout you go and ask him? Oh, wait... there's his girlfriend... I really want to help there. I really do. But I don't know anything on that topic. =( Sorry... hope I helped!
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okay..i asked a question a few days ago listing everything that makes me think that the kid i like likes me back..everyone who answered said that it was obvious. now..my best friend is supposed to ask him who he likes..he keeps forgetting..but he will..eventually. i want to hang out with my crush a couple times before i tell him..but my weekends have been booked. so my question is..should i
1. wait to tell him after i hang out with him eventually?
2. wait to tell him after i find out if he likes me or not?
3. both 1 and 2?
4. just go for it.
also, finding the right opportunity is also a problem. when i do tell him..how should i go about it? (link)
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4! 4! 4! 4! 4!!!!!
I can't make it any clearer! Go with number 4!!! It hurts me so much to see all these guys and girls wondering if thir crushes like them, and they just wait and wait and wait and they never do anything about it!!! I was you one time. I had the biggest crush on this girl. She was one of my best friends before the summer when I realized my true feelings. You know what I did? I waited. Stupid. I asked my friend what to do. No help. It was burning up inside me. Actually, it was because of that that I discovered Advicenators. =D But anyway, I couldn't take it anymore. It was bugging me so much. I was losing sleep. It was unbearable. So I told her. Well, no. I was too shy. I could've called her. Too shy for that too. E-mailed her. Still nerve-racking, kind of cowardly, but it got the point across. No, she still only likes me as a friend. But that's not the point. Most of the time, it's successful. My sister says she's just in denial. Why should it be any different in your case if he says no?
Sorry... I get sidetracked. A lot. Just tell him that you like him!!! Please, it's hurting me... hope I helped, good luck!
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i like my friend from school but i dont know is she likes me back what should i do? (link)
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Heh... if you're into modern tradition, you're going to hate me and rate me a 1 for this, but I gotta say it... what I did was I just told her how I felt! Everyone was telling me not to tell her how I felt, but to just ask her to the movies. Good thing I didn't, because she only liked me as a friend. Besides, little did I know, she was in Greece at the time =D Anyway, if you're too shy to tell her like I was, you could always just send her an e-mail... for those of you who were wondering, that's how I contacted her in Greece. And boy am I glad, it was so nerveracking to tell her by e-mail, imagine how it would've been in real life! Whew... scary thought there! Just tell her exactly how you feel. And make it sound poetic. Girls like that. I quote Coach Z: "It's jest lahk a great sports play. Yeh cayn't just rush inter the score zone! Yeh'll get clabbered! Don't jest git her a flah-wer. Git her a rayer flah-wer! Frem theh tawlest mownten!" What I'm saying is, don't just say "I think I like you." Describe what it feels like. Say that you're in a swirling pink mist of happiness whenever you think about her. Then, ultimately, at the end, ask if she likes you back. That's what I did =D Hope I helped, good luck with her!
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Okay this is pretty unlike me and I know I'm gonna sound retarded, but this weekend me and a few of my buddys are going to the mall and they're are always reeeeeaaallll fine girls there and even though I'm not a bad looking dude (shallow?) I always never have any courage to approach them, any suggestions? I would be mucho greatful =) (link)
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Most girls---scratch that, ALL girls---hate pickups. You won't get a single girl like that. And if you do, it will be for the wrong reason. You shouldn't get a girl because she's hot! Looks don't matter! It's their personality, and if the feeling is true. I would never try to get a girl for looks. Even if they don't look so great, I wouldn't find any random girl because I need a girlfriend. Only ones I have feelings for.
You're still here, aren't you? Why? Ah well, you're not going to go away until you either get pickup lines or see my downfall on Advicenators. I reccomend going to goodquotes.com, it has a lot of pickup lines. They're completely dreadful, which makes them work so well. They make the girl laugh. You'll be pictured as a funny guy. Girls like funny guys. It has things like, you take out a screw that you conveniently placed in your pocket, hold it out to the girl, and say, "Wanna screw?" That one's my favorite.
Also do a google search for "cheesy sleazy pick-up guy" it's really funny, he says all these sleazy pickup lines (he even has his own theme song!) and you get to like slap him or something.
Google! Why didn't I think of it before? Ferngully recently created a guide to using google.com in hopes that there would be less questions like these. I guess it's not working eh? Hope I helped!
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How can you get one of your friends to like-like you and to ask you out besides flirting because we already do that and stuff. 13/F (link)
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You really want to know? By asking him out already!!! Who says girls can't do that? Ask him to a movie and say that you want to do that as more than friends. I'm serious, it might work! And if something goes wrong and he says no, things will be awkward. I can tell you that right off the bat. After you get really tired of the awkwardness (trust me, you will) tell him how awkward it was and say that you should just forget it ever happened. Easy as that. Hope I helped, good luck with him =D And everyone else who says it can't be done, screw them. Don't get your hopes down. I believe that you can get any friends (of the opposite sex) to like you! Good luck!
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alright guys. well. tonight i think i'm going to the movies with my boyfriend. and he wants to see into the blue. you know the one with jessica alba and the REALLY hott guy with the nice 6pack abs? alright. well the problem is that if we go i know the whole time he'll be like in his head thinking goddamn she's so fine blahblah about jessica alba. but i'm not like that when i'm with him. and i bet that later on he'd tell me how hot she looked in different sceens and stuff. so i'm like... well i'll see if i can go to that one even though i really don't want to.
i really don't think thats a "couples" movie.
thats like. horny guy alone. do you agree?
and if like you were me (if you're a girl) would it bother you that like he'll talk about that stuff after the movie, when he know's that you wont talk about how hot the guys is?
please help as soon as you can. (link)
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Hrmm... I have no idea who you are or why you randomly decided to ask me this as a Private Question, but OK. I hate to turn town a Private.
Well, is he the sort to go looking for "is she hot?" I mean, if I ever get a girl, I'd probably dump her as soon as she started talking about how hot some guy in one of my classes is, unless she means a lot to me. Movies, fine. Whatever. It's not like she'll ever get a chance to go out with Daniel Radcliffe anyway. So try ignoring it. Or if its getting WAY too bad, start talking about Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt. That'll get him thinking, and when he decides to ask you why you're suddenly so obsessed with them, tell him the truth. (Note: This one will NOT work if you're not the hot&sexy-obsessed type. Go figure =P)
Actually, that's not such a bad idea. Just tell him the truth straight away. The truth is the best thing. People always told me not to tell the one I'm after how I felt. But it was burning up inside me. I had to tell her that she was more than a friend. The truth helped. And it's applicable anywhere.
So, I hope I helped! Good luck with the movie
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Is it true if you ignore a guy, chances are he'll want you more?
It sounds strange, LOL.
Guys, they never seize amazing me. (link)
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Ok, first of all, huge typo that will prevent confustion of so many people you're talking to. You said we never SEIZE amazing you. To seize something is to like take it, hence the phrase "seize control". You're thinking of "cease" which means to stop. We never stop amazing you, not take amazing you =D
Anyway, English class is over. Time for your answer. I really don't know, I mean this girl is sort of ignoring me and she knows for a fact that I love her a lot a lot a lot, and so I'm constantly staring at her and stuff in the few classes we have each other, and I guess I'll be more proud of myself if something goes right because it's not just take five minutes to get a girl and then ride bikes or something. But I would be very happy if she just said yes plain & simple. Ignoring him is just going to cause him much frustration and anger and stress and he'll eventually go into a state of depression and not want to go on living. Depression this great can turn the biggest class clown (aka me) into a boring serious student who never cracks a single joke, like that episode of South Park where everyone took Riddlin. Sorry, I get sidetracked a lot. But the point is, don't ignore him! I hate it! It's so annoying! Tell him you like him! Hope everything goes well between you two, good luck!
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I need your opinion:
I have been love for four years.
I am 17 now.
Some people say I'm too young and others say that seventeen is ld enough to know what you want.
I've always been mature for my age and when I told everyone I was in love at fourteen, needless to say, they didn't believe it. But it has been years and I am still in love.
Do you think I'm "old enough" to be in love? If I am, then wasn't I old enough when I was fourteen because back then, I was sure I would be in love forever and I still am. (link)
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Dude, in my opinion, as soon as you're out of elementary school, you can love. I'm in love, and I'm 13! It's not any of that infatuation crap, I've felt that. You can love at any time. Plus a good way to see how mature someone is, is by checking their Advicenators.com grammar =D And you are definitely mature, if you used good spelling and grammar as well as identifying how people think you're too young.
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Alright there is this girl i really like her she is funny and beautiful and all that good stuff but i don't know if she likes me to. Well i want to know what is the best way to go on about this. (link)
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Aww =) I was in the same situation last month! =D Except for she knew I liked her, a lot, and she wasn't sure herself if she thought of me as more than a friend! What I did, was I brought up all the courage I could muster, and I just asked her out. Of course, I'm a very shy person, so I asked her out via e-mail... that was easier... hope I helped, good luck, I'll be rootin' for ya!
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ok...i really like this guy...abd he likes me too...he told me him self...but i think h is too shy t ask meout...what can i do so he will ask me out? or do i have to do it myself? lol thank you and i do rate...as long as you dont bull shit me! (link)
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Ask him out!!! Please!!! For my sake!!! It hurts me so much when I see a girl waiting for the guy to ask her out! Listen. A lot of us guys are shy. Shyer than you are. Definitely. If you want to do anything about it, ask him out!!! I know I'd like something like that to happen to me some time!!! Hope I helped, good luck, and ASK HIM OUT!!! =)
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mmkay so i have the biggest boobs in my grade and guy sare always looking at them instead of my face. adn it rele bothers me. is there anything that i could do to make them stop? i mean like my friend had a pool party and i had to stay in the water the entire time cuz guys wouldnt stop. it rele bothers me.i mena likke sum guys only like my boobs and not me. (link)
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Wow, those guys are pervs. I'm a guy, but I don't go around looking for boobs and sex. I look for love, which you obviously do too. Not many teens do that anymore. These days, a teen just wants sexy, hot, and boobs/dick. I congratulate you for that =D
Anyway, I'm just going to tell you what I saw on Monk one time. Someone was filling in for Sharona, and she was wearing a really suggestive shirt. Whenever someone looked there, she would just stop whatever she was saying and go, "Whatchu lookin' at? Mah ahze ah up heah!" Try doing that =D Except without the accent. Or if you get really pissed, cold shoulder always works... hope I helped!
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im 15 and i am girl need advice on how do you break up with a guy you have been dating for a year and four months because you dont like him or love him anymore and i dont have an explaination why??...HELP!!..he thinks it because of the hurricane and me loosing everything i had but its not ..my feelings were this way before that..and we are taking a break right now but he doesnt get the terms "TAKING A BREAK MEANS"...and i have basically created a monster..because i never get to hangout with my friends anymore or doing anything but be with him and its getting old and soo is the relationship because he takes it way to seriously considering we are only 15 and 16..he thinks that im "THE ONE" ..and wants to spend forever with me??..and there will never be another girl for him???..soo i need advice on how i should break it to him in a way that it wont hurt him that bad and we can still be friends!! (link)
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*gasp* I THINK I HAS THE SOLUTION!!! I never thought I'd say this to anyone, considering how I'm against it, but I think that you were both infatuated, and now he's just infatuated for a bit longer... infatuation can be extremely strong. Try telling him exactly what you told us? And put in the words "but I hope maybe we can still stay friends" eh? Hope I helped, good luck, no nukes can save the whales!
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i have a question for the guys:
do you like it better when a girl just straight up says i like you? or would you rather just ask the girl out yourself because i really like this guy and he knows who i am and everything but im afraid that if i tell him that there will be an awkard vibe and he wont like me back and things wont be the same. what should i do? (link)
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This may just be personal, but I hate making a move. I'd prefer it if she were to ask me out. You remember those little kid Grammar Rock videos? Remember the one with Mr. Morton, and how Mr. Morton is the subject of the sentence, and what the predicate says, he does? One of the last lines of that song is how Pearl proposed to him. I quote: "Who says women can't propose?" People always say, the guy asks the girl out. Hell, ask him out! Say that you like him straight-out! It'll make him soooo happy!
As for asking him out, everyone tells me to write a note, so I guess that works, but what I did was I asked her out on the web. As for rejection, it's the worst feeling in the world, but it's short. It's either that, or have "does he like me?" lingering above your head forever. And ever. And it'll be hell on earth. Hope I helped, good luck!
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okay...i just got out of a relationship and it ended very badly. i fell in love with him and hes been saying very mean things to me and im finally over him completely. theres this other guy that im friends with and ive been thinking about him a whole lot and im really starting to like him and hes really nice and hes got such a great personality. im just scared to fall for someone like i did last time and get hurt and go through all this again..even though i do trust this guy that i like. should i go for it or keep waiting? (link)
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Go for it. It sounds like it would make him very happy. And I'm probably not saying this just because I either did or didn't tell one of my best friends that I liked her and she may have just happened to have gotten out of an unfortunate relationship that could have ended badly, and I'm certainly not saying this just in case you are that girl and I most definitely am NOT incinuating that you should say yes as a personal safety factor.
OK sorry about that, just had to get it out of my system. Anydangways, go for it. If you feel that you can trust him, you should go for him. If he's nice and has a great personality, he's perfect! If he's ever asked you on a date, say yes!!! If not, call him up this instant and ask him out!!! I'm sure he *cough* would love it!!!
Hope I helped!
-Dakmor
Edit:: Ever hear that song "Listen To Your Heart" by D.H.T.? You should, it can really help at times! What I reccomend doing is finding a song that best fits what you're feeling; when I was feeling all crapped out one time due to love, I just found The Longest Time by Billy Joel and realized that he wasn't singing it---I was.
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this is written like its for a guy but girls can answer if they switch it around
lets say you like this girl rite
but she doesnt like you
she found out you like her but she told you you guys should just b friends rite now because she doesnt rlly kno you that well
ypu said ok wutever but you were really thinking "oh my gosh, this sucks but now i have to think about how to get to kno her really well so shell like me"
so now in skewl the next day (after she found out you like her) its awkward
but the next day you flirt with her but she doesnt flirt with you
or talks to you or nething
then you find out she likes another guy
but yur still flirting nd shes not doing a thing
would you get over her or would u keep trying to get to kno em??
thanks mwa bye (link)
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HOLY $#@! I'm feelin the same thing! Except for the bottom 3 lines, everything you said is happening to me! What I reccomend doing is... er... what I did was... honestly, I don't know. I was going to tell you to do what I did, but what I did was I came to advicenators... let's see, what did the other advicenators tell me to do? Try meditating... that's what one guy said... someone else said to try and get over her... but that doesn't work very well... try meditating, and maybe asking her out to give it a try? Keep gettin' to know em! Don't get over her if she feels like the one! As they said in that Power Rangers thing from when we were four... "may the power protect you!"
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hey this is kinda embarassing but im 18 and im a virgin! most girls my age have lost there virginitys at age 14! i feel so lonley and left out! so i lie and say im not! its not that i cant find someone its just that im so picky! i want it to be special and want to be in love! wat should i do? should i lose it with some guy i dont know? or wait for the special one? and is this wiered? i really need some advice! i lie to so many ppl and i feel bad! i want to be honest with my friends but im to embarassed!
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babyll873 (link)
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Mate, your friends are screwed in the head. 14 years? Seriously!
Anydangways, thre ain't nuttin' wrong with that. Personally, I don't intend to finger, play, mess, or have fun until I'm married! Which will probably be college or after! There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, you're definitely not weird! Tell them to mind their own business, it's nothing to be embarassed about!
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can someone help me out why do good things happen to bad people ? (link)
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Ooh. I notice this is in the Love Life catergory. I think I know what you're talking about. So if I'm wrong and it wasn't supposed to be a Love Life question, feel free to give me a 1 if you please, it would mean I wasn't technically answering your question.
Since you didn't specify a gender, I'll just say you're a girl. Anyway, what you're trying to say is that you (liked, had a crush on, loved) a guy, but so did some (slut, biotch, jackass). That guy went for the (slut, biotch, jackass). Right? Well, he went for her for one reason: he was a jock, I bet. Jocks always go for the preppy, popular sluts & biotches. It's just the way of the stereotypes. If he wasn't a jock, I'd have to say that he wasn't really feeling it with you, but he had feelings with the (slut, biotch, jackass). I'm reallllly sorry. But if he was that cruel, he obviously wasn't good enough for you anyway! He doesn't deserve to get a girl! Keep livin' on. As they said in Bye Bye Birdie, you've "got a lot of livin' to do." Hope I helped, good luck!
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hi. ok so i like this guy, he found out, he doesnt like me as much but he likes me as a friend. since he found it its been a little more awkward like he doesnt flirt AT ALL nemore but i do still a little. he likes his X (she broke up with him) should i give it time or get over it? he doesnt dig me rite now though for sure. (link)
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Three words: Start a conversation. Be friendly. Ask him to a movies. Girls are allowed to ask guys out, no matter what they say. I guess this was more than three words.
Ok, sorry, I completely took that joke from Strong Bad. BUt still, I think you should ask him to a movie, and keep with conversations. And I'm feeling the same way, last year one o' my best friends, she's completely hyper, we used to joke around a lot, but after I told her that I like her, we've been a lot quieter around each other... which really sucks. It's a lot harder to find conversations with people you like than with your friends? Seriously, we've been having the most pathetic conversations on AIM lately. Ok, sorry for the sidetrack. Movies, conversation, friendly. I guess that's the three words from before. Good luck, hope I helped, donate to Hurricane Katrina victims, no nukes can save the whales, etc etc etc, this is Dakmor, signing out!
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