ok i am going out with this guy, and it is going good expect one thing!!!!
he NEVER talks to me!!!!!!!! like we talk on the phone but it is like all silent and everything!!! and then when we are on yahoo we talk all the time and stuff!!! and then at school we dont talk but we give each other eye contact and when i am in the hall way he will come up to me and like pump me and will say o i didnt see u there and stuff ina funny way!!!!
but i just dont know if it is going on the wait track!!!!!!!
i like him a lot too!!!!!!!!
so can anyone help????
How long have you been going out? It doesnt seem like you to comfortable with eachother. He might just be shy. Maybe you hould just stay friends a while til you know eachother better and can actualy talk in person. Or g out on a date with just you to so you can talk and be more comfortable. Hope it goes well.
Jess
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So when i was younger i was really popular.
i was friends with all the boys and i was really cool.
then i did something by accdent and everyone was against me. i made new friedns switch schools and everything was okay i guess. i would see the people that went agaisnt me now and then and it would be akward but whatever. now a boy who is really popular and cool and who i was friends with when i was cool is switching to my new school. its going to be really akward and am really scard !! what do i do??
Well there are two things you can do. Just ignore him, if you have a big school its easy.
Or just talk to him, it shouldnt be that weird, if you guys use to be friends maybe he misses you. Catch up on things. who knows maybe you could be friends like before.
Jess
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Okay so my state (TN) has decided to mandate that every student K-12 get 90 minutes of excersize a week. Well they are using our homeroom time at my school to do just that. I think it is incredibly stupid because its not the school's responsibility to tell us what to do as far as excersizing goes. It is so damn retarded I can hardly stand it. I HATE coming to school now. OMG as if it wasnt bad enough LETS THROW IN SOME EXCERSIZE!!! Plus my homeroom teacher is strict with the rules, so if we dont do these excersizes every morning, she will write us up. I dont feel like I can talk to her because she wont understand. And I cant sit there and object while everyone else is doing it because that will draw negative attention to me. I get enough attention as it is for being fat. And thats not the reason I dont want to do the excersizes. It's just that 15 minutes is a long time for someone who is as heavy as I am and its embarassing to have my fat jiggle around for the whole freaking class to watch and laugh at. I would much prefer to excersize in PRIVACY where I dont have to worry about what I look like. High school is bad enough as it is. I think this is pure torture and I really want to refuse to do it. But I dont want to bring negative attention to myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? and what is your opinion on our new state law??
So as i see it your main concern isnt that you dont wanna exercise its that you dont want people to watch you do it. Well just go to your guidence cousolur( if you have one) or maybe a nurse or principal, sombody you can talk to and maybe set up a diferent time or a different room that you can do it so not everybody is watching.
hope it helps
jess
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ok so this guy that ive known for years just asked me out. were best friends, and i know i kinda like him, and he likes me. i just dont want a relationship to ruin our friendship. what can i do?
Just straight up tell him that you don't want to be anymore than friends because you have such a strong friendship.
Or you can try it out and be in a relationship.Maybe it will make both of you realize your better off as friends. If it goes further than that just take the risk. you only live once.
Jess
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How do I tell if he likes me and he has a girlfriend that dosen't go to the same school?
Well he does have a girlfriend so he may just be flirting cause thats what all guys do when girls arent there. But if there relationship isnt real stong and there gonna break up then myabe you have a change.
jess
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okay. so i have a bunch of friends..well its more like a clique at my school that im in right? so 3 people in the clique are like reallllllly close to me and the others are my fRIENDS but we're not that close.
Well today i just found out that the clique of friends im in, hung out last friday and are having a MOVIE FRIDAY thing.
When i found out this had happened, i began to ask myself "Do they like me?" "Am i Mean" "What am i doing wrong?"..and this is really driving me crazy bc i feel reallllllly left out. and the times where i try to hang out with the 3 people im close to, they're busy with the rest of the people in the clique.
I cant like move on, bc we've all been friends for so long. you know? & besides the rest of the cliques are filled with wierd nerds hahaha(no offense)
what do i do?
omg please help me
To start of, you might not care but cliques just equil problems. I think they are really a waste of time. Pluse then there is always that one person (like you) who will always get left out. (i have been there before) You may not want to leave them and you dont have to but you can always be friends with outher people outside your 'clique' and hang out with them too if the clique is leaving you out.
If thats not an option for you then just confront them about it. Straight up tellthem you are feeling left out and ask why you arent getting invited. If there making up some lame excuses or lying, or tell the truth and just say they dont want you there, then there not very much good of friends and i would get rid of them. Its not worth hanging on to something useles. But hopefully you will all be able to take care of the problems and hang out together. Try to become closer to the people in the clique you arent close will so then they will like you more and invite you.
Jess
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I did bad on my midterms so far and Ive only gotten 3 out of 7 back. On my english exam, I got a 93. But on my math exam I got a 59% and my french exam was a 68%. My grades have been good all year..Im just not good at testing. How do I tell my parents? Im really scared to tell them because theyre already worried and they dont want me to go back to my old ways (failing) like I did last year. Any ideas on how to break it to them?
mid terms are hard. Pluse they put so much pressure on you that you get really stressed out during that week. So just tell them that it was really stressing but you tried your best and your sorry and will try to improve on it.
Jess
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Okay, this guy Karl in my biology class likes me, but I don't like him the same way. I mean he's a really sweet nice guy and all, but I don't know what to do. My friend told me that he likes me, and later in Bio. class i heard people her across the room talking with him and two other people about it. I pretended I did'nt hear anything because I was so far away. but anways, If he says anything about it to me, what should I do? I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?
Also im female and 16
Say what you just said thats he is sweet but you just dont like him like that. Deffinatly DONT lie because it will just heart him more when he finds out you really didnt like him. it might be hard but everyone get reject atleast once in their life.
Jess
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ok so im a freshman in high school (15 yrs old) and like every weeekend someone in our grade has a party at their house.. and of course there's drinking. a lottt of people go.. and it's always the thing that everyone is talking about the week after that in school.. i havent gone to any yet.. but i really want to. what are some tips to like "fake drink" or only drink a little?
If you dont want to drink alot then dont. You dont have to drink just to be cool. And if you dont wanna drink then just dont go to the party at all.
Jess
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theres this dance at schoo and these two girls who like me im afraid are going to ask me to dance with them.i really rather wouldnt dance with them but i want to go to the dance. any advice to help me avoid them?
Dont try to avoid them that might make it worse. Just tell them straight up in a nice way that you dont wanna dance.
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what is most popluar place online, beside Myspace,magazines sites,
xanga is really popular.
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For high schoolers:
Were you able to keep your old friends and make brand new, more loyal ones in high school? To put it bluntly, it seems like everyone is dumb and immature in the eighth grade and I just want some sort of reason to tell myself that it'll all be okay in the end.
I give fives.
Im a Freshman this year. Yes you do lose friends. They either go off and make friends with other people of a differnt crowd or something happens and you get in a fight, but you also will make lots of new friends to .All people are differnt so you dont really know what will happen you just have to live each day and hope for the best.
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how do i make a myspace account private so that only friends can see it? i cant figure it out. thanks
Sorry but i dont think there is any other way but to make you age 14 or 15...
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my best friend and i are crushing on the same guy she loves him but dosent even like her and i told him i liked him and he might like me if he asks me out i badly want to say yes but at the same time i dont want to loose my best friend. what should i do?
Well you should talk to her about it. Be like well I want to go out with him but I dont want you to get mad at me and ask her how she feels. There are way more guys out there and one isnt worth loosing a friendship over.
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ok me and my best friend (guy) are going out secreatly and i was wondering if that is wrong to keep it even from my best friend. Should i talk to him and see if im able to tell a couple of really good friends? im 13 and a female.
**sleepiesheep**
i dont really understand why you have to keep in a secret in the first place. I think that if you are going out with somebody but dont want anyone to kno thats kinda weird ya know. Just tell your frineds there is nothing wrong with it.
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Hey i have read over your column and your excellant at giving advice!! but heres my question...
Im a freshman and i like this one guy thats in a couple of my classes, hes really cute and has had many girlfriends, but hes not like the other guys, hes quiet sometimes and nice and not perverted, he flirts with me somedays and others like completly ignores me, should i tell him i like him or get someone to tell him or should i just forgot about it?, im afraid im gonna get hurt because i might think hes being nice to me because he likes me or if hes nice to every girl... i dont know what to do..
Well i think you should deffinatly tell him but i think you should do it yourself. You dont wanna just forget about it cause i liked this guy last year and i always wanted to tell him that i liked him but i never got the guts to do it and now this year i never see him and i always wondered what he thought about me, and i regrt it so much. I think all guys are like that there is this guy at my school that and some days he flirts with me and some days he just doesnt care about me. If he doesnt like you back so what atleast you told him and you can probably still be friends he isnt gonna hate you for telling you how you feel.
i hope i helped ya out...
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ok so everyone at my school wears a thong. Tey tell me that wearing a thong is sexxy and it makes you cool.Well i tryed one on and i hated it. I could not stand it!! So I dont wear thongs. Not wearing one makes me look like a loser and i know im not one. plz help me and tell me if im sounding like a loser or if thats normal?
you dont have to wear a thong just becasue everyone elsedoes...nobody is gonna start to make fun of you for not wearing one and if they do then they have some issues cause its just underwear not the end of the world...
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Sorry ... i know its the wrong category
How do yu put icons in yur myspace?
you need to get a photo bucket...go to www.photobucket.com then find the icons you want and load them on the photobucket then after the pictures/icon is on there there should be 3 codes under it one of them is called tag...copy that code and past it into your myspace...
hope i helped...
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hey what does prep actuali mean ????
Its kinda a label...but it is more of a clothing style...like ambercrombie, american eagle, hollister..all the stores like that..
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Ok so in science right now im averaging a 68. He said im missing two papers (he never even asked me for them) and I got a 70 on a test. All the rest of the papers i got A's on. Does this average seem right?
it depends on how he grades you...if the papers you missed are a big grade then it might be right...just ask him y he gave you that and ask if you can make up the work you missed and ask if you can get half credit or somthing...
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