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okay. so i have a bunch of friends..well its more like a clique at my school that im in right? so 3 people in the clique are like reallllllly close to me and the others are my fRIENDS but we're not that close.
Well today i just found out that the clique of friends im in, hung out last friday and are having a MOVIE FRIDAY thing.
When i found out this had happened, i began to ask myself "Do they like me?" "Am i Mean" "What am i doing wrong?"..and this is really driving me crazy bc i feel reallllllly left out. and the times where i try to hang out with the 3 people im close to, they're busy with the rest of the people in the clique.
I cant like move on, bc we've all been friends for so long. you know? & besides the rest of the cliques are filled with wierd nerds hahaha(no offense)
what do i do?
omg please help me
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Why don't you just ask if you can tag along? If they really are your friends, they'll let you come no questions asked. Let them know you are rather hurt that they would leave you out of the groups activites. Maybe it was all a big misunderstanding. Give them a chance and tell them how you feel. I'm sure they will include you next time.
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To start of, you might not care but cliques just equil problems. I think they are really a waste of time. Pluse then there is always that one person (like you) who will always get left out. (i have been there before) You may not want to leave them and you dont have to but you can always be friends with outher people outside your 'clique' and hang out with them too if the clique is leaving you out.
If thats not an option for you then just confront them about it. Straight up tellthem you are feeling left out and ask why you arent getting invited. If there making up some lame excuses or lying, or tell the truth and just say they dont want you there, then there not very much good of friends and i would get rid of them. Its not worth hanging on to something useles. But hopefully you will all be able to take care of the problems and hang out together. Try to become closer to the people in the clique you arent close will so then they will like you more and invite you.
Jess<3
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definitly confront them about it. if they're really your friends, they'll be nice about and you'll get invited to the next one. if they're not, stay friends with the 3 closer ones and find a different clique, or better yet, don't be in one. its stupid anyways.
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go to the movie that they are going to and accidentaly run into them maybe theyll get the hint
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don't take this so seriously. cliques are really stupid & i realized this. i've been hanging out with a lot of guys ever since. don't get me wrong, i have a few close friends that i know won't ever do that. just go & ask them about it. that would be the mature thing to do & you can figure things out then & move on. hang out with guys! way more fun & way less drama.
-hope that helped!♥
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