okay...i just got out of a relationship and it ended very badly. i fell in love with him and hes been saying very mean things to me and im finally over him completely. theres this other guy that im friends with and ive been thinking about him a whole lot and im really starting to like him and hes really nice and hes got such a great personality. im just scared to fall for someone like i did last time and get hurt and go through all this again..even though i do trust this guy that i like. should i go for it or keep waiting?
Dakmor answered Friday September 16 2005, 9:06 pm: Go for it. It sounds like it would make him very happy. And I'm probably not saying this just because I either did or didn't tell one of my best friends that I liked her and she may have just happened to have gotten out of an unfortunate relationship that could have ended badly, and I'm certainly not saying this just in case you are that girl and I most definitely am NOT incinuating that you should say yes as a personal safety factor.
OK sorry about that, just had to get it out of my system. Anydangways, go for it. If you feel that you can trust him, you should go for him. If he's nice and has a great personality, he's perfect! If he's ever asked you on a date, say yes!!! If not, call him up this instant and ask him out!!! I'm sure he *cough* would love it!!!
Hope I helped!
-Dakmor
Edit:: Ever hear that song "Listen To Your Heart" by D.H.T.? You should, it can really help at times! What I reccomend doing is finding a song that best fits what you're feeling; when I was feeling all crapped out one time due to love, I just found The Longest Time by Billy Joel and realized that he wasn't singing it---I was. [ Dakmor's advice column | Ask Dakmor A Question ]
Xo_GiulMare_oX answered Friday September 16 2005, 6:48 pm: Go for the guy you like. jus remember....even tho they're really hard to find, there are sum hot sweet funny rich guys out there....and not all guys are the same...
coolwater answered Friday September 16 2005, 6:15 pm: "The future belongs to the people who believe in the beauty of their Dreams" Follow your heart! Jus think about it... Do you think this new nice boy will treat you friendlier and most civilized and mature? Do you love this boy? Is he the one you're after? Is he in your heart? If its a "yes" to all of those questions, I suggest go for it but if you don't think he's right for you then that's a good opinion of yourself. either way you turn, you'll be happy and I KNOW it! See, if you turn your back on him, you'd be waiting and you don't have to worry about those mean things. But if you go for it, you'd be very happy with the boy you adore and love. Whne he breaks it off or you break it off, if he's that friendly and trustworth yand all out great guy... he won't say mean things to you! So I think you should go for it from what you've described about him! Go for it and let your heart lead the way. Hope my advice helps. If you want, please save me as one of your favorite columnist! That would be awesome. Stay cool.
++coolwater [ coolwater's advice column | Ask coolwater A Question ]
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