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when should i tell him?
okay..i asked a question a few days ago listing everything that makes me think that the kid i like likes me back..everyone who answered said that it was obvious. now..my best friend is supposed to ask him who he likes..he keeps forgetting..but he will..eventually. i want to hang out with my crush a couple times before i tell him..but my weekends have been booked. so my question is..should i
1. wait to tell him after i hang out with him eventually?
2. wait to tell him after i find out if he likes me or not?
3. both 1 and 2?
4. just go for it.
also, finding the right opportunity is also a problem. when i do tell him..how should i go about it?
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I can't make it any clearer! Go with number 4!!! It hurts me so much to see all these guys and girls wondering if thir crushes like them, and they just wait and wait and wait and they never do anything about it!!! I was you one time. I had the biggest crush on this girl. She was one of my best friends before the summer when I realized my true feelings. You know what I did? I waited. Stupid. I asked my friend what to do. No help. It was burning up inside me. Actually, it was because of that that I discovered Advicenators. =D But anyway, I couldn't take it anymore. It was bugging me so much. I was losing sleep. It was unbearable. So I told her. Well, no. I was too shy. I could've called her. Too shy for that too. E-mailed her. Still nerve-racking, kind of cowardly, but it got the point across. No, she still only likes me as a friend. But that's not the point. Most of the time, it's successful. My sister says she's just in denial. Why should it be any different in your case if he says no?
Sorry... I get sidetracked. A lot. Just tell him that you like him!!! Please, it's hurting me... hope I helped, good luck!
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Stay positive......if you think he likes you then your probably right. it is your decision...what makes you feel most comfortable? Waiting for your friend may take time...so I would say just go for it....it will not hurt to ask.
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Just go for it it wont hurt. He obviously is to afraid to telll you so maybe if you wrote him a note or something then he will write back and you wont have to worry about it anymore. I think that you best chances of finding out right away is if you ask him upfront.
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Hey!
I think you should just go for it. Guys love confidence and if you show that confidence he'll be jumping for joy!
Maybe he's been wanting to ask you, but been to shy.
After all, what have you got to lose!
Good luck! xxx
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